Anonymous wrote:Why would you want to turn heads in a group of people who talk about women like trash and slaughter people for appearance? Sounds like your husband knows his colleagues and is trying to protect you from being treated poorly. If I knew I was going to an event with people who were sexist and going to trash me, I would either 1) not go or b) dress to look as unattractive as possible.

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Seriously?? How about never. I have watched him crash and burn and feel stupid for being grossly underdressed, but that's not my problem if he doesn't have the sense to know what's appropriate to wear.


Wow! You sound so loving and supporting. Did you secretly feel smug and superior as you "watched him crash and burn" and "feel stupid"? I can't imagine standing back and not helping out my spouse when he is making an obvious mistake. Who stands by passively when their spouse makes a mistake that will hut them personally or professionally?


Good lord, simmer down. If I tell him what the dress code is, and he chooses to ignore that, that's not my fault you moron. He did it a few times and he learned his lesson. I'm not his babysitter. His professional events are for him to determine what to wear to. I'm referring to things like a fancy restaurant on Valentines Day for instance, where he chose to wear sweat pants. He looked like and felt like a fool, despite my tell him it was a fancy restaurant. Let me guess, if I had said "I do this all the time. I don't want him going out of the house looking like a fool" you'd have called me harpie. So zip it.

I need to simmer down? Did you start your afternoon cocktails early or just forget your Prozac today? You and your husband sound like you deserve each other. Sweat pants to a fancy restaurant? He is either a dolt or just wanted to piss you off on Valentine's Day.

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Seriously?? How about never. I have watched him crash and burn and feel stupid for being grossly underdressed, but that's not my problem if he doesn't have the sense to know what's appropriate to wear.


Wow! You sound so loving and supporting. Did you secretly feel smug and superior as you "watched him crash and burn" and "feel stupid"? I can't imagine standing back and not helping out my spouse when he is making an obvious mistake. Who stands by passively when their spouse makes a mistake that will hut them personally or professionally?


Good lord, simmer down. If I tell him what the dress code is, and he chooses to ignore that, that's not my fault you moron. He did it a few times and he learned his lesson. I'm not his babysitter. His professional events are for him to determine what to wear to. I'm referring to things like a fancy restaurant on Valentines Day for instance, where he chose to wear sweat pants. He looked like and felt like a fool, despite my tell him it was a fancy restaurant. Let me guess, if I had said "I do this all the time. I don't want him going out of the house looking like a fool" you'd have called me harpie. So zip it.

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Anonymous wrote:Whoo, OP. You are just a bag of drama.

My only advice is to get over yourself. The world does not revolve around your tits. Just wear the outfit your husband picked out. I doubt PP's advice is helpful since you don't have any trusted friends -- they are all jealous of your amazing body, right?

No, I'm not a bag of drama. And I am over myself. Believe me. I've been busty for 30+ years. I know every angle and crevice this conversation is likely to take. My question is for you- why are you so snarky to someone asking for honest advice on here. I know the whole "it's DCUM, what do you expect" mumbo jumbo. But, that doesn't change that you people with unnecessary attitude and built-in self-hatred which comes out when you post just waste everyone's time. Not wanting to to sift through the responses of unhelpful jealous people, I specifically asked for no snark. You read the post and ignored that. Just go away. To everyone else, I really appreciate the advice.

Sorry, OP, but you need someone to call you on your BS. You're "not conceited" but you somehow have read the minds of your "insecure friends" (who get no attention because you're getting all of it) and you are confused that your husband doesn't want you to wear revealing clothing and "turn heads" at a gathering of sexist, trash-talking boors? Please.

I'm calling you on your BS. Just because you're an angry stay at home frumpster doesn't mean you should be bullying big busted ladies. Go throw bon bons at yourself in mirror since you're so bored. Your hating on here is dragging others in to your obvious self-loathing. Fellow big girl, here! Not gonna sit back while us bigguns are lambasted!