OP, you should use the new internet to job search. So you can leave your husband. And definitely do NOT get pregnant again.

Op - is there a reason you're not telling people where you live? I feel like you are being deliberately cagey with details. And other posters are being deliberately rude with their responses.

You're getting wifi, so problem solved.

But where is the communication between you and your DH? If he's sitting in the same room with you, using data on his phone, how did it come to be that you are not permitted to do the same? Not understanding how you wound up so isolated, cannot gain access to the outside world except on super-restrictive terms, yet...you appear to be well-informed (NPR, news, streaming videos, etc). You moved to this place presumably for your DH's work and are growing your family. Did he force you to move there against your will?

To answer your initial question, yes, it is controlling.

Anonymous wrote:How are you posting this with no internet? Just chilling in the lobby all day?

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OP here. I posted once this morning. Some women love to bit**

How are you posting this with no internet? Just chilling in the lobby all day?

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Anonymous wrote:Before I lived with my now-DH (which was only a couple of years ago) I didn’t have Wifi. I would go to the library on Saturdays. I enjoyed it. I read more books. I took my dog on nice long walks. I learned how to cook things. I wasted so much less time. Why don’t you get a smartphone? That would be helpful. But you don’t NEED WiFi, no matter how much you think you do. There are so many other fun and constructive ways to pass the time.

Well bravo for you!!! We also admire your ability to COMPLETELY MISS THE REAL PROBLEM HERE.

Op here. Lol. She obviously did not have young children. I am bored to death without internet and tv.

I agree your husband is a controlling douche and you should probably leave him, but your fixation on tv/internet seems strange to me too. I was a SAHM to littles and I used very little internet and watched no TV. Kids are constant work and who has time for that? You will have even less time with two kids at home. You are lonely and isolated and married an a-hole, I get it. But Netflix is not the answer to your problems.

OP here. Wow so because you didn't use internet much or watch any tv every SAHM should be like you? I like watching the morning news or a program while my daughter is napping. There's nothing wrong with that.

Anonymous wrote:Tell DH you're getting annoyed by male tenants in the lobby propositioning you.

OP here. I am getting annoyed with the music in the lobby. They do not edit out the cuss words. Yesterday they kept playing that popular stripper song.

Anonymous wrote:And this is why women need to work.. wow

No, this is why women need to not marry ahole men.

At one point, I was a sahm, and not only did we have wifi, but my DH never complained when I bought something for myself.