It's the truth. It's the slightly less callous version of "treat 'em like shit, and they'll love you forever."

No follow up "I had a great time" texts/emails, unless she does first, and then keep it short and sweet. Etc.

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Anonymous wrote:
essentially what women have shown is that they want to be treated like ONS's or flings even when you think they have long term potential.

The goal is to care as little as possible.

I should save this for my future wife if she bitches about me not caring enough.

"Well darling, if I did when I was pursuing you, we would've never ended up getting married. I'm just trying to be consistent here"

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essentially what women have shown is that they want to be treated like ONS's or flings even when you think they have long term potential.

The goal is to care as little as possible.

Anonymous wrote:Comes on too strong. One guy was talking marriage by the third date! Another told me he dumped his girlfriend for me.

The worst, though, was the guy who told me he had built a computer from scratch and had named it after his mother.

Guy here - that's probably my biggest flaw. Now, i would never be talking about marriage by a third date - that's silly. But for all of the casual 'successful encounters' that i've always had, when i find a woman i truly like i fall pretty hard and fast.

but some of the stuff i've read on this thread are crazy - joint bank account during dating?!?! wtf. and i thought i was bad.

I'll give an example - went out with a woman I really liked and could see serious potential - 5 hour first date, back at her place making out for an hour or so. got home and sent her a short email with an interesting picture that we had talked about earlier that evening before I went to bed.

radio silence.

essentially what women have shown is that they want to be treated like ONS's or flings even when you think they have long term potential.

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Anonymous wrote:He wants to have a joined bank account with me after just two months of dating.

Are you serious?

I am. Dropped him when I was 30.

If a date asked me to have a joint account after two months, I'd dump him/her too.

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Anonymous wrote:He was mean to my brother.

Any woman mean to my siblings would be axed. That is a huge no-no. Good for you

I was faced with this also. But my sibling is a bitch.....so I understood both sides.

Anonymous wrote:He was mean to my brother.

Any woman mean to my siblings would be axed. That is a huge no-no. Good for you

He was mean to my brother.

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Anonymous wrote:He wants to have a joined bank account with me after just two months of dating.

Are you serious?

I am. Dropped him when I was 30.

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Anonymous wrote:But it shouldn't be that hard and I certainly have zero interest in having to "teach" a man.

Nicole, is that you?

What a cold-hearted bitch you are.

Are you the married guy?