Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op, did you choose the names first and tell them to your sister only for her to steal them? Otherwise, I don't understand how you can think it is okay to lift BOTH of your niece's names - each unusual and clearly the product of considerable thought by your sister. Especially because you are not close to her, everyone will always think you actually are so crazy and lacking in perspective that you turned the occasion of your daughter's birth into a chance to spite your sister.

I think this is a troll thread, but if you are not a troll then you need therapy.

OP here I've liked the names since I was 10 years old. I actually still have the little story I wrote called " Margaux and the Dolphins" It's the only names I've every really liked. When my sister was pregnant I purposely said nothing because I didn't want her to use them. I was pretty upset she used both names I liked, but I couldn't do anything because she got pregnant first.

I'm not spiting anyone. I've always liked those name, and I don't see a good reason why I should have to use names I don't really like just because my sister used them first. If she wants to have a tantrum about it she can.

Fine, OP. In that case, just give your daughter the same name as your niece and consider cutting all ties w/ your sister as well so you don't have to deal w/ her anymore since you hate her so much.'

A lot of posters posted thoughtful suggestions of lovely names but it seems that you already have your mind made up so I'm wondering why you posed the question in the first place unless you just wanted to argue w/ people.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op, did you choose the names first and tell them to your sister only for her to steal them? Otherwise, I don't understand how you can think it is okay to lift BOTH of your niece's names - each unusual and clearly the product of considerable thought by your sister. Especially because you are not close to her, everyone will always think you actually are so crazy and lacking in perspective that you turned the occasion of your daughter's birth into a chance to spite your sister.

I think this is a troll thread, but if you are not a troll then you need therapy.

OP here I've liked the names since I was 10 years old. I actually still have the little story I wrote called " Margaux and the Dolphins" It's the only names I've every really liked. When my sister was pregnant I purposely said nothing because I didn't want her to use them. I was pretty upset she used both names I liked, but I couldn't do anything because she got pregnant first.

I'm not spiting anyone. I've always liked those name, and I don't see a good reason why I should have to use names I don't really like just because my sister used them first. If she wants to have a tantrum about it she can.

Anonymous wrote:Op, did you choose the names first and tell them to your sister only for her to steal them? Otherwise, I don't understand how you can think it is okay to lift BOTH of your niece's names - each unusual and clearly the product of considerable thought by your sister. Especially because you are not close to her, everyone will always think you actually are so crazy and lacking in perspective that you turned the occasion of your daughter's birth into a chance to spite your sister.

I think this is a troll thread, but if you are not a troll then you need therapy.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Margaret
Eliza
Rachel
Petra
Eileen
Ghislaine
Adair
Paulette
Myrna
Carolyn
Noor
Adelaide
Diana

Here is a list off the top of my head of names that have no theme. You do not need therapy, but you do need some perspective. You do not like either of these names, you want to piss off your sister. And I get that, I have a problematic sister relationship, too. But all you are doing by obsessing over her daughter's name is strengthening the problems. So let go. You can't use either name.

Nah, she hates her sister so much that she can't even focus on the kid she is carrying and how she deserves better than to be a poor man's version of her cousin. That is batshit crazy. OP needs help. I bet her sister isn't even thinking of her. Nutty obsessions like OP's are always one sided. Sad.

Anonymous wrote:Margaret
Eliza
Rachel
Petra
Eileen
Ghislaine
Adair
Paulette
Myrna
Carolyn
Noor
Adelaide
Diana

Here is a list off the top of my head of names that have no theme. You do not need therapy, but you do need some perspective. You do not like either of these names, you want to piss off your sister. And I get that, I have a problematic sister relationship, too. But all you are doing by obsessing over her daughter's name is strengthening the problems. So let go. You can't use either name.

Anonymous wrote:Elisa Grace

Not Elise/Elyse...Elisa.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Evelyn Grace

Done.

+1

Anonymous wrote:Evelyn Grace

Done.

Anonymous wrote:Middle name Margaux

Last name starting with a C.



Also want opinion if it's okay to use Margaux as a middle name? It's a name I've always loved, but my sister had babies first and named my niece Margaux is it okay to use it as a middle name. Niece Margaux is 13.


Only other middle name we like is Grace.

Anonymous wrote:OP here.

I would like to just name her Margaux, but that would be to weird.

Going with the Elyse spelling because Elise happens to be niece's middle name which I also loved.

I didn't have the kids first so I didn't get to claim them. Trying to find something to be happy with.

Husband thinks it doesn't matter, but he's not too fond of my sister.

I like Elaine too.