Anonymous wrote:Why does a week make a difference in the 20 vs. 21 week argument? What happens in those 7 days that make life vs death possible?
Anonymous wrote:I just saw this on Twitter- an interview with JR Smith and his wife. They seem like incredibly loving parents and it looks like Dakota is doing well- she came home from the hospital last month. https://t.co/ygCdj3PRoy?amp=1
I'm sure they still have a rough road ahead of them, but I was glad to hear this update.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The brother of one of my DH's closest friends growing up was born between 20 and 21 weeks gestation and weighed only 15 oz. This was about 40 years ago too. He is a lawyer who went to Ivy League with absolutely no issues from his birth.
I'd say the technology is a lot better now than it was back then. She stands a chance of a good outcome.
This didn't happen.
Dude, I don't know what to tell you. But it happened. His mom was a practicing physician at the time so maybe she had access to specialized care? But my DH was there, sorry.
Your DH was there when this baby was born???
It sounds like your DH was a child when this happened. I think your DH heard the story over and over. But he wasn't "there."
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The brother of one of my DH's closest friends growing up was born between 20 and 21 weeks gestation and weighed only 15 oz. This was about 40 years ago too. He is a lawyer who went to Ivy League with absolutely no issues from his birth.
I'd say the technology is a lot better now than it was back then. She stands a chance of a good outcome.
This didn't happen.
Dude, I don't know what to tell you. But it happened. His mom was a practicing physician at the time so maybe she had access to specialized care? But my DH was there, sorry.
Your DH was there when this baby was born???
It sounds like your DH was a child when this happened. I think your DH heard the story over and over. But he wasn't "there."
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The brother of one of my DH's closest friends growing up was born between 20 and 21 weeks gestation and weighed only 15 oz. This was about 40 years ago too. He is a lawyer who went to Ivy League with absolutely no issues from his birth.
I'd say the technology is a lot better now than it was back then. She stands a chance of a good outcome.
This didn't happen.
Dude, I don't know what to tell you. But it happened. His mom was a practicing physician at the time so maybe she had access to specialized care? But my DH was there, sorry.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:What are you struggling with? Plenty of people have babies born that early. They have a long road a head of them.
No, they don't. The earliest babies that survive are 23-24 weeks. Maybe a rare 22 weeker. That is 18 weeks early, or approximately 4.5 months. No way can a baby born at 20 weeks survive.
Idk about no way, but even a 6 month premie birth was highly touch and go, so I'm skeptical about 4.5 months
20 weekers do not survive. Ever.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:What are you struggling with? Plenty of people have babies born that early. They have a long road a head of them.
No, they don't. The earliest babies that survive are 23-24 weeks. Maybe a rare 22 weeker. That is 18 weeks early, or approximately 4.5 months. No way can a baby born at 20 weeks survive.
Idk about no way, but even a 6 month premie birth was highly touch and go, so I'm skeptical about 4.5 months
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:What are you struggling with? Plenty of people have babies born that early. They have a long road a head of them.
No, they don't. The earliest babies that survive are 23-24 weeks. Maybe a rare 22 weeker. That is 18 weeks early, or approximately 4.5 months. No way can a baby born at 20 weeks survive.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The brother of one of my DH's closest friends growing up was born between 20 and 21 weeks gestation and weighed only 15 oz. This was about 40 years ago too. He is a lawyer who went to Ivy League with absolutely no issues from his birth.
I'd say the technology is a lot better now than it was back then. She stands a chance of a good outcome.
This didn't happen.
Miracles do happen. Today and in the past. Modern medicine is wonderful and also admits that sometimes miracles happen.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The brother of one of my DH's closest friends growing up was born between 20 and 21 weeks gestation and weighed only 15 oz. This was about 40 years ago too. He is a lawyer who went to Ivy League with absolutely no issues from his birth.
I'd say the technology is a lot better now than it was back then. She stands a chance of a good outcome.
This didn't happen.
Miracles do happen. Today and in the past. Modern medicine is wonderful and also admits that sometimes miracles happen.
As a Healthcare professional that works in an OB setting (CRNA) I really think these stories...although well meaning...do A LOT of harm. All our NICU families hold on to show strings of hope because of stories like these and "facts". Every grandma or great aunt or uncles cousin is "100 percent positive" Jimmy was born at 22 weeks and was one pound and is now totally ok. The truth is babies before 25 weeks didn't survive 15 years ago let alone 70. And the truth is less than 1 percent of babies before 24 weeks survive. 32 weeks (2 months early)...ya sure, maybe. 22...no, that is false. Flase.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The brother of one of my DH's closest friends growing up was born between 20 and 21 weeks gestation and weighed only 15 oz. This was about 40 years ago too. He is a lawyer who went to Ivy League with absolutely no issues from his birth.
I'd say the technology is a lot better now than it was back then. She stands a chance of a good outcome.
This didn't happen.
Miracles do happen. Today and in the past. Modern medicine is wonderful and also admits that sometimes miracles happen.