Anonymous wrote: Please be absolutely sure you're not wrong about this. If you're just a bored, has-nothing-better-to-do woman--tread carefully. I have a next door neighbor that is male and I'm female. Our spouses know each other. One of our kids is the same age. On some days, the neighbors husband is off and I'm home as well. He works shifts so his schedule is unusual. If my child is outside playing in our front yard, the other child will say hi and come over. The same thing happens when their child is outside. There have been many times when I'm home and we have hung out together while our spouses weren't home. I, too, have gone inside their home and we've let the kids play. We've even had a beer together while talking. We talk about work, weather, the neighborhood, our kids, news, etc. Most of the time we're outside with the kids in the front or backyard. We have NEVER touched or been inappropriate with each other. We don't go there. I could see how someone could misinterpret our conversations outside. Our kids have fun together and so we have something in common. You haven't posted HOW you know there is an affair going on so please don't drop any kind of bomb on a pregnant woman unless you absolutely know for sure. I can't imagine the pain she'll feel.
OPs husband has photo proof, I'm assuming its of the neighbors making out. No one thinks someone sitting on a patio having a beer is cheating.