Anonymous
Post 01/06/2017 00:08     Subject: just realized my DH is probably asexual: so sad and angry. It is hopeless right?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Have him get his T checked. Seriously.

I'll bet dollars to doughnuts it's low. If he's not into sex ask him for an open marriage. See if the fact he has to compete with other men rules him up.


OP here, he freaked out when I mentioned open mariage which I found very unfair..


Haha bold move OP!

Is he on meds? I wrote the post about PTSD patients.

If not, seriously get his T checked! Is he active? Exercise regularly? How's the diet?stress at work?
Anonymous
Post 01/06/2017 00:07     Subject: just realized my DH is probably asexual: so sad and angry. It is hopeless right?
Anonymous wrote:Man here. OP you're getting a lot of bad advice. At 35 he should still have a drive. This is likely due to the following:
Depression
Anxiety due to stress as work or home
Low T

Sometimes medication can kill it. I know veterans on drugs for PTSD that kill sex drive. Is he on mess?

If not, seriously schedule a physical for him and they can check T levels, among other things. If he tells his doc he has no sex drive they'll do it for him. Anything below 250 is really low. Anything below 400 some doctors will consider low for a 35 year old.

If he's fat and out of shape - this can contribute to low T and thus low drive. Oh yeah...and diabetes.


Low T and anxiety could be a reason. Overall he is thin and in relatively good shape (he exercises regularly, goes for runs, eats healthy). But he doesn't seem very healthy these days. He seems tired, a bit worn out with big bags under his eyes. He is often cold and a bit pale. I am not into Chinese medicine but it looks like there is not enough energy circulating in his body.
Anonymous
Post 01/06/2017 00:00     Subject: just realized my DH is probably asexual: so sad and angry. It is hopeless right?
Anonymous wrote:Have him get his T checked. Seriously.

I'll bet dollars to doughnuts it's low. If he's not into sex ask him for an open marriage. See if the fact he has to compete with other men rules him up.


OP here, he freaked out when I mentioned open mariage which I found very unfair..
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2017 23:57     Subject: just realized my DH is probably asexual: so sad and angry. It is hopeless right?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:And ladies, this is EXACTLY why you don't get married.

They promise you a foot long and deliver a cocktail weenie.


Yeah..instead be the bitter, dried up single woman in her forties no one wants - like half of DCUM.


Sounds better than being deceived. Anyway, they have lube for being dry. Nothing fixes a cocktail weenie.


OK, this is the part where old women with loose sloppy vaginas complain that men have small penises. It's getting really old and no one believes your cheap little insult.

Er, seems the post has hit a major nerve... oops....


Nope, my penis fits just fine. Just tired of your constant dick size insults on DCUM. I'm sure every time a man rejects your slutty come-ones you tell your only friend and pet cats he has a cocktail weenie.


Lol!

Cats probably walk away is disgust as well.

Anonymous
Post 01/05/2017 23:54     Subject: just realized my DH is probably asexual: so sad and angry. It is hopeless right?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:And ladies, this is EXACTLY why you don't get married.

They promise you a foot long and deliver a cocktail weenie.


Yeah..instead be the bitter, dried up single woman in her forties no one wants - like half of DCUM.


Sounds better than being deceived. Anyway, they have lube for being dry. Nothing fixes a cocktail weenie.


OK, this is the part where old women with loose sloppy vaginas complain that men have small penises. It's getting really old and no one believes your cheap little insult.

Er, seems the post has hit a major nerve... oops....


Nope, my penis fits just fine. Just tired of your constant dick size insults on DCUM. I'm sure every time a man rejects your slutty come-ones you tell your only friend and pet cats he has a cocktail weenie.
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2017 23:53     Subject: Re:just realized my DH is probably asexual: so sad and angry. It is hopeless right?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Don't rule out him being a porn addict


This was my ex boyfriends problem.


Could be - but he's not into sex. Like he said he doesn't care for it. Porn at least shows some drive.

Low T is my guess. It more common than people think.
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2017 23:53     Subject: just realized my DH is probably asexual: so sad and angry. It is hopeless right?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:And ladies, this is EXACTLY why you don't get married.

They promise you a foot long and deliver a cocktail weenie.


Yeah..instead be the bitter, dried up single woman in her forties no one wants - like half of DCUM.


Sounds better than being deceived. Anyway, they have lube for being dry. Nothing fixes a cocktail weenie.


OK, this is the part where old women with loose sloppy vaginas complain that men have small penises. It's getting really old and no one believes your cheap little insult.

Er, seems the post has hit a major nerve... oops....


You still here? Don't you have a man to go annoy? Oh wait - you don't. No one likes you.

Time for you to out down the phone and shove more Ben and jerrys down you fat face and cry.


First I'll out the phone, then I shove ice cream onto my face... this fic just keeps getting more bizarre. I'll be honest, I don't know if it's gonna sell well.
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2017 23:51     Subject: just realized my DH is probably asexual: so sad and angry. It is hopeless right?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:And ladies, this is EXACTLY why you don't get married.

They promise you a foot long and deliver a cocktail weenie.


Yeah..instead be the bitter, dried up single woman in her forties no one wants - like half of DCUM.


Sounds better than being deceived. Anyway, they have lube for being dry. Nothing fixes a cocktail weenie.


OK, this is the part where old women with loose sloppy vaginas complain that men have small penises. It's getting really old and no one believes your cheap little insult.

Er, seems the post has hit a major nerve... oops....


You still here? Don't you have a man to go annoy? Oh wait - you don't. No one likes you.

Time for you to out down the phone and shove more Ben and jerrys down you fat face and cry.
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2017 23:51     Subject: Re:just realized my DH is probably asexual: so sad and angry. It is hopeless right?
Anonymous wrote:Don't rule out him being a porn addict


This was my ex boyfriends problem.
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2017 23:49     Subject: just realized my DH is probably asexual: so sad and angry. It is hopeless right?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:And ladies, this is EXACTLY why you don't get married.

They promise you a foot long and deliver a cocktail weenie.


Yeah..instead be the bitter, dried up single woman in her forties no one wants - like half of DCUM.


Sounds better than being deceived. Anyway, they have lube for being dry. Nothing fixes a cocktail weenie.


OK, this is the part where old women with loose sloppy vaginas complain that men have small penises. It's getting really old and no one believes your cheap little insult.

Er, seems the post has hit a major nerve... oops....
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2017 23:47     Subject: just realized my DH is probably asexual: so sad and angry. It is hopeless right?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:And ladies, this is EXACTLY why you don't get married.

They promise you a foot long and deliver a cocktail weenie.


Yeah..instead be the bitter, dried up single woman in her forties no one wants - like half of DCUM.


Sounds better than being deceived. Anyway, they have lube for being dry. Nothing fixes a cocktail weenie.


OK, this is the part where old women with loose sloppy vaginas complain that men have small penises. It's getting really old and no one believes your cheap little insult.
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2017 23:46     Subject: Re:just realized my DH is probably asexual: so sad and angry. It is hopeless right?
Anonymous wrote:The only person I know who is totally asexual (as in 50 years old and no sexual partners ever) was sexually abused as a child. I very much hope this is not the situation for your husband, but it could be.


It's weird because it has the opposite affect on men and women. The women I know of who were sexually abused went overboard. The men shit down.

Purely anecdotal of course.
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2017 23:41     Subject: just realized my DH is probably asexual: so sad and angry. It is hopeless right?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:And ladies, this is EXACTLY why you don't get married.

They promise you a foot long and deliver a cocktail weenie.


Yeah..instead be the bitter, dried up single woman in her forties no one wants - like half of DCUM.


Sounds better than being deceived. Anyway, they have lube for being dry. Nothing fixes a cocktail weenie.


Nothing fixes up bitter single women either...except for a good night in the sack. Problem is no one wants them but they're cats.


Nobody wants them AND they are cats? Wow. Sounds like quite the fanfic you've got going. E.L. James, watch out


he he he
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2017 23:40     Subject: just realized my DH is probably asexual: so sad and angry. It is hopeless right?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:And ladies, this is EXACTLY why you don't get married.

They promise you a foot long and deliver a cocktail weenie.


Yeah..instead be the bitter, dried up single woman in her forties no one wants - like half of DCUM.


Sounds better than being deceived. Anyway, they have lube for being dry. Nothing fixes a cocktail weenie.


Nothing fixes up bitter single women either...except for a good night in the sack. Problem is no one wants them but they're cats.


Nobody wants them AND they are cats? Wow. Sounds like quite the fanfic you've got going. E.L. James, watch out
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2017 23:40     Subject: Re:just realized my DH is probably asexual: so sad and angry. It is hopeless right?
The only person I know who is totally asexual (as in 50 years old and no sexual partners ever) was sexually abused as a child. I very much hope this is not the situation for your husband, but it could be.