Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Stupid thread.

Everyone is different, find your match.

If it was only that simple. I used to be about 150 now I'm 110. I'm either too big or too small. Never have I been what any guy wants.

It's not your weight, it's...

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't think pointing out this info is shaming fat women. It's actually pointing out a new bit of data we have which points to male attraction and overthrows everything the media has tried to push on women, the insecurities the media has tried to give women about their bodies for YEARS. Almost a century. I think it's absolutely wonderful. Do what you will with the data but I don't know how anyone could call cold, hard data "shaming"

I'm sorry. Are we reading the same throat? There have been posts calling fat women--and I seem to think that fat means anyone who's not a size 4 on this thread- insecure, unhygienic, gross, gazillion post saying fat women are easy lays. That's not data. That is assholery

But to be fair, there have been a few unnecessary jabs at skinny women too. It's all really disgusting

I'm sorry, i meant shaming skinny women. I agree there are a few nasty posts directed towards fat women but that seems to be par for the course. It's kind of a societally mandated "easy shot" that you can take that somehow is supposed to hit home. It's textbook- when women start to get too confident, find a way to bring them down- saying they are fat is an easy one, even if, going by this data, it's a massive compliment. I just disregard it now because it seems so totally juvenile and silly

Anonymous wrote:I don't think pointing out this info is shaming fat women. It's actually pointing out a new bit of data we have which points to male attraction and overthrows everything the media has tried to push on women, the insecurities the media has tried to give women about their bodies for YEARS. Almost a century. I think it's absolutely wonderful. Do what you will with the data but I don't know how anyone could call cold, hard data "shaming"

I'm sorry. Are we reading the same throat? There have been posts calling fat women--and I seem to think that fat means anyone who's not a size 4 on this thread- insecure, unhygienic, gross, gazillion post saying fat women are easy lays. That's not data. That is assholery

But to be fair, there have been a few unnecessary jabs at skinny women too. It's all really disgusting

Anonymous wrote:^No, the thread was titled overweight women and the discussion started with curviness. A bunch of b****** came in here and started throwing the word fat around for everything and adding insults to it. So no one said you had to get fat to attract a man; that wasn't the premise of the thread or any of the facts as presented.

+10000

Exactement.

I don't think pointing out this info is shaming fat women. It's actually pointing out a new bit of data we have which points to male attraction and overthrows everything the media has tried to push on women, the insecurities the media has tried to give women about their bodies for YEARS. Almost a century. I think it's absolutely wonderful. Do what you will with the data but I don't know how anyone could call cold, hard data "shaming"

^No, the thread was titled overweight women and the discussion started with curviness. A bunch of b****** came in here and started throwing the word fat around for everything and adding insults to it. So no one said you had to get fat to attract a man; that wasn't the premise of the thread or any of the facts as presented.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm not going to get fat to attract dudes. I like my body just fine and would prefer they not use it to leer at.

It's ok sweetie, you'll be single your whole life.

I wanted to agree with the first poster that men should not leet at her.

But did you have to really make the nasty fat comment? People need to stop throwing around fat like it's an insult. Second poster, your insult is juvenile. Try to dig a Little Deeper

And cue the next poster who comes on and calls me an insecure fatty. The people who could not imagine that I could be thin but not also an a****** like a shitload of You Are

This entire thread is about how men prefer fat women and I'm not allowed to say fat? It's a descriptor.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm not going to get fat to attract dudes. I like my body just fine and would prefer they not use it to leer at.

It's ok sweetie, you'll be single your whole life.

Lmao, I'm married, idiot

Anonymous wrote:Stupid thread.

Everyone is different, find your match.

If it was only that simple. I used to be about 150 now I'm 110. I'm either too big or too small. Never have I been what any guy wants.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm not going to get fat to attract dudes. I like my body just fine and would prefer they not use it to leer at.

It's ok sweetie, you'll be single your whole life.

I wanted to agree with the first poster that men should not leet at her.

But did you have to really make the nasty fat comment? People need to stop throwing around fat like it's an insult. Second poster, your insult is juvenile. Try to dig a Little Deeper

And cue the next poster who comes on and calls me an insecure fatty. The people who could not imagine that I could be thin but not also an a****** like a shitload of You Are

I hope there is a bunch of trolling on this thread, but if not, a lot of you need to step back and reevaluate what kind of person you are.

1. The fat shaming on this thread is out of control. I've never heard so many mean things all over once about bigger women. And I guarantee, none of it is really true

2. To a lesser extent, there does seem to be some trolling around skinny women as well. There is nothing wrong with being skinny if it is your natural body shape and where you want to be

3. I find the whole thing to be pretty disgusting because my body does not exist to attract men. Or other women, I suppose. It is my body that I have to live in. It gives me children, gives me life, it may attract a mate. But its main purpose isn't centered around whether it's some perfect ratio for some random man out there.

Anonymous wrote:I'm not going to get fat to attract dudes. I like my body just fine and would prefer they not use it to leer at.

It's ok sweetie, you'll be single your whole life.

If all women wanted to do was to attract men we'd all wear short, tight dresses and high heels everywhere we go, and all the thin women wood have boob jobs.

Men aren't deep.

But we don't. And yet we find men will hang out with our various shapes--thin, fat, whatever--anyway.

I'm not going to get fat to attract dudes. I like my body just fine and would prefer they not use it to leer at.

Give me some curves over a stick any day.