Anonymous
12/01/2015 00:39
Subject: Did I deserve such rudeness?
Anonymous wrote:And OP you clearly don't understand what 'talking to' a boy means. They are going out/dating.
They're banging!
Anonymous
12/01/2015 00:38
Subject: Re:Did I deserve such rudeness?
Anonymous wrote:Is anyone else wondering why OP felt the need to drop in the "3 beautiful children" line in her original post? This whole thread is so bizarre, there definitely seems to be something broken in OP's social skills and ability to relate to others.
Yes, I did. It's like an 80 yr old romance author wrote this whole thread.
Anonymous
12/01/2015 00:30
Subject: Did I deserve such rudeness?
Anonymous wrote:
OP has run away to lick her wounded ego.
Not likely unfortunately. OP strikes me as the never wrong type. The friend handled it perfectly, she said her piece and moved on. I'd love to know the content of OP's subsequent text messages.
Anonymous
12/01/2015 00:29
Subject: Re:Did I deserve such rudeness?
Anonymous wrote:OP here.
I texted her to ask for any suggestions she may have. Asking her for suggestions does not guarantee that person gets an invite. This isn't MY house or MY party. I know for a fact the other girl this friend of hers recommended has literally only hung out with my sister out of class once or twice last semester. This boy that my sister has been talking to has only been introduced to this friend of hers and from what I gather, they have hung out a few times and partied together for Halloween. They did not spend Thanksgiving together and he is not even invited to her graduation. She has not brought him around any family. It isn't exactly MY place to reach out to him on behalf of of aunt and invite him to her house. I don't even have his number.
When this girl made her suggestions, I discussed with her how I didn't think they were important enough to get an invite as they were not super close to my sister.
Instead of accepting that I reached out to her for her input, she thinks she IS the party planner.
How am I being crazy?
FYI, she's 23. I am 27.
Sorry, you still sound crazy.
You asked for info, got info, didn't like info and let her know, then you lectured her like a school marm. Problem is you!