Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:As a young woman, I don't get it. Like did you get married solely thinking you would get laid regularly? Cause that just seems so... dumb. Messed up. Awful.
Then they put pressure on their wives, who dont feel like having sex, and try to coerce or pressure them into it. Why? Because the dude wants to have sex.
I see so much outrage about Brock Turner and no one seems to be talking about this different aspect of rape culture which is that husbands are entitled to their wives bodies? When they want it?
And it's so bizarre to me. Like.... how is this a thing? In today's modern world?
Women are still expected to lie back and think of England? For reals?
Men are entitled too it because sex is a basic need, like eating and sleeping. Marriage is a contract. Included in the contract is a pledge to have sex regularly.
you do know sex is not a basic need, right?
Maybe for YOU it isnt but orgasms make a body feel good and I need them regularly.
-- signed woman who loves sex
And you do know you can have an Orgasm WITHOUT having "sex" with your husband? As can he?
If getting off alone is better for you than with your partner, then he sucks at sex.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:As a young woman, I don't get it. Like did you get married solely thinking you would get laid regularly? Cause that just seems so... dumb. Messed up. Awful.
Then they put pressure on their wives, who dont feel like having sex, and try to coerce or pressure them into it. Why? Because the dude wants to have sex.
I see so much outrage about Brock Turner and no one seems to be talking about this different aspect of rape culture which is that husbands are entitled to their wives bodies? When they want it?
And it's so bizarre to me. Like.... how is this a thing? In today's modern world?
Women are still expected to lie back and think of England? For reals?
Men are entitled too it because sex is a basic need, like eating and sleeping. Marriage is a contract. Included in the contract is a pledge to have sex regularly.
you do know sex is not a basic need, right?
Maybe for YOU it isnt but orgasms make a body feel good and I need them regularly.
-- signed woman who loves sex
And you do know you can have an Orgasm WITHOUT having "sex" with your husband? As can he?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:As a young woman, I don't get it. Like did you get married solely thinking you would get laid regularly? Cause that just seems so... dumb. Messed up. Awful.
Then they put pressure on their wives, who dont feel like having sex, and try to coerce or pressure them into it. Why? Because the dude wants to have sex.
I see so much outrage about Brock Turner and no one seems to be talking about this different aspect of rape culture which is that husbands are entitled to their wives bodies? When they want it?
And it's so bizarre to me. Like.... how is this a thing? In today's modern world?
Women are still expected to lie back and think of England? For reals?
Men are entitled too it because sex is a basic need, like eating and sleeping. Marriage is a contract. Included in the contract is a pledge to have sex regularly.
you do know sex is not a basic need, right?
It is for normally functioning adults. I realize deviancy exists, but an adult to not consider sex to be a basic human need is not normal.
You don't understand biology if you think it's a basic human need.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:As a young woman, I don't get it. Like did you get married solely thinking you would get laid regularly? Cause that just seems so... dumb. Messed up. Awful.
Then they put pressure on their wives, who dont feel like having sex, and try to coerce or pressure them into it. Why? Because the dude wants to have sex.
I see so much outrage about Brock Turner and no one seems to be talking about this different aspect of rape culture which is that husbands are entitled to their wives bodies? When they want it?
And it's so bizarre to me. Like.... how is this a thing? In today's modern world?
Women are still expected to lie back and think of England? For reals?
So young lady, I presume you buy all your own drinks, food, event tickets, etc., when out on a date with a man (assuming you've ever been out on a date?) Because of course, why would you expect someone else to buy those things for you.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:As a young woman, I don't get it. Like did you get married solely thinking you would get laid regularly? Cause that just seems so... dumb. Messed up. Awful.
Then they put pressure on their wives, who dont feel like having sex, and try to coerce or pressure them into it. Why? Because the dude wants to have sex.
I see so much outrage about Brock Turner and no one seems to be talking about this different aspect of rape culture which is that husbands are entitled to their wives bodies? When they want it?
And it's so bizarre to me. Like.... how is this a thing? In today's modern world?
Women are still expected to lie back and think of England? For reals?
So young lady, I presume you buy all your own drinks, food, event tickets, etc., when out on a date with a man (assuming you've ever been out on a date?) Because of course, why would you expect someone else to buy those things for you.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
So many people go without sex for various reasons... Deployed, illness, etc... It's not a basic need.
LOL if you think people on deployment don't have sex you reeeeeaaaaally don't know much about the military.
Some do... Some don't ... Both can function.
If you think 3 months without water is the same as 3 months without sex, you're ignorant.
I guess you think it's okay for all the spouses of deployed military to get free hall passes? It's Not!
A military relationship is so much different some in the same household for three months with no expectation of sex with SO.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
So many people go without sex for various reasons... Deployed, illness, etc... It's not a basic need.
LOL if you think people on deployment don't have sex you reeeeeaaaaally don't know much about the military.
Some do... Some don't ... Both can function.
If you think 3 months without water is the same as 3 months without sex, you're ignorant.
I guess you think it's okay for all the spouses of deployed military to get free hall passes? It's Not!
Anonymous wrote:As a young woman, I don't get it. Like did you get married solely thinking you would get laid regularly? Cause that just seems so... dumb. Messed up. Awful.
Then they put pressure on their wives, who dont feel like having sex, and try to coerce or pressure them into it. Why? Because the dude wants to have sex.
I see so much outrage about Brock Turner and no one seems to be talking about this different aspect of rape culture which is that husbands are entitled to their wives bodies? When they want it?
And it's so bizarre to me. Like.... how is this a thing? In today's modern world?
Women are still expected to lie back and think of England? For reals?
Anonymous wrote:Op, I agree with you. No one is entitled to your partner's: sex, love, time, attention, trust, friendship, support, empathy, kindness.
Also, I miss the college years when everything was so clear.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
So many people go without sex for various reasons... Deployed, illness, etc... It's not a basic need.
LOL if you think people on deployment don't have sex you reeeeeaaaaally don't know much about the military.
Some do... Some don't ... Both can function.
If you think 3 months without water is the same as 3 months without sex, you're ignorant.
I guess you think it's okay for all the spouses of deployed military to get free hall passes? It's Not!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
So many people go without sex for various reasons... Deployed, illness, etc... It's not a basic need.
LOL if you think people on deployment don't have sex you reeeeeaaaaally don't know much about the military.
Anonymous wrote:
So many people go without sex for various reasons... Deployed, illness, etc... It's not a basic need.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:As a young woman, I don't get it. Like did you get married solely thinking you would get laid regularly? Cause that just seems so... dumb. Messed up. Awful.
Then they put pressure on their wives, who dont feel like having sex, and try to coerce or pressure them into it. Why? Because the dude wants to have sex.
I see so much outrage about Brock Turner and no one seems to be talking about this different aspect of rape culture which is that husbands are entitled to their wives bodies? When they want it?
And it's so bizarre to me. Like.... how is this a thing? In today's modern world?
Women are still expected to lie back and think of England? For reals?
Men are entitled too it because sex is a basic need, like eating and sleeping. Marriage is a contract. Included in the contract is a pledge to have sex regularly.
Not in any contract I signed.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:As a young woman, I don't get it. Like did you get married solely thinking you would get laid regularly? Cause that just seems so... dumb. Messed up. Awful.
Then they put pressure on their wives, who dont feel like having sex, and try to coerce or pressure them into it. Why? Because the dude wants to have sex.
I see so much outrage about Brock Turner and no one seems to be talking about this different aspect of rape culture which is that husbands are entitled to their wives bodies? When they want it?
And it's so bizarre to me. Like.... how is this a thing? In today's modern world?
Women are still expected to lie back and think of England? For reals?
Men are entitled too it because sex is a basic need, like eating and sleeping. Marriage is a contract. Included in the contract is a pledge to have sex regularly.
you do know sex is not a basic need, right?
Maybe for YOU it isnt but orgasms make a body feel good and I need them regularly.
-- signed woman who loves sex
And you do know you can have an Orgasm WITHOUT having "sex" with your husband? As can he?
Sure, I can her off any time, but it's not the same as making love to a woman. It's necessary for physical and emotional intimacy. Plus it's a lot more fun withs partner thsn alone. Maybe OP needs to become a nun.