22:23 - THIS.
My friend just moved from a horrible community that is close in and seems "perfect" - until you get to know the people! They were nightmarish and miserable - especially the husbands! Of course, there are theories on men that act that way, often they have a car that tries to attract attention
Surround yourself with positive OP. Learn how to do for yourself without trying to bother others. Act your age. When you are a happy, fulfilled person, you do not care (really) about the next guy.
I promise you this: there will ALWAYS, ALWAYS be someone with more than you. ALWAYS. Get over it. Stop trying to look over someone else's fence. Indeed, the grass IS always greener!