Anonymous wrote:my ex-gf used to do like this - running away whenever we disagree on anything minor, started walking away or just leave the house, giving silent treatment in front of kids, etc. She used to get very angry and started arguing about little stuff and not understand her boundaries. Most of the time I was confused if someone can behave like this with you if they love you but ending it with her was the best thing I did in recent years.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I was going to respond and then realized I’m 99% sure that I’m the one that started this thread.
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Anonymous wrote:My husband has gotten out of the car in the middle of DC when he was mad at me, left the kids and me in the car, and said, “See you later,” and walked away. We did not know if/how he was going to get home, and I had had to keep driving because the light had changed and I did not want to make a dramatic scene in front of the kids. I took the kids home and fed them dinner and did the bedtime routine and provided stability for everyone and assured them that all was well and that he would be home when they woke up. (Did not know that, but wanted to provide assurance for them.). He pulls this type jd thing often. I call it “taking his ball and going home.”
Anonymous wrote:I was going to respond and then realized I’m 99% sure that I’m the one that started this thread.
Anonymous wrote:After a fight, has he left without you?
Anonymous wrote:OP that isn't LEAVING you at the airport. It sounds like you were a pretty unsympathetic partner when he realized he had made a massive mistake that would severely effect the rest of the vacation.
Anonymous wrote:My husband has gotten out of the car in the middle of DC when he was mad at me, left the kids and me in the car, and said, “See you later,” and walked away. We did not know if/how he was going to get home, and I had had to keep driving because the light had changed and I did not want to make a dramatic scene in front of the kids. I took the kids home and fed them dinner and did the bedtime routine and provided stability for everyone and assured them that all was well and that he would be home when they woke up. (Did not know that, but wanted to provide assurance for them.). He pulls this type jd thing often. I call it “taking his ball and going home.”
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:my ex-gf used to do it like this. Just run away from home when there is a small argument saying that it is not working and would go silent for a day or two.
One time she came back from a trip to west coast by taking a red eye flight back. After 2-3 days, she wanted to talk about it. I gave her a few chances but then ended it with her. She was very toxic.
wtf! She must have some real anger issues if she took a red eye flight back home and when you didn't ask her to. very abusive!
Anonymous wrote:my ex-gf used to do it like this. Just run away from home when there is a small argument saying that it is not working and would go silent for a day or two.
One time she came back from a trip to west coast by taking a red eye flight back. After 2-3 days, she wanted to talk about it. I gave her a few chances but then ended it with her. She was very toxic.
Anonymous wrote:No. This reminds me of tumultuous relationships from my 20s that I would never care to repeat. Not marriage.