Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP is foreign and obviously from a culture that thinks memorizing and regurgitating = learning. (Asian? Indian?)
Then welcome to America. Time to assimilate.
This is OP. This will be my 4th and last posting here.
Thank you to all who gave constructive criticism, including the free websites. I was hoping I would hear from ELL parents who had gone though the same experience as me, and how they handled it.
When DS first brought the syllabus and I saw all the college level material/books he had to read, I knew it would be more than chanllenging for him. I tried to see if he could take an alternate class, but there was none.
Imagine your pre-algebra kid being told he has to take calculus. That was our situation.
So I told him to take notes, bring everything home and do the best we could. Day after day he would come home saying he did not understand the classwork. After meeting with the teacher, I learned more about the way the class was run and knew he needed much more structure to understand the class.
Independent reading/writing/cooperative group with minimal direct teaching did not work for him, and he was not learning.
I did meet with the IEP case manager requesting someone teach him how to write/do research. I am not sure it ever happened.
So I started getting him help. The teacher and admin knew he was getting help. There was nothing mentioned about his essays all year long. Instead of showing it to one person, this time he showed it to 2 people and then memorized all the essays.
Had we been told anything during the year, we would have addressed it and corrected it.
This class for him was a sink or swim situation. He worked very hard and thought he was swimming, but alas, he sank at the very last moment.
Had this happened earlier in the year, it would have been a learning process. Now it has become a punitive experience.
Let's all move on.
Anonymous wrote:Sometimes it does happen naturally. When I was in college, I got called to see the professor. It was an art history class, and we'd been asked to write a paper about any painting in the university museum. I had gone to the library and found one article about the painting.
Because it was pre-internet and because I was saving this for the night before, I didn't go any further. Around 2 am, I was tired and just started making up any artsy-fartsy BS I could about the painting ("the juxtaposition of the three heads implies the Holy Trinity and the artist's internal struggle with God...."). I had been kind of embarrassed to turn it in because I thought it was ridiculous and over the top.
I get to the professor's office and he says, "be careful, you're either going to get an A or you're going to fail the course. Did you read any articles about this painting?" "Yes, the one I cited. I didn't have time to go looking for anything else." So he pulls out another article and says "so you didn't see this one?" "Nope."
So I read it. It was almost identical to my paper, and looked like what would happen if you were trying to plagiarize a paper and paraphrase it and switch a couple of paragraphs around. I was horrified, and I blurted out, "no, I really never saw it and I just put down whatever BS I could think of about the painting!" He laughed, and I got the A. But if he'd been a hardass or just crotchety, who knows.
Anonymous wrote:Why did you sign him up for that advanced charter school in the first place, if you knew he could not handle the work?
Anonymous wrote:Before you run off, can you explain to us how a person plagiarizes a resume? HEAVILY, in your own words. Are you claiming accomplishments that are not your own?
Anonymous wrote:Before you run off, can you explain to us how a person plagiarizes a resume? HEAVILY, in your own words. Are you claiming accomplishments that are not your own?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP is foreign and obviously from a culture that thinks memorizing and regurgitating = learning. (Asian? Indian?)
Then welcome to America. Time to assimilate.
Anonymous wrote:OP is foreign and obviously from a culture that thinks memorizing and regurgitating = learning. (Asian? Indian?)
Anonymous wrote:It sounds like the poor kid was over-prepped for his test to the point he had memorized his notes. Had he just been studying concepts for basic understanding and writing an essay on the spot, he might have been okay. Instead he researched, was tutored, rewrote and basically regurgitated information he pulled from other sources. Getting the questions in advance was his downfall.