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Anonymous wrote:Several more answers in the similar vein and more "skipped" pertinent questions and I'm calling a troll.
But I'll wait a couple more pages...

OP: My goal is to answer questions, but not to the point of outing myself. If you will not be satisfied unless I give you demographic information that can narrow down who I am, then you will just have to call me a troll.

Well, people who are paranoid about outing themselves on the Internet normally don't start their own AMA threads...

But if you insist on "a foreign country" could you perhaps give us a region where your parents are from? And how old were they when they got to the U.S.?

All right, I am African. My mother was in her late teens when she got to the US. My father was in his early 20s.

Thank you - makes more sense now: they might have been acting according to their cultural norms while raising you and your siblings - and you are now evaluating them as parents from your American cultural standpoint. Do you know other people from their home country?

And what was the reason they had so many kids?

OP: I missed your last question. Hell if I know why they had so many kids. That one you might be able to blame on culture, though younger Africans are having fewer kids.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Several more answers in the similar vein and more "skipped" pertinent questions and I'm calling a troll.
But I'll wait a couple more pages...

OP: My goal is to answer questions, but not to the point of outing myself. If you will not be satisfied unless I give you demographic information that can narrow down who I am, then you will just have to call me a troll.

Well, people who are paranoid about outing themselves on the Internet normally don't start their own AMA threads...

But if you insist on "a foreign country" could you perhaps give us a region where your parents are from? And how old were they when they got to the U.S.?

All right, I am African. My mother was in her late teens when she got to the US. My father was in his early 20s.

Thank you - makes more sense now: they might have been acting according to their cultural norms while raising you and your siblings - and you are now evaluating them as parents from your American cultural standpoint. Do you know other people from their home country?

And what was the reason they had so many kids?

Not OP, but the big families I know are seriously effed up; and the parents have more and more children so the parents will (supposedly) be taken care of in old age. An extremely narcissistic view (in more ways than named). Of course, the parents of big families I know would never admit this.

OP, if you looked at me, you would have no idea I have a somewhat similar story; hence the judgements under naive harpies' filthy microscope. Could the same be said of you - that you don't "look the type" (whatever that means)?

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I rarely make assumptions about others because I know how many assumptions about me are untrue.

AMEN !

This needs repeating on this forum regularly.

+1

But IRL, I have met more people than not who subscribe to the judgmental way of life. No wonder they are so miserable! Yet, it would take common sense for judgmental people to figure this out, and we are in no danger of that happening.

Anonymous wrote:How good or bad was your high school?

The school was stretched thin, but those whose parents could advocate for them got into APs and enjoyed resources. There were specialized classes consisting mostly of wealthier kids who were labeled gifted because of their parents pushiness, lol. The rest of the classes were pretty shitty and the remedial classes could be outright dangerous ("remedial" basically meant poor with serious behavioral issues; it was not really about intellect).

I rarely make assumptions about others because I know how many assumptions about me are untrue.

AMEN !

This needs repeating on this forum regularly.