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Anonymous wrote:He has been before... what is the issue this time? Husband and I go on solo vacations. Each year we both get one, then we get a couples vacation and then a family vacation. We have three under three! He just came back from his and I am planning mine for the winter. What is the issue?

You have three under three and have time and energy (on both ends) for solo vacations? Been there, done that, and I call bull shit.

Sorry, sounds like he is a sex addict.

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Anonymous wrote:Do you mean solo, like alone? Or solo, like without the family but with other people?

I know a DH who did a golf trip to Thailand with buddies that was kind of a bucket list for them, so nothing seemed out of the ordinary.

A solo trip to a place like Thailand, where he's already been, would raise red flags to me. Tell him to go on a solo trip to Utah to hike through some mountains.

Ha! His golf balls weren't the balls that got played with on that trip! You got played.

Seriously

Op - are you ever coming back to answer some questions?

Going there once as a tourist. OK

Going there multiple times and having a documented (and perhaps even professional) interest in the culture of these Asian countries, friends there, Nat Geo type photographs, literature, journalistic pieces, ecology or political studies... OK

But going to Thailand, Vietnam, Cambodia, several times and insisting on solo travel, with nothing to show for it? That is sex tourism and you know it.

(My husband is Vietnamese. He knows too!)

Pedo sex is what I think of in Thailand. Gross. Sad. Pathetic.

Sure, maybe. But I know that my husband would never be frequenting the sex trade there.

I went on a solo trip to Thailand while we were engaged, because I was in Asia for work and didn't want to waste the opportunity. No big deal.

Anonymous wrote:He has been on solo trips to Thailand, Laos, Vietnam before. So it's not a bucket list trip. We are married with two kids.


I'd like to take a poll on this. What do you think.

Is this Ruby?

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Anonymous wrote:My husband is not attracted to Asian women at all. He can go all he wants...

Honey, you know the clubs have a wide spread right? Asian, Russian blondes, etc......

Emphasis on "spread" ....

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Anonymous wrote:My husband is not attracted to Asian women at all. He can go all he wants...

Honey, you know the clubs have a wide spread right? Asian, Russian blondes, etc......

True you can DEFINITELY find some hot Russians in Pattaya and I assume Bangkok

I trust my DH 100% and even I won't let him go along to Thailand. It's not that I don't trust him, it's more that as a line male traveler he would be identified as an easy mark and be propositioned by young beautiful women everywhere he went. Why even put temptation in his way?

What adult "lets" another adult do anything? Spouse or otherwise? You are not the boss of your DH, and he is not your boss. Neither of you should be letting or not letting the other do things.

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Anonymous wrote:I go on such vacations. A blast of debauchery. If you don't want your DH to sleep around, don't let him go. There is little chance he won't partake if he's there alone.

Let's hope you are not sharing your disease souvenirs back here in the US. Pervert.

Don't be ignorant. You think you touch a hooker than it's game over?! I've been with 100s of these girls and I'm clean as a whistle. Proper planning and prevention is all you need to be relatively safe.

You are disgusting.

+1

And pathetic.

Bah. Call me names but your DHs and I know what's up.

LOL. Speak for yourself, loser. There are decent men in this world, despite what you believe. Perhaps it makes you feel better about yourself to rationalize that what you've done is typical of what men do. It's actually not.

Solo vacations? To Thailand?

This has to be a troll/fake post and I never say that.

Like most others, my first thought was sex tourism.

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Anonymous wrote:I go on such vacations. A blast of debauchery. If you don't want your DH to sleep around, don't let him go. There is little chance he won't partake if he's there alone.

Let's hope you are not sharing your disease souvenirs back here in the US. Pervert.

Don't be ignorant. You think you touch a hooker than it's game over?! I've been with 100s of these girls and I'm clean as a whistle. Proper planning and prevention is all you need to be relatively safe.

You are disgusting.

+1

And pathetic.

Bah. Call me names but your DHs and I know what's up.

Anonymous wrote:My husband is not attracted to Asian women at all. He can go all he wants...

Honey, you know the clubs have a wide spread right? Asian, Russian blondes, etc......