Anonymous
04/25/2013 04:15
Subject: Does it make sense for me to die so my family can live?
OP, I hope you are not serious about this.
Sure you are going through tough times now, but things will get better in time.
I have been way in over my head with money troubles and I have gotten depressed over it.
But I stuck it out.
I am also a parent and had to remain strong for my family.
Lucky for you, you have a spouse. {I am a single mother.}
REMEMBER: 2 heads are always better than one.
I hope you and your hubby can work all this out TOGETHER. For your family's sake.
Sure you are going through tough times now, but things will get better in time.
I have been way in over my head with money troubles and I have gotten depressed over it.
But I stuck it out.
I am also a parent and had to remain strong for my family.
Lucky for you, you have a spouse. {I am a single mother.}
REMEMBER: 2 heads are always better than one.
I hope you and your hubby can work all this out TOGETHER. For your family's sake.
Anonymous
04/18/2013 11:26
Subject: Does it make sense for me to die so my family can live?
What do you mean you are unemployable?!
If your husband works day time, you can got to work night time or vice versa. You can make 2 to 3k a month after taxes working in a restaurant.
There are restaurants that are begging for people to work double shifts on Saturday and Sunday. It takes about 2 weeks to start making money, even without experience.
Or do you consider someone who has a job like that unemployable?!
You should be giving your all instead of giving up.It'll do you good the get out of the house-start as a hostess if shy, instant money.
If your husband works day time, you can got to work night time or vice versa. You can make 2 to 3k a month after taxes working in a restaurant.
There are restaurants that are begging for people to work double shifts on Saturday and Sunday. It takes about 2 weeks to start making money, even without experience.
Or do you consider someone who has a job like that unemployable?!
You should be giving your all instead of giving up.It'll do you good the get out of the house-start as a hostess if shy, instant money.
Anonymous
04/16/2013 18:13
Subject: Does it make sense for me to die so my family can live?
Anonymous wrote:It seems to be a bleeding heart theory that family is better off with you alive, I must say I share in your dilemma, with slightly different circumstances. I owe around $140k in student loans, and thanks to a now convicted accountant about $150k in back taxes. I have been married over 22 years and my kids are now 21 and 16, I have worked my whole life to try and provide for my family, but have hit a brick wall in dealing with the IRS, as of now they Levy my wages and take 80% of my income. In the past year we have since lost our home and my wife recently divorced me. I have no way to fix the problem, and filing BK does not get rid of my student loans or tax burden, I have a 250K life insurance policy that does pay with suicide after 2 years of holding the policy, which I have had for 7 years. The government won't allow me to earn enough to support my family or myself, so in the best interest of their future I have decided to spend the next few months providing my children and friends with some good memories, I am already 41 years old and have come to terms with the value of my life. My decision is not emotional, but logically honest. Every parent wants to give their children a chance in life, I have taught them for twenty years how to live in the world, now it is time to give them the ability to do the same. I am not crazy or suicidal, I am at peace with having made the decision, and will value the time I spend with them before moving on from this world.
Call Department of Education's Ombudsman's office at 877-557-2575. They'll work with you on student loans.
I'm sure IRS will do the same if you try to negotiate a payment plan.
Don't give up. Don't do this to your kids - it's been shown that parental suicide makes suicide a lot more accpetable and therefore likely for the children.