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Anonymous wrote:What motivates me is the feeling I get when I spend money, I feel awful, sometimes sick to my stomach. When I save money and see my savings account balances I get happy and feel secure.

I also get very anxious after spending money. Sometimes I will even return what I purchased. I don't really know why I am like this.

This cannot be healthy? why do you feel so bad about spending money? How did you find a marriage partner being like that?

Anonymous wrote:I grew up with hoarder parents. My mother still always is shopping at stores, yard sales, estate sales, etc. Their house is just full of stuff. It drives me crazy. I hated being ashamed of my house. I would have to lie about why I couldn't have people over, etc. i still can't and do.

I am sure that because of that, I am a minimalist. I don't have excessive amounts, of anything. I have just a few pair of nice quality shoes and clothes. I don't wear jewelry other than my wedding and and watch. I don't buy my children a ton of clothes and shoes either. We have one car. I just don't want stuff taking over my life.

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Don't you like to go to a nice dinner with your spouse? Enjoy a nice bottle of wine.... Go to get a massage, get your hair done. These things are nice.

What I love doing is spending money on my house, my house is my haven, I love how it looks. I'm home a lot so I want to think my home is beautiful.

Sure, those things are all nice. But they don't make you or anyone happy. I get as more pleasure from
cheap takeout pizza shared with family...
giving and receiving massages with DH...
hiking in the woods (more beautiful than your home, no matter how you decorate)...

There is a reason why salary increases over $75k only bring about marginal increases in happiness. Because once you can afford food, healthcare and a safe home, there isn't much more money can do for you. If I can be happy spending less money, why wouldn't I? That was I can save my money for an emergency and share with others.

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Anonymous wrote:Lack funds

Hey, me too.

Hey, then get a better job.

But I got a good job.

Not if you lack funds.

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Don't you like to go to a nice dinner with your spouse? Enjoy a nice bottle of wine.... Go to get a massage, get your hair done. These things are nice.

What I love doing is spending money on my house, my house is my haven, I love how it looks. I'm home a lot so I want to think my home is beautiful.

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Anonymous wrote:I don't like to be stressed about money.

I think the savers are more stressed about the money. Look at all the PP who stress out and return things because they feel guilt when they buy it. It's probably not expensive things either.

I would rather work a few extra years than love like that.

Working must not be stressful or tiring for you. It is for me.

Also, statistics show that people are too optimistic about how their health will be as they age, and many retire sooner than anticipated. Better be safe than sorry and save up your retirement nut early in life.

Working is stressful for me, that's why I like to enjoy life outside work and not live poorly.

My quality of life is not correlated to how much money I spend.

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Anonymous wrote:I don't like to be stressed about money.

I think the savers are more stressed about the money. Look at all the PP who stress out and return things because they feel guilt when they buy it. It's probably not expensive things either.

I would rather work a few extra years than love like that.

Working must not be stressful or tiring for you. It is for me.

Also, statistics show that people are too optimistic about how their health will be as they age, and many retire sooner than anticipated. Better be safe than sorry and save up your retirement nut early in life.

Working is stressful for me, that's why I like to enjoy life outside work and not live poorly.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't like to be stressed about money.

I think the savers are more stressed about the money. Look at all the PP who stress out and return things because they feel guilt when they buy it. It's probably not expensive things either.

I would rather work a few extra years than love like that.

Working must not be stressful or tiring for you. It is for me.

Also, statistics show that people are too optimistic about how their health will be as they age, and many retire sooner than anticipated. Better be safe than sorry and save up your retirement nut early in life.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't like to be stressed about money.

I think the savers are more stressed about the money. Look at all the PP who stress out and return things because they feel guilt when they buy it. It's probably not expensive things either.

I would rather work a few extra years than love like that.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't like to be stressed about money.

I think the savers are more stressed about the money. Look at all the PP who stress out and return things because they feel guilt when they buy it. It's probably not expensive things either.

I would rather work a few extra years than love like that.

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Anonymous wrote:Lack funds

Hey, me too.

Hey, then get a better job.

But I got a good job.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lack funds

Hey, me too.

Hey, then get a better job.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lack funds

Hey, me too.

Anonymous wrote:Lack funds