Anonymous
10/28/2016 19:25
Subject: For wives - pick three!
Anonymous wrote:Since the "for husbands thread" created a lot of interest how about a wives "pick three" thread for what you want in a husband:
1. Makes a lot of money.
2. Shares in household chores
3. Stay's attractive and fit
4. Cares about my sexual needs and is good in bed
5. We have common interests and enjoy being together....outside of bed
6. Doesn't lust after a near by neighbor or my sister.
7. OK- #6 is a pushing it but....he cares about my feelings!
Go for it girls!
I'm going to say that 4 & 6 fall under 7. No way someone could claim to care about my feelings and be messing around or indifferent to my pleasure. To some degree 3 does, too. I don't care if he's GQ but it's part of a relationship to care whether your partner finds you attractive. Otherwise you are actively shutting down intimacy.
So... 5, 7, 2.
Money is less important to me than a spirit of partnership and support. It's all about mutual respect, affection, love.
Anonymous
10/28/2016 19:20
Subject: For wives - pick three!
Anonymous wrote:Since the "for husbands thread" created a lot of interest how about a wives "pick three" thread for what you want in a husband:
1. Makes a lot of money.
2. Shares in household chores
3. Stay's attractive and fit
4. Cares about my sexual needs and is good in bed
5. We have common interests and enjoy being together....outside of bed
6. Doesn't lust after a near by neighbor or my sister.
7. OK- #6 is a pushing it but....he cares about my feelings!
Go for it girls!
5,6, hmmm... can't decide between 2 and 3. 5 and 6 are very important. (and for 6, I don't care about his secret thoughts... as long as nobody, including myself, knows)
Anonymous
10/28/2016 19:17
Subject: Re:For wives - pick three!
How cute is the sister in #6?
Anonymous
10/28/2016 19:11
Subject: For wives - pick three!
Anonymous wrote:Since the "for husbands thread" created a lot of interest how about a wives "pick three" thread for what you want in a husband:
1. Makes a lot of money.
2. Shares in household chores
3. Stay's attractive and fit
4. Cares about my sexual needs and is good in bed
5. We have common interests and enjoy being together....outside of bed
6. Doesn't lust after a near by neighbor or my sister.
7. OK- #6 is a pushing it but....he cares about my feelings!
Go for it girls!
4, 3, 5
Anonymous
10/28/2016 16:25
Subject: For wives - pick three!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:1 and 4. I'm good.
So basically you're a hooker?
Thats an awful thing to say. Look at the number of guys on here complaining that their wives won't sleep with them. It seems like women are damned if they do and damned if they don't.
What's bothersome about that isn't that she has sex with her husband, it's that she doesn't prioritize having similar interests / being life partners. But hey, as long as the $$ keeps coming..
FFS. Who died and made you the priority police? Good like with your "partnership" and long gut-wrenching therapy sessions
LOL what? Yes, I actually like spending time with my husband, in addition to having sex with him.
LOL You are so lying about sex! Sex, or lack thereof, is the reason you're in therapy.
I'm throughly confused. Who are you talking to? What therapy? I'm the poster above you and have zero idea what you're getting at. No therapy here.
My point is just that it's sad that a woman would only care about her husband for the $$ and the sex. Nothing about companionship, spending time together, similar interests etc. YMMV.