Anonymous
07/09/2015 20:04
Subject: Re:Deal breakers?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Female here
-Religious
-No sense of humor
-No ambition
-Socially awkward
-Roommates
-Poor hygiene
-5’10 or under
-Someone who hates cuddling
Something tells me your sense of humor isn't all that developed either, or perhaps leans towards Gallagher.
What do you have against a guy with a roommate?
It's the 20-something's way of saying she wants guy with money.
Or it's a 30-something's way of saying she wants a guy who is solvent enough to live by himself. Nothing wrong with that.
x2. Also, having a roommate can significantly cut down on sexy times. Maybe she is loud in bed and wants to some privacy- nothing wrong with that!!
I don't know. The thread was about Deal Breakers, not simply preferences. Would a mature adult really eliminate an otherwise eligible partner simply because he had a roommate when they met? Seems pretty stupid, and frighteningly shallow to me. Almost like eliminating a man because "he didn't have a really cool car" or something.
I disagree. And, some women can afford to be picky. I know that if I were on the fence with someone, and I met them and they had a roomate, that might be a deal breaker. It's hard to imagine waking up and spending a lazy Sunday making breakfast in a communal kitchen. Especially if you're older than your mid 20s.
Anonymous
07/09/2015 19:56
Subject: Deal breakers?
- poor emotional regulation
- small penis
- small-minded
- poor hygiene
- poor social skills
- unkind
- small penis
- small-minded
- poor hygiene
- poor social skills
- unkind
Anonymous
07/09/2015 19:55
Subject: Re:Deal breakers?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Female here
-Religious
-No sense of humor
-No ambition
-Socially awkward
-Roommates
-Poor hygiene
-5’10 or under
-Someone who hates cuddling
Something tells me your sense of humor isn't all that developed either, or perhaps leans towards Gallagher.
What do you have against a guy with a roommate?
It's the 20-something's way of saying she wants guy with money.
Or it's a 30-something's way of saying she wants a guy who is solvent enough to live by himself. Nothing wrong with that.
x2. Also, having a roommate can significantly cut down on sexy times. Maybe she is loud in bed and wants to some privacy- nothing wrong with that!!
I don't know. The thread was about Deal Breakers, not simply preferences. Would a mature adult really eliminate an otherwise eligible partner simply because he had a roommate when they met? Seems pretty stupid, and frighteningly shallow to me. Almost like eliminating a man because "he didn't have a really cool car" or something.
Anonymous
07/09/2015 19:51
Subject: Deal breakers?
Mental issues including depression, anxiety, anger management issues, etc.
Basically someone not crazy who does not have a diagnosis and those are hard to find after a certain age.
Basically someone not crazy who does not have a diagnosis and those are hard to find after a certain age.
Anonymous
07/09/2015 19:29
Subject: Re:Deal breakers?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Female here
-Religious
-No sense of humor
-No ambition
-Socially awkward
-Roommates
-Poor hygiene
-5’10 or under
-Someone who hates cuddling
Something tells me your sense of humor isn't all that developed either, or perhaps leans towards Gallagher.
What do you have against a guy with a roommate?
It's the 20-something's way of saying she wants guy with money.
Or it's a 30-something's way of saying she wants a guy who is solvent enough to live by himself. Nothing wrong with that.
x2. Also, having a roommate can significantly cut down on sexy times. Maybe she is loud in bed and wants to some privacy- nothing wrong with that!!
Anonymous
07/09/2015 19:28
Subject: Re:Deal breakers?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Female here
-Religious
-No sense of humor
-No ambition
-Socially awkward
-Roommates
-Poor hygiene
-5’10 or under
-Someone who hates cuddling
Something tells me your sense of humor isn't all that developed either, or perhaps leans towards Gallagher.
What do you have against a guy with a roommate?
It's the 20-something's way of saying she wants guy with money.
Or it's a 30-something's way of saying she wants a guy who is solvent enough to live by himself. Nothing wrong with that.
The rest of the list suggest a younger person.
Anonymous
07/09/2015 19:18
Subject: Re:Deal breakers?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Female here
-Religious
-No sense of humor
-No ambition
-Socially awkward
-Roommates
-Poor hygiene
-5’10 or under
-Someone who hates cuddling
Something tells me your sense of humor isn't all that developed either, or perhaps leans towards Gallagher.
What do you have against a guy with a roommate?
It's the 20-something's way of saying she wants guy with money.
Or it's a 30-something's way of saying she wants a guy who is solvent enough to live by himself. Nothing wrong with that.
Anonymous
07/09/2015 19:17
Subject: Deal breakers?
Woman here:
Older than me
Being an uggo
Unambitious
Doesn't know how to take direction/ tries to control me
Rude/bad manners
Insults women's appearances in front of me (or talks about their body in an objectifying way)
Older than me
Being an uggo
Unambitious
Doesn't know how to take direction/ tries to control me
Rude/bad manners
Insults women's appearances in front of me (or talks about their body in an objectifying way)
Anonymous
07/09/2015 19:15
Subject: Deal breakers?
Anonymous wrote:Guy here--
Cigarette smoking
Alcoholism
Anger/controlling issues
Other than that:
Look good
Shut up
Be kind
You can't spell "conceited" and SHE's the stupid one? LOL...
Anonymous
07/09/2015 17:07
Subject: Deal breakers?
Nope:
dumb
smoking
addictive personality (booze, pills, gambling, golf, etc)
violent
misogynistic/racist
religious (other than Buddhist)
lacks sense of humor
homebody
dumb
smoking
addictive personality (booze, pills, gambling, golf, etc)
violent
misogynistic/racist
religious (other than Buddhist)
lacks sense of humor
homebody
Anonymous
07/09/2015 16:57
Subject: Deal breakers?
Anonymous wrote:Who doesn't like John Irving?
Right?!
Anonymous
07/09/2015 16:12
Subject: Re:Deal breakers?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Female here
-Religious
-No sense of humor
-No ambition
-Socially awkward
-Roommates
-Poor hygiene
-5’10 or under
-Someone who hates cuddling
Something tells me your sense of humor isn't all that developed either, or perhaps leans towards Gallagher.
What do you have against a guy with a roommate?
It's the 20-something's way of saying she wants guy with money.
Anonymous
07/09/2015 15:17
Subject: Re:Deal breakers?
Married woman here but this is my list from when I was single:
-unkind
-addicted to drugs or alcohol
-no sense of humor
-more than 10 years older or younger than me
-racist or sexist
-does not want children
-boring
-arrogant
-bad in bed
-unkind
-addicted to drugs or alcohol
-no sense of humor
-more than 10 years older or younger than me
-racist or sexist
-does not want children
-boring
-arrogant
-bad in bed
Anonymous
07/09/2015 15:14
Subject: Deal breakers?
Anonymous wrote:What are your deal breakers?
Mine:
1. People who make lists of trivial characteristics and eliminate otherwise decent people sight unseen based on those lists.
2. People who own three tined forks.
That's it.
Anonymous
07/09/2015 15:10
Subject: Deal breakers?
Anonymous wrote:Who doesn't like John Irving?
I love John Irving.