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Anonymous wrote:Revenge served hot:

1. I aired all our dirty laundry to one of the executive admins at his job knowing she would spread anything I told her.

Revenge served warm:

2. Told him I wanted to work things out and got him into marriage counseling and just when he thought things were settled down I served him papers while he was at lunch with clients. Awkward!

Revenge served cold:

3. Years after the divorce I found out he was getting remarried so I sued for a custodial modification by serving him on the morning of the wedding and also asking for more child support.
4. I also saved up all the medical bills for months and had a few thousand dollars of reimbursement receipts delivered to him the day they returned from their honeymoon.
5. A month into the case I dropped my attorney and started calling his attorney every day to discuss various things because I knew his lawyer was charging $500 per hour. I did that for several months until just before the hearing and I dropped the case. It cost him around 20 grand. I know this caused a lot of problems for him during their first year of marriage. It also made the kids upset with him because he didn't have money for their Christmas and birthdays.
6. Occasionally I'll agree to extended summer vacations for the kids and then play "hard to get" concerning the pickup and drop off dates. This really pisses him off when he needs to buy airline tickets because he can't really make reservations for anything until that gets worked out. He likes to make reservations in advance.

It sounds like he got rid of you for a good reason.

Anonymous wrote:This was pretty childish but when I was younger I signed up an ex's .edu account for every porn and spam website I could find.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Revenge served hot:

1. I aired all our dirty laundry to one of the executive admins at his job knowing she would spread anything I told her.

Revenge served warm:

2. Told him I wanted to work things out and got him into marriage counseling and just when he thought things were settled down I served him papers while he was at lunch with clients. Awkward!

Revenge served cold:

3. Years after the divorce I found out he was getting remarried so I sued for a custodial modification by serving him on the morning of the wedding and also asking for more child support.
4. I also saved up all the medical bills for months and had a few thousand dollars of reimbursement receipts delivered to him the day they returned from their honeymoon.
5. A month into the case I dropped my attorney and started calling his attorney every day to discuss various things because I knew his lawyer was charging $500 per hour. I did that for several months until just before the hearing and I dropped the case. It cost him around 20 grand. I know this caused a lot of problems for him during their first year of marriage. It also made the kids upset with him because he didn't have money for their Christmas and birthdays.
6. Occasionally I'll agree to extended summer vacations for the kids and then play "hard to get" concerning the pickup and drop off dates. This really pisses him off when he needs to buy airline tickets because he can't really make reservations for anything until that gets worked out. He likes to make reservations in advance.

And every single day this guy smiles at night because he gets to sleep with the love of his life while his bitter ex wastes her life away in a stew of anger. Congrats!

I agree that PP's revenge is over the top. However, what is with people on here assuming every remarriage is with "the love of his/her life." Like this is the same man that married his psycho ex. Is he suddenly a great judge of character? Don't most second marriages have almost a 70% divorce rate?

Anonymous wrote:Revenge served hot:

1. I aired all our dirty laundry to one of the executive admins at his job knowing she would spread anything I told her.

Revenge served warm:

2. Told him I wanted to work things out and got him into marriage counseling and just when he thought things were settled down I served him papers while he was at lunch with clients. Awkward!

Revenge served cold:

3. Years after the divorce I found out he was getting remarried so I sued for a custodial modification by serving him on the morning of the wedding and also asking for more child support.
4. I also saved up all the medical bills for months and had a few thousand dollars of reimbursement receipts delivered to him the day they returned from their honeymoon.
5. A month into the case I dropped my attorney and started calling his attorney every day to discuss various things because I knew his lawyer was charging $500 per hour. I did that for several months until just before the hearing and I dropped the case. It cost him around 20 grand. I know this caused a lot of problems for him during their first year of marriage. It also made the kids upset with him because he didn't have money for their Christmas and birthdays.
6. Occasionally I'll agree to extended summer vacations for the kids and then play "hard to get" concerning the pickup and drop off dates. This really pisses him off when he needs to buy airline tickets because he can't really make reservations for anything until that gets worked out. He likes to make reservations in advance.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:And please don't say "living my best life." YES I know that is the best, but its not applicable to me right now. Tell me the worst sh*t you did to an ex. Whether it was immediately after a break up or years later. And if not you, someone you knew who did it.

Best revenge on crazy "progressives" -- seeing Trump elected.

Enjoy your taxes going up for your so called revenge!

Anonymous wrote:Awful idea. Your kids don't want to hear negative crap about their mother. Take the high road.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Best revenge I ever got was actually my ex’s revenge that backfired on her.

We divorced and we shared custody. She would bad mouth me to the kids. Flake out on drop-offs. She tried to do things to sabotage my relationships with my kids – telling me that event/game times had changed. Hauled me into court at every turn. Very similar to what PP did. It is irrelevant here but, on the advice of my lawyer, I saved and documented EVERYTHING and formalized every communication. Kids got older and openly questioned why the math was not adding up – things she was saying about me were not the same things they saw. Still, I never said a bad word about her to them. Just did the best I could. Final straw was she lost her mind when my oldest DD (who was a teen) accused her of manipulating her relationship with me. They had a big blow up and, although they have made peace, their relationship has been changed forever. She now sees her mom differently. They all do.

Moral of the story: Move on and try to find happiness. Revenge is not all is cracked up to be and can bite you in the behind if you are not careful.

I don't understand how this plays out in practice. When the kids are older do you just pull out a binder full of e-mails and texts and let them read through them? I'm not in this situation so I can't relate to how kids think but it just seems like it would be weird having them read historical information and connecting all the dots. Like, her telling you that the time of an event changed so you missed it. Just seems like an older kid wouldn't remember that specific event and what time it was or whatever.

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Anonymous wrote: Before the birth of our second child I knew I planned to divorce her so after the birth I convinced her to get her tubes tied. She won’t be giving another man children.

For real? This may be this most awful thing I have ever heard of. I can't believe everyone seems to be focusing instead on how it wouldn't even work.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:And please don't say "living my best life." YES I know that is the best, but its not applicable to me right now. Tell me the worst sh*t you did to an ex. Whether it was immediately after a break up or years later. And if not you, someone you knew who did it.

Best revenge on crazy "progressives" -- seeing Trump elected.

Enjoy your taxes going up for your so called revenge!

I'll pay to hear you whimper

Anonymous wrote: Before the birth of our second child I knew I planned to divorce her so after the birth I convinced her to get her tubes tied. She won’t be giving another man children.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:And please don't say "living my best life." YES I know that is the best, but its not applicable to me right now. Tell me the worst sh*t you did to an ex. Whether it was immediately after a break up or years later. And if not you, someone you knew who did it.

Best revenge on crazy "progressives" -- seeing Trump elected.

Enjoy your taxes going up for your so called revenge!

Anonymous wrote:Looked amazing when his new GF had put on a LOT of weight.

Anonymous wrote:Revenge served hot:

1. I aired all our dirty laundry to one of the executive admins at his job knowing she would spread anything I told her.

Revenge served warm:

2. Told him I wanted to work things out and got him into marriage counseling and just when he thought things were settled down I served him papers while he was at lunch with clients. Awkward!

Revenge served cold:

3. Years after the divorce I found out he was getting remarried so I sued for a custodial modification by serving him on the morning of the wedding and also asking for more child support.
4. I also saved up all the medical bills for months and had a few thousand dollars of reimbursement receipts delivered to him the day they returned from their honeymoon.
5. A month into the case I dropped my attorney and started calling his attorney every day to discuss various things because I knew his lawyer was charging $500 per hour. I did that for several months until just before the hearing and I dropped the case. It cost him around 20 grand. I know this caused a lot of problems for him during their first year of marriage. It also made the kids upset with him because he didn't have money for their Christmas and birthdays.
6. Occasionally I'll agree to extended summer vacations for the kids and then play "hard to get" concerning the pickup and drop off dates. This really pisses him off when he needs to buy airline tickets because he can't really make reservations for anything until that gets worked out. He likes to make reservations in advance.