Anonymous
Post 01/02/2014 09:09     Subject: Where to find a WASP husband
Anonymous wrote:Just curious, why is there so much hate for Southern WASPs in this thread?


Because of the extensive racism that goes along with that history. of course, there's as much racism oop North, but it's the racism many on here have grown up with. So I guess that makes it better, much like I grew up with Southern style racism and that just makes it better.
Anonymous
Post 01/02/2014 02:16     Subject: Where to find a WASP husband
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP here. I do know black preppy guys from old black families (like they have homes on Sag Harbor), but they're even more stuck up than white people. Seriously. They like black girls with light skin and "good hair", whatever that means to them, so yeah.
Why does going to a "top tier" school so essential to be a WASP girlfriend? I went to a good HBC.


See right there is where your problem is going to be. I am a 40 something white woman and I know exactly what they mean.

This means they do not get braids, extensions, weaves, etc. They have hair that looks as close to a white woman's as possible.

No twenty something WASP will give you the time of day if you have braids or anything that appears to be "ethnic".


But those ethnic styles are like catnip for other kinds of white men, mainly the hipsters. They go for women with long, Poetic Justice style braids, locs, or curly fros. Pretty much any kind of hairstyle that you would see at Afropunk.
Anonymous
Post 01/02/2014 02:10     Subject: Where to find a WASP husband
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:go to law school.


Thats if you want a jewish husband


Not a bad choice. Jewish guys love Black women.

All of the Black women in my family (and my godmother) married Jewish guys. I'm the only one that married a regular white guy.
Anonymous
Post 01/02/2014 02:05     Subject: Where to find a WASP husband
AA female here who went to prep school and grew up surrounded by WASPs. Those men almost never date or marry outside their race.

Its much easier to land a rich hipster with a trust fund. Same lifestyle perks, minus the douchebag attitude.
Anonymous
Post 01/01/2014 21:21     Subject: Where to find a WASP husband
OP is an idiot.
Anonymous
Post 01/01/2014 21:17     Subject: Where to find a WASP husband
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP here. I do know black preppy guys from old black families (like they have homes on Sag Harbor), but they're even more stuck up than white people. Seriously. They like black girls with light skin and "good hair", whatever that means to them, so yeah.
Why does going to a "top tier" school so essential to be a WASP girlfriend? I went to a good HBC.


See right there is where your problem is going to be. I am a 40 something white woman and I know exactly what they mean.

This means they do not get braids, extensions, weaves, etc. They have hair that looks as close to a white woman's as possible.

No twenty something WASP will give you the time of day if you have braids or anything that appears to be "ethnic".


OP, it is important to be valued. You thought maybe WASPs will value someone like you. This thread has provided you with a reality check. So, change your tack. Find out who will value you, and try and be worthy of that person.
Anonymous
Post 01/01/2014 21:12     Subject: Where to find a WASP husband
Anonymous wrote:OP here. I do know black preppy guys from old black families (like they have homes on Sag Harbor), but they're even more stuck up than white people. Seriously. They like black girls with light skin and "good hair", whatever that means to them, so yeah.
Why does going to a "top tier" school so essential to be a WASP girlfriend? I went to a good HBC.


See right there is where your problem is going to be. I am a 40 something white woman and I know exactly what they mean.

This means they do not get braids, extensions, weaves, etc. They have hair that looks as close to a white woman's as possible.

No twenty something WASP will give you the time of day if you have braids or anything that appears to be "ethnic".
Anonymous
Post 01/01/2014 20:48     Subject: Where to find a WASP husband
Not hate exactly, but conventional wisdom would say the odds of a Southern WASP marrying a black woman are lower.
Anonymous
Post 01/01/2014 04:36     Subject: Where to find a WASP husband
Just curious, why is there so much hate for Southern WASPs in this thread?
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2013 19:08     Subject: Where to find a WASP husband
The OP is a piece of shit. No one black or white, rich or poor would want to have that bitch by their side.
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2013 17:05     Subject: Where to find a WASP husband
yall might be right about a troll as they tend to drop a bomb and then disappear like op.
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2013 11:56     Subject: Where to find a WASP husband
Anonymous wrote:go to law school.


Thats if you want a jewish husband
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2013 11:18     Subject: Where to find a WASP husband
I want to time travel 90 years and into a fictional story to find a husband with the lifestyle I wish to become accustomed to.

Best of luck with all that.
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2013 09:40     Subject: Where to find a WASP husband
OP is the equivalent of costume jewelry...cheap and fake.
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2013 08:53     Subject: Where to find a WASP husband
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:

She wants to date Gatsby. WASP is a perfectly appropriate term I this situation. Nothing racist about it.




Gatsby was not a WASP. He was a poseur/climber. Tom Buchanan was the WASP. Daisy was a Southern WASP.


You are correct: Gatsby was the poseur/climber and so is the OP, and that is who she wants to date. To be a Tom Buchanan WASP you have to be raised that way - just think how ridiculous the whigger bois with their beer-can rice-burners look trying to 'be black'.

Not trying to be ugly here, but if the OP is as shallow as she sounds (and she sounds mighty trollish) then might as well give her the straight dope.