Anonymous
Post 01/02/2012 13:52     Subject: Re:"Post Secrets" type thread
Anonymous wrote:DH thinks I wash his thermos every day before filling it with coffee. I don't. I run it through the diswasher about once a month.


Anonymous
Post 01/02/2012 12:44     Subject: "Post Secrets" type thread
Anonymous wrote:When I was 13, my parents took me on a trip to Rochester, NY. I stopped to look at a store window, and they kept walking and got a block ahead of me. A man pulled his car over and asked me "Do you know where I can get a blow job?" I was shocked and said "No." He asked "You sure? Twenty bucks?" and I was so nervous that I actually said "No thank you." He drove off and I ran to catch up with my parents. I immediately told them what had happened and neither one of them commented. There was a moment of uncomfortable silence, and then they went on talking like I had never said anything. I was so stung. It was like I was the one who had just done something filthy and they were ashamed of me. I am am adult now, and generally have a good relationship with my parents, but it really bothers me that they didn't have the good sense to give me a hug and talk to me about how sometimes there were going to be men like that. To this day, they have never spoken of that event.

And for those who are wondering- I was wearing jeans and a baggy shirt, was flat as a pancake, had no makeup on, and it was mid-day on a Tuesday. There is no way that man actually mistook me for a prostitute.
pp, regardless of what you were wearing, no adult should be looking at any 13 year old in a sexual way. no justification for that. i am sorry that happened.
Anonymous
Post 01/02/2012 12:38     Subject: "Post Secrets" type thread
The Joint Chiefs of Staff is different from the Joint Staff, a much larger body. There have been women on the Joint Staff, but not among the Joint Chiefs of Staff. So maybe the poster meant the Joint Staff when she said Joint Chiefs.
Anonymous
Post 01/02/2012 11:45     Subject: Re:"Post Secrets" type thread
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:When I was in grad school in London and my bf from school and I were sleeping in her flat in her queen sized bed. It was the wee hours of the morning, as I remember. We had had some drinks earlier but weren't "drunk". I felt my bf's hand gently circling and stroking my nipple for about 5 minutes. I continued to pretend to be asleep. She stopped and then appeared to masturbate next to me for several minutes. She climaxxed and went to sleep. We never spoke of it. I was scheduled to move to my own flat the next day. When we were back in America she was distant and weird and seemed to look for a reason to end the friendship. We had been really close friends since 10th grade and all through her time at a small women's college in VA college. The friendship ended bitterly after 12 years. (I was unable to attend her wedding, she couldn't let it go). She went on to be a member of the joint chiefs of staff for a Republican president. Only she would recognize herself in this story because I have never personally told a living soul these details.


It doesn't matter who she is married to --she is gay. This was her way of trying to change your relationship to a sexual one. There was nothing you could have done to save the friendship. Funnily enough, your secret is my fantasy. I was approached several times by women I did not know and rejected them. But in this scenario I surely would have taken the plunge.


Sexuality is rarely that straight forward.


LOL!


Is she bi? Also don't a lot of people experiment in college?


I don't think most people are 100% homo or 100% hetero, just different spots on a spectrum. Culture and environment makes it seem so.
Anonymous
Post 01/02/2012 11:27     Subject: "Post Secrets" type thread
Seriously, this is your deepest darkest secret you had to post on an anonymous forum?
Anonymous
Post 01/02/2012 10:21     Subject: Re:"Post Secrets" type thread
DH thinks I wash his thermos every day before filling it with coffee. I don't. I run it through the diswasher about once a month.
Anonymous
Post 01/02/2012 10:11     Subject: "Post Secrets" type thread
Anonymous wrote:Yup. Me, too. None of them fit the op's criteria.


I think OP worded it wrong and meant that her friend was the chief of staff for a Republican -- could have been any Republican senator or congressman.
Anonymous
Post 01/02/2012 09:25     Subject: "Post Secrets" type thread
When I was 13, my parents took me on a trip to Rochester, NY. I stopped to look at a store window, and they kept walking and got a block ahead of me. A man pulled his car over and asked me "Do you know where I can get a blow job?" I was shocked and said "No." He asked "You sure? Twenty bucks?" and I was so nervous that I actually said "No thank you." He drove off and I ran to catch up with my parents. I immediately told them what had happened and neither one of them commented. There was a moment of uncomfortable silence, and then they went on talking like I had never said anything. I was so stung. It was like I was the one who had just done something filthy and they were ashamed of me. I am am adult now, and generally have a good relationship with my parents, but it really bothers me that they didn't have the good sense to give me a hug and talk to me about how sometimes there were going to be men like that. To this day, they have never spoken of that event.

And for those who are wondering- I was wearing jeans and a baggy shirt, was flat as a pancake, had no makeup on, and it was mid-day on a Tuesday. There is no way that man actually mistook me for a prostitute.
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2011 19:04     Subject: "Post Secrets" type thread
Yup. Me, too. None of them fit the op's criteria.
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2011 18:49     Subject: Re:"Post Secrets" type thread
I just looked at that link, there are like 3 women and none of them went to an all female college, and they are all super old
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2011 16:32     Subject: Re:"Post Secrets" type thread
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote: There has never been a female member of the joint chiefs of staff.


Not true according to the Joint Chiefs of Staff Website.


There are a few female members right now. http://www.jcs.mil/bioarchive.aspx


Oy, that PP has possibly outed her friend (if she is not fictional).
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2011 15:20     Subject: "Post Secrets" type thread
she said during republican era
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2011 15:20     Subject: Re:"Post Secrets" type thread
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote: There has never been a female member of the joint chiefs of staff.


Not true according to the Joint Chiefs of Staff Website.


There are a few female members right now. http://www.jcs.mil/bioarchive.aspx
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2011 14:55     Subject: Re:"Post Secrets" type thread
14:54 again, I am not looking at the list but when I hear small women's college in VA I think Sweet Briar.
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2011 14:54     Subject: Re:"Post Secrets" type thread
Well you might be a little dense then PP bc William and Mary is not a women's college.