Anonymous
07/14/2019 22:30
Subject: Were you spanked as child?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:32. Asian. Heck yes. Korean immigrants do.not.mess.around when it comes to corporal punishment.
+1 49 yr old Korean immigrant. At least I never had to do the kneeling punishment.
Another child of a Korean immigrant here. My mother spanked the shit out of me. Sometimes she’s use a bamboo stick too if we whined about practicing piano and violin.
Anonymous
07/14/2019 18:09
Subject: Were you spanked as child?
45. Spanked on the bum with belt, hand or wooden spoon.
It just didn't really work for me and I think my parents realized that I could take a beating and not change and they didn't want to abuse me. I got old enough that I started behaving and not having to have the last word. I was the youngest. My oldest sister got spanked a couple times- she is very rulesy. My brother maybe a few more because he was a boy/tried more things. I got it the most because I was always up to something/not sympathizing with others when it came to my actions. Terrifyingly my youngest is the same so I know to not go there with beatings or I might not stop.
It just didn't really work for me and I think my parents realized that I could take a beating and not change and they didn't want to abuse me. I got old enough that I started behaving and not having to have the last word. I was the youngest. My oldest sister got spanked a couple times- she is very rulesy. My brother maybe a few more because he was a boy/tried more things. I got it the most because I was always up to something/not sympathizing with others when it came to my actions. Terrifyingly my youngest is the same so I know to not go there with beatings or I might not stop.
Anonymous
07/14/2019 17:35
Subject: Re:Were you spanked as child?
Anonymous wrote:41 years old. Spanked with bare hands by my dad and the wooden spoon/slipper /face slap by my mom. The last time my dad spanked me, I was 6 or 7 and it caused an injury that required medical attention (I don't want to get too specific, but think along the lines of broken teeth). I remember my parents being on edge about it, because obviously everyone, including the medical professionals, wanted to know how it happened. Both of them told everyone I was horsing around with my brother and fell down. I think they repeated this so often that they started believing it, although my brother and I both remember the incident. Somehow the injury came up in conversation a few years ago in front of other family members and I said what really happened and my mom was horrified. I will say I was a difficult child and can see why my parents lost their tempers with me. We have a good relationship now although they're in denial about a lot of stuff that happened early on.
This is not a mere spanking. This was abuse.
Anonymous
07/14/2019 17:25
Subject: Re:Were you spanked as child?
Anonymous wrote:29 and was spanked probably about 4 times total. Always for serious deliberate disobedience.
This is the stuff people tell themselves...they DESERVE to be spanked because they were bad. So sad.
Anonymous
07/14/2019 15:02
Subject: Were you spanked as child?
Yes; 29 years old and spanked with a belt until age 13
Anonymous
07/14/2019 14:28
Subject: Were you spanked as child?
Anonymous wrote:Not asking if you spank your kids, but did YOU get spanked, and how old are you? Curious when the decline in spanking started.
Yes, 46 years old. Don’t spank my kids, but don’t feel as if I was the least bit harmed by it.
Anonymous
07/14/2019 12:14
Subject: Were you spanked as child?
Anonymous wrote:50, swatted occasionally with a hairbrush.
Hit at school (private, secular) with a ruler. All kids at the private school could be paddled at the principals office if the offense was bad enough, unless the parents opted out. By high school only the boys were spanked with a paddle if they did something wrong. Most parents opted in and considered this a plus of private school.
I went to a private secular school. They did not hit students. The threat "if you misbehave we will throw you out and you'll have to go to public school" was enough to keep most misbehavior in check.
Anonymous
07/14/2019 12:09
Subject: Were you spanked as child?
50, swatted occasionally with a hairbrush.
Hit at school (private, secular) with a ruler. All kids at the private school could be paddled at the principals office if the offense was bad enough, unless the parents opted out. By high school only the boys were spanked with a paddle if they did something wrong. Most parents opted in and considered this a plus of private school.
Hit at school (private, secular) with a ruler. All kids at the private school could be paddled at the principals office if the offense was bad enough, unless the parents opted out. By high school only the boys were spanked with a paddle if they did something wrong. Most parents opted in and considered this a plus of private school.
Anonymous
07/14/2019 10:17
Subject: Were you spanked as child?
53, female. Child of immigrant parents.
Spanked ALL.THE.TIME. Or at least it seemed that way. Always on my bottom, always with a shoe, wooden spoon or hand. Never with a belt.
Last time I was spanked was probably 10 or 11.
I would say that the fear of getting spanked definitely kept me on the "straight and narrow".
Spanked ALL.THE.TIME. Or at least it seemed that way. Always on my bottom, always with a shoe, wooden spoon or hand. Never with a belt.
Last time I was spanked was probably 10 or 11.
I would say that the fear of getting spanked definitely kept me on the "straight and narrow".
Anonymous
07/14/2019 02:10
Subject: Were you spanked as child?
40, nope. DH is 44 and he wasn’t either.
Anonymous
07/14/2019 00:45
Subject: Re:Were you spanked as child?
47; yes.
Anonymous
07/13/2019 23:28
Subject: Were you spanked as child?
59. Yes with ping pong paddle. Hair brush. Fly swatter. “Switches” from the yard.
My abuser now is in a nursing home with dementia. She was shocked when I told her no way was she moving into my house. Karma.
My abuser now is in a nursing home with dementia. She was shocked when I told her no way was she moving into my house. Karma.
Anonymous
07/13/2019 23:11
Subject: Were you spanked as child?
I was beaten. Black eyes, fat lips, smacked, hit with belts.
Anonymous
07/13/2019 22:54
Subject: Were you spanked as child?
38, spanked by Mom frequently and 1 spanking, 1 slap on the face from Dad but at the request of my Mom. I deserved it though as I was a terrible child. Very, very terrible. My toddler is terrible and J am really trying hard not to spank. My oldest, a tween, is good and never gets any punishment.
Anonymous
07/13/2019 21:34
Subject: Re:Were you spanked as child?
41 years old. Spanked with bare hands by my dad and the wooden spoon/slipper /face slap by my mom. The last time my dad spanked me, I was 6 or 7 and it caused an injury that required medical attention (I don't want to get too specific, but think along the lines of broken teeth). I remember my parents being on edge about it, because obviously everyone, including the medical professionals, wanted to know how it happened. Both of them told everyone I was horsing around with my brother and fell down. I think they repeated this so often that they started believing it, although my brother and I both remember the incident. Somehow the injury came up in conversation a few years ago in front of other family members and I said what really happened and my mom was horrified. I will say I was a difficult child and can see why my parents lost their tempers with me. We have a good relationship now although they're in denial about a lot of stuff that happened early on.