Anonymous wrote:Here is an idea, talk to him.

Feminism is about humanism.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. He could have a girlfriend, but he’s not married. We hung out twice at his place, and I stayed the night at his place. I agree it was a little wrong to say that, but oh well. I was a little tipsy ( rarely drink), and I don’t sleep around, but I understand it’s hard for him to know that. He’s not religious or anything. He also has been very touchy since our first date. I did make a move after he laughed, but it’s not like I forced him. He’s the one that wanted to move from the couch to his bed, and we had sex multiple times last night. He kissed me this morning, but it was quick, and said he was “ too tired” for sex. I let because I had plans, and started to feel weird. He texted me “ How was breakfast” like an hour ago, but now I just feel weird.

It sounds like you’re acting just as weird as you perceive him to be. If you cancel your date tonight, you’re confirming an reservations he had. Maybe he wasn’t really ready for sex and he just went along because he was close to being ready and got caught up in the moment. Then he felt awkward I. The morning. Imagine how you’d like to be treated.

Sounds like she’s going to MeToo him in about six months.

You can argue that it’s overblown but that fear is animating many men these days even otherwise liberal ones. I’ve been a Democrat for 15 years and I still follow the Pence rule.

OP here. No MeTOO move for me. I’m a conservative. I’m not a feminist.

Anonymous wrote:OP, carry on with your bold and sexy self. Some of us men love women like you. If you're ever single again, let me know.

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Anonymous wrote:Maybe he was turned on so said yes but in hindsight is grossed out by you being conservative. Any woman (or person for that matter) who says she’s not a feminist is woefully ignorant about what feminism is. Maybe he doesn’t want to be with a woman who doesn’t think she should have the same opportunities as any human. I mean, that’s strangely self loathing and hateful.

Guy here. I've slept with plenty of women who say they are feminists and also women who say they disdain feminism. They both like and want sex about the same, all other things being equal. Can't speak for most guys, but I don't actually care what your political opinions are, and the less I hear about them the better. Your opinions won't gross me out because I'm basically tuning them out anyway. What I care about is that she wants to get physical, and from that point of view, the OP sounds perfect to me.

I don't know what's going on with the OP's boyfriend - performance anxiety? - but there are plenty of guys out there who have high drive if he doesn't.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. He could have a girlfriend, but he’s not married. We hung out twice at his place, and I stayed the night at his place. I agree it was a little wrong to say that, but oh well. I was a little tipsy ( rarely drink), and I don’t sleep around, but I understand it’s hard for him to know that. He’s not religious or anything. He also has been very touchy since our first date. I did make a move after he laughed, but it’s not like I forced him. He’s the one that wanted to move from the couch to his bed, and we had sex multiple times last night. He kissed me this morning, but it was quick, and said he was “ too tired” for sex. I let because I had plans, and started to feel weird. He texted me “ How was breakfast” like an hour ago, but now I just feel weird.

It sounds like you’re acting just as weird as you perceive him to be. If you cancel your date tonight, you’re confirming an reservations he had. Maybe he wasn’t really ready for sex and he just went along because he was close to being ready and got caught up in the moment. Then he felt awkward I. The morning. Imagine how you’d like to be treated.

Sounds like she’s going to MeToo him in about six months.

You can argue that it’s overblown but that fear is animating many men these days even otherwise liberal ones. I’ve been a Democrat for 15 years and I still follow the Pence rule.

OP here. No MeTOO move for me. I’m a conservative. I’m not a feminist.

You don't think women should have equal rights? Why not?

Your assumption that feminism is about women having equal rights is stupid and false.

At the core its the only thing that really matters. The disagreement isn't about the goal, its usually about the size of the problem and how to fix it.

The disagreement is about the goal, because the goal of feminism is not "equality" but female supremacy.

What? Where did you get that idea?

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. He could have a girlfriend, but he’s not married. We hung out twice at his place, and I stayed the night at his place. I agree it was a little wrong to say that, but oh well. I was a little tipsy ( rarely drink), and I don’t sleep around, but I understand it’s hard for him to know that. He’s not religious or anything. He also has been very touchy since our first date. I did make a move after he laughed, but it’s not like I forced him. He’s the one that wanted to move from the couch to his bed, and we had sex multiple times last night. He kissed me this morning, but it was quick, and said he was “ too tired” for sex. I let because I had plans, and started to feel weird. He texted me “ How was breakfast” like an hour ago, but now I just feel weird.

It sounds like you’re acting just as weird as you perceive him to be. If you cancel your date tonight, you’re confirming an reservations he had. Maybe he wasn’t really ready for sex and he just went along because he was close to being ready and got caught up in the moment. Then he felt awkward I. The morning. Imagine how you’d like to be treated.

Sounds like she’s going to MeToo him in about six months.

You can argue that it’s overblown but that fear is animating many men these days even otherwise liberal ones. I’ve been a Democrat for 15 years and I still follow the Pence rule.

OP here. No MeTOO move for me. I’m a conservative. I’m not a feminist.

You don't think women should have equal rights? Why not?

Your assumption that feminism is about women having equal rights is stupid and false.

At the core its the only thing that really matters. The disagreement isn't about the goal, its usually about the size of the problem and how to fix it.

The disagreement is about the goal, because the goal of feminism is not "equality" but female supremacy.