Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Ditto on living where I don't want to
Same. I let DH talk me into moving here permanently instead of just for the summer when I got an important internship. Nine years later and I’m stuck in an ok government job instead of doing what I really want to do. And now we have kids who are deep into school and friends that I wouldn’t want to move and disrupt their lives even if I could. *sigh*
I mostly like it here and am pretty happy if I don’t think too much about how much I’ve given up to make everyone else happy.
I, I, I, I, I....you mentioned yourself 10 times. No wonder your marriage isn't happy.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Ditto on living where I don't want to
Same. I let DH talk me into moving here permanently instead of just for the summer when I got an important internship. Nine years later and I’m stuck in an ok government job instead of doing what I really want to do. And now we have kids who are deep into school and friends that I wouldn’t want to move and disrupt their lives even if I could. *sigh*
I mostly like it here and am pretty happy if I don’t think too much about how much I’ve given up to make everyone else happy.
I, I, I, I, I....you mentioned yourself 10 times. No wonder your marriage isn't happy.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Ditto on living where I don't want to
Same. I let DH talk me into moving here permanently instead of just for the summer when I got an important internship. Nine years later and I’m stuck in an ok government job instead of doing what I really want to do. And now we have kids who are deep into school and friends that I wouldn’t want to move and disrupt their lives even if I could. *sigh*
I mostly like it here and am pretty happy if I don’t think too much about how much I’ve given up to make everyone else happy.
Anonymous wrote:Living in America (we don't).
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Sex - nothing in 12 1/2 years
Why?
PP: ED issues and no interest on his part. I went into the marriage knowing he had ED/low drive, but didn’t anticipate no sex, at all, ever.
Why stay? That sounds unbearable.
Anonymous wrote:Interesting. No one mentions putting up with all the shit from their spouse.
Anonymous wrote:Ditto on living where I don't want to