Anonymous wrote:I have two answers....13 and 20. Thirteen was not really consensual -- I am male, but was seduced by a mom of a friend at 13.

were you afraid? unwilling @ 13?

I was 16 and I lost it to my older brothers friend. After helping my brother move, his friend ( J) went to pick up some stuff my brother needed. On the way home he asked me I ever had sex. I told him no because my boyfriend just broke up with me for a slut. He started talking sexual and next thing you know we are stopped and he is eating me out. I proceeded to give him a blowjob but I wasn't good at it back then lol. We ended up having sex in the back of his van. He was 27. I regret it big time and it was so painful.

14, female. I'm 40 now and have had a total of 6 sex partners so far, and married 2 them, currently still married to DH#2.

Having sex young doesn't always lead to promiscuity.

I do however wish I had waited much longer.

I was 16. My boyfriend was also 16. We were together for 6 months before and a year after. I do not regret having sex so early, nor do I regret the person I had sex with. He was not an amazing lover, but I wasn't an amazing lover either. We learned things together and it was sweet. He'd had sex once before with someone else.

I have a daughter now, and honestly, I would kind of prefer her to have sex BEFORE she goes away to college, if only because I have seen so many kids go completely wild the second they escape their parent's supervision - whether that's food, alcohol, sex or all of the above. Ideally, DD would lose her virginity to a nice boy we've all known for many years, and they have a stable relationship that ends because he's selected to be on the team of people who colonize Mars or something.

Male, 16 with my GF who was 15. She said she was a virgin but I really don't think so. She was from the city and I was a country boy. I later dated a 15 year old (when I was 18) and she was not a virgin either. We were all way too young and should have waited but those damned teenage hormones!

I have two answers....13 and 20. Thirteen was not really consensual -- I am male, but was seduced by a mom of a friend at 13.

16 and a half with a steady boyfriend. We parted ways halfway through freshman year. I absolutely don't regret it because we really did love each other in the sweet, comfortable, sometimes dramatic but in retrospect uncomplicated way that normal 16 year olds can love each other.

What I do regret is that we were so connected at the hip that I didn't spend as much time with friends as I could or should have. I was very lucky to have college friends who forgave me for going home each weekend the first half of freshman year, and then welcomed me with open arms when I became a true part of their community after the break up.

I don't have a daughter but if I do or did, I would emphasize the importance of safe sex AND not putting all of your eggs in one basket socially.

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Anonymous wrote:25 - female. To my DH on my wedding night.

+1. This isn't surprising in my culture

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Anonymous wrote:25 - female. To my DH on my wedding night.

+1. This isn't surprising in my culture

18. Boyfriend was 18 also.

18 to my 23 yo BF of one month.
I was the very very last of my friends, by a mile. I was dying to get it over with.

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Anonymous wrote:17, with my English teacher! I really loved him. He would be arrested today. It was 30 years ago.

It is always the English teachers. Creeps.

Hm.. yea, my former AP English teacher married one of his former students. I don't know when the relationship started, though.

Come to think of it, the girls in my high school were always mooning over one of the English teachers. One of my buddies took the virginity of that English teacher's daughter though. So, Circle of Life, I guess.

25 to my now husband. We've now been together almost 4 years.

15 female. Wish I would have waited for someone that cared more about me.

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Anonymous wrote:17, with my English teacher! I really loved him. He would be arrested today. It was 30 years ago.

Did he love you? Or did he just take advantage of you? I know you said you loved him, but a 17 yr old can easily fall in love.

I still haven't figured that question out and it's been 30 years. Sometimes I think yes, sometimes I think no.

I am guessing he just wanted a hot 17 year old piece of a**.