Anonymous
07/20/2014 11:27
Subject: Re:"Wow, your husband is so handsome!"
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
I am the 'eye candy' poster and that is my DH's body at 42. He has a very handsome face too--better than that guy's.
I have always been very hot myself---but I will say when women are in their 40s, 50s, 60s--even if they are beautiful it's not like men that retain that sex appeal to much older ages. I have creeping self-esteem issues about aging that were never there in my youth when I went toe-to-toe with him.
I agree with the 'tiresome' post. We've been married for 17 years now. Yes- I know he's hot. There are so many bored housewives married to very unattractive men at our school--that do wear those footie shoes...so depending on my mood--I'm either proud, find it funny, or sometimes suspicious when it is coming from a whorish mom. I generally just brush it off.
It is weird to be told that your husband is the talk of the entire PTA. It's also weird to always be told by people that we are the 'perfect swininging couple' because usually one partner not attractive.
I am always amazed at some of the comments women make. You label others "whorish" and call all them "bored housewives married to very unattractive men." (I don't understand the "footie" comment.) Yet you also call yourself hot.
I wonder if you're the issue. I bet these "whorish or bored housewives" are doing it just to get back at you - knowing exactly what your insecure spots are.
Quite honestly, I'm embarrassed by women like you. You make the rest of us "bored housewives married to very unattractive men" look really bad. I'll take the "footie shoes" over your hot looks any old day.
No. The whorish mom has actually fucked two other husbands at the school. I mean just that--whore.
Anonymous
07/20/2014 02:02
Subject: Re:"Wow, your husband is so handsome!"
Anonymous wrote:it's not like men that retain that sex appeal to much older ages. I have creeping self-esteem issues about aging that were never there in my youth when I went toe-to-toe with him.
Nice job contradicting yourself. PS--Our wallets are fatter, too.
Anonymous
07/19/2014 19:41
Subject: "Wow, your husband is so handsome!"
I'd think she was a nut for walking away.
Being amazing looking is genetically flukey and time is a destroyer of this. It's a compliment, but not really that big or important a deal. Taking your looks too personally, or placing so much importance on them is just not going to end well.
She should have taken your comment the same way as if someone said 'good catch' or 'wow, a rainbow'. it doesn't take anything away from her or him.
Being amazing looking is genetically flukey and time is a destroyer of this. It's a compliment, but not really that big or important a deal. Taking your looks too personally, or placing so much importance on them is just not going to end well.
She should have taken your comment the same way as if someone said 'good catch' or 'wow, a rainbow'. it doesn't take anything away from her or him.
Anonymous
07/19/2014 09:10
Subject: "Wow, your husband is so handsome!"
I said this oince to a co worker, because her husband was really hot! And she was not at all. She just said thank you.
I realized later what I had done. I never say that anymore.
I realized later what I had done. I never say that anymore.
Anonymous
07/19/2014 09:04
Subject: "Wow, your husband is so handsome!"
I think you now know what NOT to say to her, lol.
Op, you paid an innocent compliment, you didn't do anything wrong or weird. Her reaction is not what you expected possibly because it's a touchy subject for her for some reason. You don't know why that is and you don't need to know..
Op, you paid an innocent compliment, you didn't do anything wrong or weird. Her reaction is not what you expected possibly because it's a touchy subject for her for some reason. You don't know why that is and you don't need to know..