Anonymous
Post 07/17/2012 16:16     Subject: Yet another post about 5-6 year old boys in the women's changing/bathroom at the pool.
Anonymous wrote:What did people do in the old days? There were big community pools at the park district. The pool houses were simple cinder block buildings with one locker room for men and one for women, the showers were a row of shower heads on the wall and everyone was required to take a nude soap shower before entering the pool area to keep the bacterial level down. How did we survive in those days?


When was this? Back when men and women had to swim on separate days? Or later when pools were segregated by race because whites built private pool clubs? Either way I wouldn't want to go back to the old days.
Anonymous
Post 07/17/2012 15:41     Subject: Yet another post about 5-6 year old boys in the women's changing/bathroom at the pool.
What did people do in the old days? There were big community pools at the park district. The pool houses were simple cinder block buildings with one locker room for men and one for women, the showers were a row of shower heads on the wall and everyone was required to take a nude soap shower before entering the pool area to keep the bacterial level down. How did we survive in those days?
Anonymous
Post 07/17/2012 15:36     Subject: Yet another post about 5-6 year old boys in the women's changing/bathroom at the pool.
How do you think men and teens feel when a dad brings his female children into the locker room?
That happens to, and you don't hear the guys whining about it.
Anonymous
Post 07/17/2012 15:30     Subject: Yet another post about 5-6 year old boys in the women's changing/bathroom at the pool.
Anonymous wrote:In general, I don't care either way.

If he's 5 or 6 and gawking, however, you need to do something. Either some way to stop the gawking or an alternative solution involving private changing area etc.


LOL as though his stealing side glances would be just fine with them, just not a full on gawk.
He's boy a couple of feet away from naked women walking around. He's going to look at them.
Anonymous
Post 07/17/2012 15:25     Subject: Yet another post about 5-6 year old boys in the women's changing/bathroom at the pool.
In general, I don't care either way.

If he's 5 or 6 and gawking, however, you need to do something. Either some way to stop the gawking or an alternative solution involving private changing area etc.
Anonymous
Post 07/17/2012 15:16     Subject: Yet another post about 5-6 year old boys in the women's changing/bathroom at the pool.
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I can't believe people are saying that changing your clothes in the locker room is equivalent to public nudity. I don't like my girls to stay in their wet swimsuits because it fosters infections, for me too. So we do rinse off showers and change. I also workout at the community center in the mornings, take a shower and change. Where the heck am I supposed to change if it's not right there in the locker room? This makes no sense to me. I had no idea people were judgmentally thinking we were doing something wrong by changing our clothes in the locker room for heavens sake.


People look at things differently.

For you, it's natural to completely take your clothes off and strip your child down in a public setting because you feel that is what the room is for. Others are doing the same thing, so what's the big deal? To me, I can think of several ways to address changing if necessary, that don't involve exposing my bare breasts, vagina, or the parts of my children to strangers who have no business glancing even if it's unintentional.

You think it's fine, because that is what most people do. I think it's bizarre, and sends a mixed message. We look at things differently and really, I don't see anything changing that.



Where "You" = Every Reasonable Person

I don't understand what the mixed message. It is in appropriate to take your clothes off in places that are not designated for that purpose. Is it okay to take your clothes off in the living room when company is over? No, the living room is not a designated place for nudity. Bathroom and bedroom are fine. Locker room is fine. Pool is not.

Your children are smarter than you think they are. Trust me. You don't want your kid to be the one who is panicky and afraid of changing in the locker room in high school. It's really not a big deal.


Your high school ocker rooms are co-ed? The whole question here is about opposite sex. I am sure many teens would be a bit panicky about changing in front of opposite sex peers.
Anonymous
Post 07/17/2012 15:10     Subject: Yet another post about 5-6 year old boys in the women's changing/bathroom at the pool.
If one of them was uncomfortable being naked with a girl in there all they had to do was turn the other way.


I don't understand this. Naked is naked.



I think the idea is that it's ok because it's not full frontal. By staying turned the other way they can preserve their male modesty.
Anonymous
Post 07/17/2012 14:59     Subject: Yet another post about 5-6 year old boys in the women's changing/bathroom at the pool.
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I have seen 8 or 9 years old boy in women' changing room. Really makes me uncomfortable. But some women don't care.


I don't see thing happening often but when I was 9 I was still going into the mens locker room with either my dad or big brother and it was completely accepted. If one of them was uncomfortable being naked with a girl in there all they had to do was turn the other way.


I don't understand this. Naked is naked.
Anonymous
Post 07/17/2012 14:55     Subject: Re:Yet another post about 5-6 year old boys in the women's changing/bathroom at the pool.
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
You are a stupid woman if you let your child just sit and stare at other women while changing.. Have some parenting capabilities and tell your precious DC it's rude to stare. I don't give a shit if he is 2 teaching manners early on works wonders but apparently your parents failed with you.


Wow, your parents did great with you though. Cursing and calling people stupid, nice job!


I know not to let kids stare at naked women in a locker room so yes, I am smarter than you and my parents did a fabulous job.


You are absolutely right. When I was a little girl I accompanied either my dad or my older brother and I was made to understand that I was NOT to stare and not to make remarks.
Anonymous
Post 07/17/2012 14:51     Subject: Yet another post about 5-6 year old boys in the women's changing/bathroom at the pool.
Anonymous wrote:I have seen 8 or 9 years old boy in women' changing room. Really makes me uncomfortable. But some women don't care.


I don't see thing happening often but when I was 9 I was still going into the mens locker room with either my dad or big brother and it was completely accepted. If one of them was uncomfortable being naked with a girl in there all they had to do was turn the other way.
Anonymous
Post 07/13/2012 08:13     Subject: Re:Yet another post about 5-6 year old boys in the women's changing/bathroom at the pool.
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Do NOT send your boy into a bathroom alone with a bunch of naked men. PERIOD

Both the boy and girl - okay hold my hand - look at the floor - let's go.


Wow, pp. You really have a perverted mind.


How is this perverted?


Clearly she's thinking about sex too much. And boogeymen.
Anonymous
Post 07/13/2012 06:56     Subject: Yet another post about 5-6 year old boys in the women's changing/bathroom at the pool.
I have seen 8 or 9 years old boy in women' changing room. Really makes me uncomfortable. But some women don't care.
Anonymous
Post 07/12/2012 22:28     Subject: Yet another post about 5-6 year old boys in the women's changing/bathroom at the pool.
Not.
Anonymous
Post 07/12/2012 22:28     Subject: Re:Yet another post about 5-6 year old boys in the women's changing/bathroom at the pool.
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Do NOT send your boy into a bathroom alone with a bunch of naked men. PERIOD

Both the boy and girl - okay hold my hand - look at the floor - let's go.


Another poster who is not comfortable with letting my 6 yo boy go into the men's licker room alone. I also don't mind if other mom's have to bring their boys in.



Anyone here reading the Freeh Report???

Naked boys and men in same shower area might nit be good idea!
Anonymous
Post 07/12/2012 21:57     Subject: Yet another post about 5-6 year old boys in the women's changing/bathroom at the pool.
My kids are just 1 and 3, but I feel comfortable with them being naked at the pool - anywhere around the pool grounds. Other kids are sometimes naked too. This seems like a little joy of childhood. Thank heavens they're not at all self conscious yet. Too bad that they'll have to conform to all this uptight cultural stuff soon enough.

As for kids (or anyone) looking at my naked body in the changing room, I just don't care at all.