Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
Says who? To the extent that houses with yards are bigger than apartments, I'd say that they're MORE likely to.
Home appraiser here - In the high Hispanic areas of the county, there are multiple families living everywhere - house, apartment, townhome, etc. 4-5 mattresses per bedroom is not unusual at all. This is 100% the reason there is overcrowding in schools located in these areas. MCPS doesn't recognize this and it's not a part of their calculations. They still use 25 year old models for estimating growth.
Anonymous wrote:
Says who? To the extent that houses with yards are bigger than apartments, I'd say that they're MORE likely to.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think it's because apartments are where section 8 housing vouchers mostly go. While I don't always agree with apartment = poor, our local school's rating dropped when a new apartment complex opened. The apartments aren't even that cheap, but I think they're the cheapest thing that low income people can afford in this area and multiple families are living in each apartment.
The 2 bolded are why people do not want apartments in their school zone.
Multiple families can, and do, also live in houses with yards.
But less likely to.
Says who? To the extent that houses with yards are bigger than apartments, I'd say that they're MORE likely to.
Anonymous wrote:because, in a high performing school, the "apartment kids" are generally underperforming with more behavioral issues.
it's common sense.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I really was uncomfortable when my DD had a playdate in middle school and I found out that the single mom's boyfriend was at home during the playdate. I don't mind single moms. I do mind boyfriends.
And this is different than a day or stepdad how??? Does signing a piece of paper magically make someone less likely to sexually assault someone? Do you just not like unrelated men around your child? How about male teachers??
Yes.
Mom's boyfriend being around is the single biggest risk factor for child molestation and abuse.
Actual statistics from a reputable source, please.
How do you not know the risks? They are well documented.
Children around a live in boyfriend are up to 20 times more likely to be abused than those who do not have a luve in boyfriend around:
https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.d2l.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/Statistics_4_Risk_Factors.pdf&ved=2ahUKEwjI_bjhwOjgAhVCd6wKHS_KCrgQFjABegQIBRAB&usg=AOvVaw2fuaE81szTqWTBBVXFl2Ch
The risks increase slightly with a step parent, but significantly with a live in boyfriend:
https://www.cachouston.org/child-sexual-abuse-facts/
https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3693773/&ved=2ahUKEwjI_bjhwOjgAhVCd6wKHS_KCrgQFjAEegQIBxAB&usg=AOvVaw2s4MLW94Fkb3LRKEYdDa9v&cshid=1551703329773
This is misleading. The PP suggested that she did not mind single moms, but she did mind a live-in boy friend. So that is the true comparison, not "single mom with a live-in boyfriend" vs kids living with parents.
The study was showing:
"Children living without either parent (foster children) are 10 times more likely to be sexually abused
than children that live with both biological parents. Children who live with a single parent that has a
live-in partner are at the highest risk; they are 20 times more likely to be victims of child sexual abuse
than children living with both biological parents."
This means, kids with a single parent that has a live-in partner is only twice more likely to be sexually abused than kids living without either parent.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I really was uncomfortable when my DD had a playdate in middle school and I found out that the single mom's boyfriend was at home during the playdate. I don't mind single moms. I do mind boyfriends.
And this is different than a day or stepdad how??? Does signing a piece of paper magically make someone less likely to sexually assault someone? Do you just not like unrelated men around your child? How about male teachers??
Yes.
Mom's boyfriend being around is the single biggest risk factor for child molestation and abuse.
Actual statistics from a reputable source, please.
How do you not know the risks? They are well documented.
Children around a live in boyfriend are up to 20 times more likely to be abused than those who do not have a luve in boyfriend around:
https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.d2l.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/Statistics_4_Risk_Factors.pdf&ved=2ahUKEwjI_bjhwOjgAhVCd6wKHS_KCrgQFjABegQIBRAB&usg=AOvVaw2fuaE81szTqWTBBVXFl2Ch
The risks increase slightly with a step parent, but significantly with a live in boyfriend:
https://www.cachouston.org/child-sexual-abuse-facts/
https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3693773/&ved=2ahUKEwjI_bjhwOjgAhVCd6wKHS_KCrgQFjAEegQIBxAB&usg=AOvVaw2s4MLW94Fkb3LRKEYdDa9v&cshid=1551703329773
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think it's because apartments are where section 8 housing vouchers mostly go. While I don't always agree with apartment = poor, our local school's rating dropped when a new apartment complex opened. The apartments aren't even that cheap, but I think they're the cheapest thing that low income people can afford in this area and multiple families are living in each apartment.
The 2 bolded are why people do not want apartments in their school zone.
Multiple families can, and do, also live in houses with yards.
But less likely to.
Says who? To the extent that houses with yards are bigger than apartments, I'd say that they're MORE likely to.
Opinion and facts are 2 different things.
Yup. So far, only people's opinions.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think it's because apartments are where section 8 housing vouchers mostly go. While I don't always agree with apartment = poor, our local school's rating dropped when a new apartment complex opened. The apartments aren't even that cheap, but I think they're the cheapest thing that low income people can afford in this area and multiple families are living in each apartment.
The 2 bolded are why people do not want apartments in their school zone.
Multiple families can, and do, also live in houses with yards.
But less likely to.
Says who? To the extent that houses with yards are bigger than apartments, I'd say that they're MORE likely to.
Opinion and facts are 2 different things.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think it's because apartments are where section 8 housing vouchers mostly go. While I don't always agree with apartment = poor, our local school's rating dropped when a new apartment complex opened. The apartments aren't even that cheap, but I think they're the cheapest thing that low income people can afford in this area and multiple families are living in each apartment.
The 2 bolded are why people do not want apartments in their school zone.
Multiple families can, and do, also live in houses with yards.
But less likely to.
Says who? To the extent that houses with yards are bigger than apartments, I'd say that they're MORE likely to.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I really was uncomfortable when my DD had a playdate in middle school and I found out that the single mom's boyfriend was at home during the playdate. I don't mind single moms. I do mind boyfriends.
And this is different than a day or stepdad how??? Does signing a piece of paper magically make someone less likely to sexually assault someone? Do you just not like unrelated men around your child? How about male teachers??
Yes.
Mom's boyfriend being around is the single biggest risk factor for child molestation and abuse.
Actual statistics from a reputable source, please.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think it's because apartments are where section 8 housing vouchers mostly go. While I don't always agree with apartment = poor, our local school's rating dropped when a new apartment complex opened. The apartments aren't even that cheap, but I think they're the cheapest thing that low income people can afford in this area and multiple families are living in each apartment.
The 2 bolded are why people do not want apartments in their school zone.
Multiple families can, and do, also live in houses with yards.
But less likely to.