Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:ambition, intelligence, and confidence are important.

wearing clothes that fit and emphasize your positive physical attributes is a big deal - not everyone needs to wear short skirts or show cleavage. But, wearing bulky unfitted clothing make even the best looking woman less attractive. If you have great legs, wear heels and skirts. If you've got a great waist, make sure you wear something that shows it instead of covering it.

Ambition will make a woman more attractive? Nah, I don't think so.

All the truly ambitious women I know stay single without kids.

Shut up
Put out
Get a life
Hold down a job
Don't waste money
Look good

I'm not reading through seven pages of comments, but I assume a few other guys already said it:

Stay within 10-15 lbs of your original weight when we met.
Maintain the same sex schedule.
Say exactly what is on your mind in as few figurative terms as possible.
Don't use the kids as an excuse to not do the above.

So many people see those three things as cliched but that's only because it's what we really care about.

Anonymous wrote:ambition, intelligence, and confidence are important.

wearing clothes that fit and emphasize your positive physical attributes is a big deal - not everyone needs to wear short skirts or show cleavage. But, wearing bulky unfitted clothing make even the best looking woman less attractive. If you have great legs, wear heels and skirts. If you've got a great waist, make sure you wear something that shows it instead of covering it.

Ambition will make a woman more attractive? Nah, I don't think so.

ambition, intelligence, and confidence are important.

wearing clothes that fit and emphasize your positive physical attributes is a big deal - not everyone needs to wear short skirts or show cleavage. But, wearing bulky unfitted clothing make even the best looking woman less attractive. If you have great legs, wear heels and skirts. If you've got a great waist, make sure you wear something that shows it instead of covering it.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Can anyone seriously answer OPs question? First, assume no one is nagging, then . . .

Those *are* serious answers: be nice and don't get out-of-shape. That's truly is most of it. Men are very simple.

If you are an out-of-shape nag, it will not matter that you got your hair done, and a mani/pedi, or are wearing perfume, or a nice dress, or use x brand make-up vs y brand make-up.

Thanks, you just saved me a boatload of money!

Good for you! You can save even more money on food bills.

Anonymous wrote:pay attention

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hKWmFWRVLlU

Funny, and right on target!

pay attention

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hKWmFWRVLlU

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My guy notices how I try to be sexy for him. He does the same for me. If he didn't take care of himself, I wouldn't want to have sex with him. It's consideration for your partner and their needs, not misogyny.

House cows love throwing the term misogyny around.

House cow – n – a woman who has let herself go so badly, she can only wear something drape-like to cover her amorphous shape. Furthermore, she believes all men are pigs, both for thinking she's disgusting looking AND for actually wanting to have sex with her (the latter being her man). She's very naggy. Nothing's her fault. And she fat due to a "thyroid problem" (poor thyroid doesn't know how to burn 10000 calories daily).

You're not doing yourself any favors with that post. Go spew your stupidity elsewhere. I'll carry on being sexy for my guy who appreciates and respects me.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm a DH who volunteers at my kids school once a month. Whenever I go there and see the other mothers I return home so grateful foe my beautiful wife. She exercises daily, eats healthy, is thin, strong, and as a result sexy as hell. I truly am shocked at the physical condition of these other similar aged mothers.

Where do you live??

My kids school is like a mommy-war competition for who can be the hottest. Don't even get me started on the pool during the summer.

I think there are 2 kinds of moms...those who go all out and those who stopped giving a shit.

I love the smell of milf in the summer

AMEN!!!!

Love the community pool. Even better on Mon-Fri afternoons.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm a DH who volunteers at my kids school once a month. Whenever I go there and see the other mothers I return home so grateful foe my beautiful wife. She exercises daily, eats healthy, is thin, strong, and as a result sexy as hell. I truly am shocked at the physical condition of these other similar aged mothers.

Where do you live??

My kids school is like a mommy-war competition for who can be the hottest. Don't even get me started on the pool during the summer.

I think there are 2 kinds of moms...those who go all out and those who stopped giving a shit.

I love the smell of milf in the summer

Anonymous wrote:Lets use this thread to have the wonderful gentleman on here talk about what they think makes women more attractive to them. Gentlemen, what can us women do to make ourselves more attractive to you? Have longer hair? Wear more dresses? Nag less? etc.

The 5 areas of attractiveness:

1. Physical Beauty
2. Cultivate Intelligence/Culture
3. Pleasant/relaxed disposition
4. Supportive and Loyal
5. Sexually open.

Under physical beauty, this means longer hair (unless you have top 5% bone structure/cheek bones/complexion and then you can go pixie cut or even shaved head), lithe/svelte body, defined calves, firm and high up ass, toned stomach. I prefer brunettes with thick/naturally voluminous hair but some dudes like stick-haired blondes. No tattoos or weird piercings. radiant skin that is supple and youthful. That means cutting back on the drinking, increasing your sleep and water intake, lowering your stress.

Cultivate intelligence and culture - learn a 2nd language, become well versed in the arts, or music, or philosophy. Read a shit ton of books from varying disciples. Travel and immerse yourelf in other cultures truly - not just as a tourist. I went on a date where all a girl could talk about was her dog.

Don't be neurotic, stressed out, bipolar, unhinged, swinging moods, etc.

Supportive & loyal. I don't care what you do for a job as long as you can feed, clothe, and shelter yourself. I do well for myself but i want to know that if i suddenly became 'a nigga with a bus pass', that would you will still be in my corner. Push me to be the best i can be, but don't wear me down into dust.

Sexually open - make yourself available, i don't want to chase all the the time. most importantly, you must love to suck cock, at a moments notice. surprise me as we're sitting and watching a program. service my morning wood. Yes i'm equal opportunity - the difference between a woman I feel like going to the ends of the earth for and one that i'm using just to bust a nut is I will have a burning desire to tongue fuck the asshole of the former.

Anonymous wrote:The obsession with thin is incorrect. I am thin, fit, and pretty. My husband left me for a fatter woman.

Then you must be a horrible nag and lousy in bed.

Anonymous wrote:I am recently single and this thread makes me feel pretty good about spending Valentines Day alone this year...lol.

My male friends from college literally found a spouse the minute they were done with grad school. It was like a box that they needed to check off of a to do list.