Anonymous wrote:If you are a new parent reading this and freaking out I will say that parents of only children do not feel this way in my experience (I'm including myself and a few friends)
I have an only and feel it a little bit. Because my only is very high energy, severe adhd, and also does one million activities so our schedule is kind of like having 3 kids! But in general, yes, there is more flexibility and most importantly, one parent can handle the kid tasks and other parent has a break. So we can plan work trips or personal things and know the other parent can cover.