Anonymous
Post 01/14/2016 15:46     Subject: What would you really like to tell your spouse or partner but can't or won't?
That he's gotten downright fat, and we don't have sex because I'm repulsed. I did tell him much more nicely one time, and it did not go well. I've tried to have us go hiking, or runs together, or just walk around the city on foot. Nope, beer and football. And 20 buffalo wings drowning in ranch...
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2016 15:35     Subject: What would you really like to tell your spouse or partner but can't or won't?
Anonymous wrote:If he stopped smoking cigars I would have sex with him much more frequently (at least 4X our current frequency).


Who smokes cigars anymore?
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2016 15:25     Subject: What would you really like to tell your spouse or partner but can't or won't?
If he stopped smoking cigars I would have sex with him much more frequently (at least 4X our current frequency).
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2016 15:21     Subject: What would you really like to tell your spouse or partner but can't or won't?
That when he whines and plays the victim for some really really absurd reason I wouldn't tolerate even for a child, I want to yell at him "MAN UP For Christ sake you are a unappealing pussy".

But I don't, because I love him, don't yell or say nasty words as a principle, and I know his ego cannot handle the idea that he acts "like a pussy"... But damn does it feel tempting...
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2016 14:40     Subject: What would you really like to tell your spouse or partner but can't or won't?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:That you are a really nice guy, a wonderful friend, partner, and father but that I am madly in love with another man. If it weren't for our children I would end the marriage.


Do him a favor and leave. A guy like that deserves someone better.


She deserves to be happy with the other man. Let her DH find someone who is madly in love with him.


What do you figure she did to deserve to be happy with the other man?


Doesn't everyone deserve to be happy? And she never said she did anything.
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2016 13:24     Subject: What would you really like to tell your spouse or partner but can't or won't?
Anonymous wrote:Two things strike me about this thread. First, the number of women complaining that their DHs are out of shape - would expect that to be more of a complaint coming from men. Second, how little effort a lot of men put into sex. Amazing what a bit of attention probably would do....


Makes me jealous of those other couples. I'm very attentive when it comes to sex, and my DW doesn't seem to appreciate it all that much.
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2016 12:50     Subject: What would you really like to tell your spouse or partner but can't or won't?
Anonymous wrote:Two things strike me about this thread. First, the number of women complaining that their DHs are out of shape - would expect that to be more of a complaint coming from men. Second, how little effort a lot of men put into sex. Amazing what a bit of attention probably would do....


Yup, as a DH I am more inspired to get in better shape.
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2016 12:45     Subject: What would you really like to tell your spouse or partner but can't or won't?
Two things strike me about this thread. First, the number of women complaining that their DHs are out of shape - would expect that to be more of a complaint coming from men. Second, how little effort a lot of men put into sex. Amazing what a bit of attention probably would do....
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2016 12:44     Subject: What would you really like to tell your spouse or partner but can't or won't?
I'm very horny - for other people. Be nice to me and I'll direct that energy to you!
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2016 12:40     Subject: What would you really like to tell your spouse or partner but can't or won't?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:That you are a really nice guy, a wonderful friend, partner, and father but that I am madly in love with another man. If it weren't for our children I would end the marriage.


Do him a favor and leave. A guy like that deserves someone better.


She deserves to be happy with the other man. Let her DH find someone who is madly in love with him.


being described as a nice guy = the kiss of relationship death
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2016 12:13     Subject: What would you really like to tell your spouse or partner but can't or won't?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:That you are a really nice guy, a wonderful friend, partner, and father but that I am madly in love with another man. If it weren't for our children I would end the marriage.


Do him a favor and leave. A guy like that deserves someone better.


She deserves to be happy with the other man. Let her DH find someone who is madly in love with him.


What do you figure she did to deserve to be happy with the other man?


She was born with a vagina. Hey, if that's a good enough reason to elect Hillary as the next POTUS, it should entitle this woman to pretty much anything she wants.
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2016 12:11     Subject: What would you really like to tell your spouse or partner but can't or won't?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:That you are a really nice guy, a wonderful friend, partner, and father but that I am madly in love with another man. If it weren't for our children I would end the marriage.


Do him a favor and leave. A guy like that deserves someone better.


She deserves to be happy with the other man. Let her DH find someone who is madly in love with him.


What do you figure she did to deserve to be happy with the other man?
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2016 12:09     Subject: What would you really like to tell your spouse or partner but can't or won't?
That I love him more each day.

But I won't - I like to keep him guessing.
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2016 11:55     Subject: What would you really like to tell your spouse or partner but can't or won't?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:That you are a really nice guy, a wonderful friend, partner, and father but that I am madly in love with another man. If it weren't for our children I would end the marriage.


Do him a favor and leave. A guy like that deserves someone better.


She deserves to be happy with the other man. Let her DH find someone who is madly in love with him.
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2016 11:52     Subject: Re:What would you really like to tell your spouse or partner but can't or won't?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I still have an eating disorder.


Been there. I finally recovered after many hidden years. Hugs.


Congrats on your recovery, PP!

Did you get any kind of professional help before recovering? Does your DH know about the eating disorder now?