Anonymous wrote:This is the stepdaughter's decision. If she wants a nose job and you can afford it and get her into to see one of the best plastic surgeons in the country - go for it. Screw the mother.
Anonymous wrote:Your stepdaughter has been discussing this with her therapist for a while now and the therapist is supporting her - do it, OP. She is ready.
The mother is being controlling and probably still angry that the stepdaughter went so out of control on her watch. And having her ex marry a woman with money doesn't help her disposition any either. If the bitch mother gets too vindictive with the youngest stepdaughter, DH could take her back to court.
Anonymous wrote:Well, there might be more to this than the mother's anti-plastic surgery position and with that her daughter embraced it. She might be nervous that it will not be a good one. (I can spot a bad one a hallway away. A new colleague has one!) She might resent your money. Who knows.
Where is the daughter living now? Still with you and DH?