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Anonymous wrote:Um, OP is probably a troll. No way she is real.

Agreed. I'm always super suspicious of posters who claim to be childless (and not pregnant/TTC). If that's the case, what in the world are you doing on this website in the first place...? My child-free friends have never even heard of DCUM.

Anyone can post on this website, child free or not.

Of course. But if I didn't have children I would never even know this site existed. If OP is real then she needs to spend more time focusing on her own life and not on a forum related to a life she doesn't have.

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Anonymous wrote:Um, OP is probably a troll. No way she is real.

Agreed. I'm always super suspicious of posters who claim to be childless (and not pregnant/TTC). If that's the case, what in the world are you doing on this website in the first place...? My child-free friends have never even heard of DCUM.

Anyone can post on this website, child free or not.

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Anonymous wrote:Um, OP is probably a troll. No way she is real.

Agreed. I'm always super suspicious of posters who claim to be childless (and not pregnant/TTC). If that's the case, what in the world are you doing on this website in the first place...? My child-free friends have never even heard of DCUM.

+1.

I haven't read all of the replies, but OP, that sounds disgusting. Grow up and use a knife.

Anonymous wrote:Um, OP is probably a troll. No way she is real.

Agreed. I'm always super suspicious of posters who claim to be childless (and not pregnant/TTC). If that's the case, what in the world are you doing on this website in the first place...? My child-free friends have never even heard of DCUM.

Um, OP is probably a troll. No way she is real.

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Anonymous wrote:Get a grip, people. This is gross but not worth flipping out. Just a simple, hey, can you use a knife next time, please will suffice.

No. What moron does this so someone else's child!

Agreed. OP WAY overstepped boundries, and she sounds like a complete ass. If she were my SIL I would have gone on off on her. No way would I ever let her near my child for a VERY LONG time.

I'm starting to think some of these posters are my SIL...

Anonymous wrote:Get a grip, people. This is gross but not worth flipping out. Just a simple, hey, can you use a knife next time, please will suffice.

No. What moron does this so someone else's child!

Get a grip, people. This is gross but not worth flipping out. Just a simple, hey, can you use a knife next time, please will suffice.

My quick search says there are approximately 100 million germs per millimetre of saliva. Keep them in your mouth, especially not someone's child's.

Your SIL reacted strongly but she was legitimately disgusted by what she saw. You may not agree with her parenting choices but the sassy "it's no big deal" was out of line and absolutely enraged your SIL. You threw fuel on the fire so deal with the burn.

OP, I have a SIL like you. In the beginning she tried to interfere with our relationship and then later our marriage. I guess she thought she should be top dog and in my marriage there's only room for one top and that is me. Her and my MIL probably spent hours bad mouthing me from day one, and it was unkind and undeserved. Fast-forward 12+ years later ... we barely see her at all, my DH sees her as a controlling bitch (and of course, so do I). We are always on guard with her and rarely allow her the opportunity to control anything. We basically only see her on some holidays and some birthdays. Even when we are in the same room we don't talk much and about nothing too personal. I thought after she became a wife and a mother all of our relationships would improve, but sadly, they did not. I have brothers and I learned a long time ago that if I wanted to remain close with my brothers that I had to be sincere friends with their wives. Sounds like you'll need to learn these lessons the hard way. Good luck, OP! And grow up!

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Anonymous wrote:Oh my god. I can't believe everyone is reacting this way. ITS NOT A BIG DEAL. Seriously. Babies put everything in their mouth. Crumbs off the floor, dirty toys, their grimy hands, etc etc. OP, I would've been shocked at my SIL's reaction as well.

That being said, your SIL does get to choose what is and isn't appropriate. She could've been a little calmer about it though, and you could've just said Okay, apologized, and moved on.

Also-- when you say you bit it in half and fed it to her, you mean, you handed her the other half, right?
You don't mean you like, gave her the chewed up one in your mouth? Or fed it to her, mouth to mouth? Because that would be kind of weird.

People are reacting this way because they can think, read, and are informed. On this forum alone, you could have informed yourself about herpes and cavity-causing bacteria, for instance. Perhaps not a big deal to you, but a big deal to many parents.

Crumbs off the floor, dirty toys, etc, are unavoidable and mostly harmless microbes that boost babies' immune systems. Sharing saliva with someone who's not even a parent is neither.

Not to mention that OP reacted like an entitled little b!tch.

How?

Read the thread.

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Anonymous wrote:Oh my god. I can't believe everyone is reacting this way. ITS NOT A BIG DEAL. Seriously. Babies put everything in their mouth. Crumbs off the floor, dirty toys, their grimy hands, etc etc. OP, I would've been shocked at my SIL's reaction as well.

That being said, your SIL does get to choose what is and isn't appropriate. She could've been a little calmer about it though, and you could've just said Okay, apologized, and moved on.

Also-- when you say you bit it in half and fed it to her, you mean, you handed her the other half, right?
You don't mean you like, gave her the chewed up one in your mouth? Or fed it to her, mouth to mouth? Because that would be kind of weird.

People are reacting this way because they can think, read, and are informed. On this forum alone, you could have informed yourself about herpes and cavity-causing bacteria, for instance. Perhaps not a big deal to you, but a big deal to many parents.

Crumbs off the floor, dirty toys, etc, are unavoidable and mostly harmless microbes that boost babies' immune systems. Sharing saliva with someone who's not even a parent is neither.

Not to mention that OP reacted like an entitled little b!tch.

How?

Anonymous wrote:Well, considering this is a mommy-daddy forum and you, OP, are definitely childless, I think your SIL may have already read this wonderful post and you'll be lucky if you see your niece again. Congratulations, you selfish little bitch.

Calm down crazytown.