It's hard to believe I'm writing this but a few years ago I invited a very good single and younger friend to visit my DH and I at our beach house. Before she arrived I was saying so many wonderful things about her that my husband said I had a crush on her and I said maybe I do. He then said something like that makes two of us. To make a long story short one night we ended up naked in the hot tub and were well into threesome foreplay when my DH and I realized that neither of us wanted to see the other having sex with someone else. To be honest, I flinched first. We had discussed it but hadn't really dealt with it. There was a lot of nervous laughter the next morning with everyone saying way too much wine! She's still a friend and we never discuss it and the crush is over! My DH and I still enjoy the hot tub.

Anonymous wrote:I don't think it's normal at all. And I think all the ladies who posted here it was normal are in reality hi sexual.
I'm straight and only get excited thinking about makes, ive never felt attraction for another woman. Moreover, it disgust me.
Just to think being with another woman in bed ugh, no thank you.

And your point of posting here was? Just so you can prove a point of how 'normal' you are? Pathetic.

OP here and sorry to disappoint but I haven't been posting to myself although I do think men are posting here as women.
To answer the other question, believe me, she doesn't see me like that at all and would be horrified.

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Anonymous wrote:I don't think all husbands would find it a turn on, thought of his wife with another woman. Guess it depends on who the other woman was though.

Plus it's not super hot when you get dumped so she can be with the other woman. Be careful what you wish for.

I think more men are realizing how intense of a threat women are to their relationships. It's happening more and more

Uhhhh, ive been married 18years and have had on and off again sexual relationships with women. Never once have i considered leaving my DH. Being in a full blown monogamous relationship with a woman and the drama that comes with that is not appealing AT ALL.

Anonymous wrote:Obviously I won't act on it. She is married and would be horrified. But it is nice to know I am not alone and that it is normal.

How do you know shed be horrified? Im married and have been with a few women here and there. Even my best friend doesnt know that.

Anonymous wrote:I don't think it's normal at all. And I think all the ladies who posted here it was normal are in reality hi sexual.
I'm straight and only get excited thinking about makes, ive never felt attraction for another woman. Moreover, it disgust me.
Just to think being with another woman in bed ugh, no thank you.

Congratulations!! You win the Straight Olympics!!! Here is your special medal for being so "normal" because that is so. Darn. Important.

I don't think it's normal at all. And I think all the ladies who posted here it was normal are in reality hi sexual.
I'm straight and only get excited thinking about makes, ive never felt attraction for another woman. Moreover, it disgust me.
Just to think being with another woman in bed ugh, no thank you.

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Anonymous wrote:I think there are plenty of women who have feelings like this, the question is what do they do about it? You said you are 33 and straight but are you in a relationship? Keep in mind that some people are "straight" until lightening strikes. What would you like to outcome to be?

I was straight until lightning struck, I'm now 36, divorced from a man and in a relationship with a women. Feel like I have found what I've been looking for my entire life

That's awesome.

I'm sure the ex DH was jumping with joy.

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Anonymous wrote:I think there are plenty of women who have feelings like this, the question is what do they do about it? You said you are 33 and straight but are you in a relationship? Keep in mind that some people are "straight" until lightening strikes. What would you like to outcome to be?

I was straight until lightning struck, I'm now 36, divorced from a man and in a relationship with a women. Feel like I have found what I've been looking for my entire life

That's awesome.

I feel like the same poster with multiple personalities has been posting to their self.

Anonymous wrote:Had an unexpected interaction with my crush today. When I found out about it I swear my heart skipped a beat and I got all flush lol like a middle schooler! Then she jokingly bumped my arm with her elbow. Omg.

Haha, this is so silly. But it made my day!

When she bump your arm with her boob, it's on!

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Anonymous wrote:I think there are plenty of women who have feelings like this, the question is what do they do about it? You said you are 33 and straight but are you in a relationship? Keep in mind that some people are "straight" until lightening strikes. What would you like to outcome to be?

I was straight until lightning struck, I'm now 36, divorced from a man and in a relationship with a women. Feel like I have found what I've been looking for my entire life

DW had a friend who did this. 5 years later she remarried DH!

Anonymous wrote:I think there are plenty of women who have feelings like this, the question is what do they do about it? You said you are 33 and straight but are you in a relationship? Keep in mind that some people are "straight" until lightening strikes. What would you like to outcome to be?

I was straight until lightning struck, I'm now 36, divorced from a man and in a relationship with a women. Feel like I have found what I've been looking for my entire life

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Anonymous wrote:Had an unexpected interaction with my crush today. When I found out about it I swear my heart skipped a beat and I got all flush lol like a middle schooler! Then she jokingly bumped my arm with her elbow. Omg.

Haha, this is so silly. But it made my day!

This is such a cute thread and reminds me of my crush. OP, what does your husband think? I "jokingly" mentioned my crush to my DH. He gave me the green light if the opportunity arose. It almost became annoying because he would hound me for details every time my crush and I got together. Nothing ever happened.

One day I was mentioning her (after mentioning her previously the other day) and he was like, "You have a crush on her, don't you?" He thought it was cute but I DENIED!!! Haha I don't want to be teased or asked either!

Anonymous wrote:Does anyone have a sory of this working out for them? Maybe you approached the person and had the most amazing sex, or it blossomed into a committed relationship.

No but I nearly told her after a few drinks. Decided not to at the last moment and regret it now.