Absolutely not! What's the point of being Ex #4? Especially after watching a certain cousin walk down the aisle for the third time last year, I promised myself not to pass judgment when the inevitable divorce comes and to pray for the kids involved or yet to be created.

If you're ever in that situation, run, run, RUN!!!

How's he hanging? Seriously sometimes people pick crazy (smoking tatted trailer trash) that are MISTAKEs. And then recover

Normally I would say no, but I know this guy who did the honorable thing and got married young because his girlfriend was pregnant. They divorced because they both truly didn't love each other, and were happier with other people. His second divorce, he was busy with his job, his wife verbally abused his daughter (from first marriage) and he lost who he was. He tried to make it work for the sake of their son, but it didn't work. The third was that they loved eachother, but were business partners and they spent too much time working on business...To this day they are still good friends though.....
This guy has been dating a wonderful woman for 3 years, and they are very happy. He has talked to me about for the first time this woman feels like his equal partner and he doesn't need a marriage to make them feel married.

Anonymous wrote:A friend of my grandmother's recently married for the 4th time. Married at 18, husband died in ww2, remarried immediately, second husband also died in ww2. Five or six years later remarried again. Married for 45 or so years until her husband died of liver cancer. Remarried a guy she met at the nursing home.

Yes, but she has 1 divorce not 3 or 4. She was a widow 2 times and divorced 1

Lord, no. I'm 35 and if I were single, I'd only be interested in men around my age. A 35-year-old man thrice divorced is not someone I'd have much in common with. Even if all the divorces were amicable (fat chance, I think), our orientation to relationships would be too different.

I'm a once-divorced mom (12 yrs of marriage) and marrying a once-divorced dad (15 yrs of marriage). I can tell you that there is SO much baggage as it is -- I can't imagine multiplying it times 3. I don't think I could even be attracted to a man who'd been divorced so many times.
Too bad, Tom Cruise, I wouldn't date you now.

How about 2 times?

No. Even if the person was without blame in all the three marriages - what does it say about their ability to pick the right kind of person to marry.

Anonymous wrote:What about a divorced guy with a daughter marrying a women twice divorced by 45. No 1 was early. No kids Second was later, resulted in 2 kids. No 2 was to an older guy who ended up being big underachiever.

2 marriages at that age would not be a dealbreaker. I'm 30 and am finE with 1 divorce at this age, because its usually the typical HS sweetheart starter marriage. If the second marriage was for several years, sounds normal. I think anyone with 3 marriages needs to just accept that marriage isnt for them.

nope

I would for sure .............

if I wanted to be ex-wife #4

What about a divorced guy with a daughter marrying a women twice divorced by 45. No 1 was early. No kids Second was later, resulted in 2 kids. No 2 was to an older guy who ended up being big underachiever.

HELL TO THE No!

nope

No. I have no wish to be exwife #4.