Anonymous wrote:10:15 More afterschool programs would open like they already are. The private market takes care of needs that people want to pay. You can't have a system where more people are taking out instead of putting in. Parents with one working spouse already can take a tax deduction for their other spouse during their working years. If they want more funds in retirement, they should pay more into SS.
FCPS ranks first in the nation for high school graduation rates in large school systems. Even with children coming into high school without knowing English and a schooling background only to a 3rd grade level. That's astounding. And yet, we can't pay our teachers reasonable amounts and have classes over 30 students. There has to be some balance and more vocational opportunities as well. It's simply too much for a teacher to be responsible for teaching a child 9 years of education over 4 years plus teach them English.
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People who stay at home take care of all that it takes to run a household without pay. Besides childcare, which is the most important work they do, many do all the housecleaning, cooking, shopping, and lawn care. Some are taking care of disabled children or elderly parents. In addition, many use that 6-8 hours (which gets shortened when there are multiple kids on different school schedules or the parent provides transportation to and from school) to provide community service, volunteering time as helpers in schools, as Scout leaders, religious education instructors, club organizers. They do fundraising for schools and community groups.
Families that choose for one parent to stay at home make a lot of sacrifices. Yes, it is a choice a family makes, but it is a choice that has benefits for society at large.
(Just think, if all those stay at home parents suddenly needed after school care, what would happen to that already long waitlist for SACC?)
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People who stay at home take care of all that it takes to run a household without pay. Besides childcare, which is the most important work they do, many do all the housecleaning, cooking, shopping, and lawn care. Some are taking care of disabled children or elderly parents. In addition, many use that 6-8 hours (which gets shortened when there are multiple kids on different school schedules or the parent provides transportation to and from school) to provide community service, volunteering time as helpers in schools, as Scout leaders, religious education instructors, club organizers. They do fundraising for schools and community groups.
Families that choose for one parent to stay at home make a lot of sacrifices. Yes, it is a choice a family makes, but it is a choice that has benefits for society at large.
(Just think, if all those stay at home parents suddenly needed after school care, what would happen to that already long waitlist for SACC?)
Anonymous wrote:Once you are out of the workforce for 7+ years, it's very very difficult to get back in. The market/system is not very flexible unless you are in a field like teaching or nursing. What we really need is a year of maternity/paternity leave and better access to nursery schools. If that was the case, it would be a lot easier for qualified women to get back into the workforce and contribute to the Soc. Sec. pool.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:16:54 There are many people who provide worth to society, however it makes sense that a program would run out of money when a women working outside of the house paying into the program all those years gets the same amount back as a woman staying at home not paying into the program. You're supposed to get back what you put in, but these women or men who stay at home do not put any money into the program, therefore they shouldn't get anything back unless they are poor and can't take care of themselves. We know people who've retired with millions of dollars getting two social security checks back 20 years plus even though only one worked. This is just one of the problems with the program.
I'm not sure that is true. I look at social SECURITY as a means of ensuring that we don't have people living on the street in their old age and if you've worked a long time, then you get something more than people who haven't worked (contributed a long time). Means testing Soc. Sec. makes the most sense. As for the spousal benefit -- it is a recognition by the government that a non-working spouse is part of a household economic TEAM and she (since it is usually the wife) shouldn't be penalized for the TEAM's decision to have one person focus on outside work and one person focus on the household/children work. It is a recognition (back in the day) that society benefits from kids who have a parent at home.
Anonymous wrote:There's a spousal claim which currently gives spouses who never paid into the system half the salary their working spouse gets even when their spouse is still alive as if that makes any sense.
Right, because people who spent their prime working years taking care of children surely haven't provided anything worthwhile to society!
Anonymous wrote:16:54 There are many people who provide worth to society, however it makes sense that a program would run out of money when a women working outside of the house paying into the program all those years gets the same amount back as a woman staying at home not paying into the program. You're supposed to get back what you put in, but these women or men who stay at home do not put any money into the program, therefore they shouldn't get anything back unless they are poor and can't take care of themselves. We know people who've retired with millions of dollars getting two social security checks back 20 years plus even though only one worked. This is just one of the problems with the program.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:who said there was a baby boom? The fertility rate continues to decline, and nearly all increases are from immigration. There are exceptions to this rule, but on average, the people having multiple children are immigrants, mostly because many of them are strict catholics.
Or Muslims, here legitimately (because you can't exactly walk across the ocean from the Middle East). The Muslim families in the schools around us have about an average 5 kids EACH.
Anonymous wrote:who said there was a baby boom? The fertility rate continues to decline, and nearly all increases are from immigration. There are exceptions to this rule, but on average, the people having multiple children are immigrants, mostly because many of them are strict catholics.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I wonder how all the fear-mongering and bigotry against immigrants, especially Hispanic immigrants, compares to that leveled against my Irish-Catholic ancestors in the 1840s? Plus ce change, plus ce la meme chose, n'est ce pas?
Laws then and now please?