Anonymous
Post 05/01/2026 16:44     Subject: Vanity weight - glp1

Anonymous wrote:My sister is definitely using one, but says she’s not. She looks like a pretzel stick, her face looks weird, has zero energy and a lot of muscle loss. It has actually aged her. But she cares only about the number on the scale. I cannot believe she thinks she looks good.


Boy, are you a nice sister.
Anonymous
Post 05/01/2026 16:43     Subject: Vanity weight - glp1

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Anonymous wrote:I doubt you really "look" overweight at 155 and 5'7. You just don't look like a skinny 20-year-old anymore. It's natural to be very skinny in your 20s and on the higher end of normal as you approach middle age. It may even be healthy. At your age, I would focus more on gaining strength and bone health than losing weight.

A lot of the advice on this website is from women who have eating disorders or borderline disordered eating.


You sound like one of those "body positivity" types that equates any diet with anorexia.


She’s a healthy weight, she literally is not overweight, she probably wears a size medium or 8, and she doesn’t need to diet.


That's not your body. You don't get to tell other women what to do with their body.



Umm. More importantly her MD does get to tell her she won’t prescribe the drugs because OP does not meet the criteria. Lying to your MD to get an Rx is wrong.


"wrong"

Celebrities do it


Are you seriously arguing that lying to your MD is okay because celebrities do it? Seriously?

If you lie on telehealth to get the meds, are you planning to lie to your primary care about taking the meds? What if you have serious side effects? What if there’s a bad reaction with other drugs you’re taking? How much lying are you willing to do?

If you have a bad reaction or side effects you can just stop taking it. I did tell my PCP. I don’t take any other meds.
Why are you so concerned about what someone else does with their body?


Because I have a college aged daughter and I see the damage that our society’s obsession with women being as small as possible does to her and her friends.


Damage?? Are her male classmates calling her a cow or something?


Seriously, you don’t know any girls with eating disorders?


I know plenty of girls who take pride in their appearance by exercising and watching their diets. Whether they are also incorporating a GLP-1 is their business. But at least they're not stuffing their faces and calling themselves "thick" or curvy" at a size 22.


Yikes. You are a sweetheart. I hope you don’t have children.
Anonymous
Post 05/01/2026 16:38     Subject: Vanity weight - glp1

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Anonymous wrote:I doubt you really "look" overweight at 155 and 5'7. You just don't look like a skinny 20-year-old anymore. It's natural to be very skinny in your 20s and on the higher end of normal as you approach middle age. It may even be healthy. At your age, I would focus more on gaining strength and bone health than losing weight.

A lot of the advice on this website is from women who have eating disorders or borderline disordered eating.


You sound like one of those "body positivity" types that equates any diet with anorexia.


She’s a healthy weight, she literally is not overweight, she probably wears a size medium or 8, and she doesn’t need to diet.


That's not your body. You don't get to tell other women what to do with their body.



Umm. More importantly her MD does get to tell her she won’t prescribe the drugs because OP does not meet the criteria. Lying to your MD to get an Rx is wrong.


"wrong"

Celebrities do it


Are you seriously arguing that lying to your MD is okay because celebrities do it? Seriously?

If you lie on telehealth to get the meds, are you planning to lie to your primary care about taking the meds? What if you have serious side effects? What if there’s a bad reaction with other drugs you’re taking? How much lying are you willing to do?

If you have a bad reaction or side effects you can just stop taking it. I did tell my PCP. I don’t take any other meds.
Why are you so concerned about what someone else does with their body?


Because I have a college aged daughter and I see the damage that our society’s obsession with women being as small as possible does to her and her friends.


Damage?? Are her male classmates calling her a cow or something?


Seriously, you don’t know any girls with eating disorders?


I know plenty of girls who take pride in their appearance by exercising and watching their diets. Whether they are also incorporating a GLP-1 is their business. But at least they're not stuffing their faces and calling themselves "thick" or curvy" at a size 22.
Anonymous
Post 05/01/2026 16:34     Subject: Vanity weight - glp1

Anonymous wrote:My sister is definitely using one, but says she’s not. She looks like a pretzel stick, her face looks weird, has zero energy and a lot of muscle loss. It has actually aged her. But she cares only about the number on the scale. I cannot believe she thinks she looks good.


I guess "GLP makes you look old" is the new party line of the fat positivity princesses.
Anonymous
Post 05/01/2026 16:27     Subject: Vanity weight - glp1

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Anonymous wrote:I doubt you really "look" overweight at 155 and 5'7. You just don't look like a skinny 20-year-old anymore. It's natural to be very skinny in your 20s and on the higher end of normal as you approach middle age. It may even be healthy. At your age, I would focus more on gaining strength and bone health than losing weight.

A lot of the advice on this website is from women who have eating disorders or borderline disordered eating.


You sound like one of those "body positivity" types that equates any diet with anorexia.


She’s a healthy weight, she literally is not overweight, she probably wears a size medium or 8, and she doesn’t need to diet.


That's not your body. You don't get to tell other women what to do with their body.



Umm. More importantly her MD does get to tell her she won’t prescribe the drugs because OP does not meet the criteria. Lying to your MD to get an Rx is wrong.


"wrong"

Celebrities do it


Are you seriously arguing that lying to your MD is okay because celebrities do it? Seriously?

If you lie on telehealth to get the meds, are you planning to lie to your primary care about taking the meds? What if you have serious side effects? What if there’s a bad reaction with other drugs you’re taking? How much lying are you willing to do?

If you have a bad reaction or side effects you can just stop taking it. I did tell my PCP. I don’t take any other meds.
Why are you so concerned about what someone else does with their body?


Because I have a college aged daughter and I see the damage that our society’s obsession with women being as small as possible does to her and her friends.


Damage?? Are her male classmates calling her a cow or something?


Seriously, you don’t know any girls with eating disorders?
Anonymous
Post 05/01/2026 16:27     Subject: Re:Vanity weight - glp1

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Anonymous wrote:You can get it online but these are not regulated by FDA. Since it isn’t regulated, you have no idea how safe is what you are injecting into your body.


That's not quite true. There's been recent steps to curb it, but some 503b compounding pharmacies, which are FDA inspected, will fill a teleheath script. I just had one delivered the other day and I feel confident the medication is safe.


Not all are compounded at 503b compounding pharmacies. Moreover, FDA proposes to exclude semaglutide, tirzepatide, and liraglutide on 503B bulks list. Your body, your choice.
Anonymous
Post 05/01/2026 16:09     Subject: Vanity weight - glp1

Anonymous wrote:My sister is definitely using one, but says she’s not. She looks like a pretzel stick, her face looks weird, has zero energy and a lot of muscle loss. It has actually aged her. But she cares only about the number on the scale. I cannot believe she thinks she looks good.


Were you treating her like shit before and telling her she was fat? I think her not telling you says a lot.
Anonymous
Post 05/01/2026 16:08     Subject: Vanity weight - glp1

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Anonymous wrote:I doubt you really "look" overweight at 155 and 5'7. You just don't look like a skinny 20-year-old anymore. It's natural to be very skinny in your 20s and on the higher end of normal as you approach middle age. It may even be healthy. At your age, I would focus more on gaining strength and bone health than losing weight.

A lot of the advice on this website is from women who have eating disorders or borderline disordered eating.


You sound like one of those "body positivity" types that equates any diet with anorexia.


She’s a healthy weight, she literally is not overweight, she probably wears a size medium or 8, and she doesn’t need to diet.


That's not your body. You don't get to tell other women what to do with their body.



Umm. More importantly her MD does get to tell her she won’t prescribe the drugs because OP does not meet the criteria. Lying to your MD to get an Rx is wrong.


"wrong"

Celebrities do it


Are you seriously arguing that lying to your MD is okay because celebrities do it? Seriously?

If you lie on telehealth to get the meds, are you planning to lie to your primary care about taking the meds? What if you have serious side effects? What if there’s a bad reaction with other drugs you’re taking? How much lying are you willing to do?

If you have a bad reaction or side effects you can just stop taking it. I did tell my PCP. I don’t take any other meds.
Why are you so concerned about what someone else does with their body?


Because I have a college aged daughter and I see the damage that our society’s obsession with women being as small as possible does to her and her friends.


Other women do not have a duty to stay heavier than they like because it's better (in your mind) for your dd. Plus the fact that your dd has absolutely no idea if 50yo Suzie next door lost weight because she's running more and eating better or taking a GLP1 or all of the above. And I bet she also does not care!


Good grief. Grown women are willing to lie to their MDs, their spouses, and risk their health just to be smaller. What does it take for you to see the problem? OP has a daughter, does she have a duty to care about the impact on her child?


You're talking to more than just op who is not even taking one.
Anonymous
Post 05/01/2026 16:06     Subject: Vanity weight - glp1

My sister is definitely using one, but says she’s not. She looks like a pretzel stick, her face looks weird, has zero energy and a lot of muscle loss. It has actually aged her. But she cares only about the number on the scale. I cannot believe she thinks she looks good.
Anonymous
Post 05/01/2026 16:05     Subject: Vanity weight - glp1

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Anonymous wrote:I doubt you really "look" overweight at 155 and 5'7. You just don't look like a skinny 20-year-old anymore. It's natural to be very skinny in your 20s and on the higher end of normal as you approach middle age. It may even be healthy. At your age, I would focus more on gaining strength and bone health than losing weight.

A lot of the advice on this website is from women who have eating disorders or borderline disordered eating.


You sound like one of those "body positivity" types that equates any diet with anorexia.


She’s a healthy weight, she literally is not overweight, she probably wears a size medium or 8, and she doesn’t need to diet.


That's not your body. You don't get to tell other women what to do with their body.



Umm. More importantly her MD does get to tell her she won’t prescribe the drugs because OP does not meet the criteria. Lying to your MD to get an Rx is wrong.


"wrong"

Celebrities do it


Are you seriously arguing that lying to your MD is okay because celebrities do it? Seriously?

If you lie on telehealth to get the meds, are you planning to lie to your primary care about taking the meds? What if you have serious side effects? What if there’s a bad reaction with other drugs you’re taking? How much lying are you willing to do?

If you have a bad reaction or side effects you can just stop taking it. I did tell my PCP. I don’t take any other meds.
Why are you so concerned about what someone else does with their body?


Because I have a college aged daughter and I see the damage that our society’s obsession with women being as small as possible does to her and her friends.


Other women do not have a duty to stay heavier than they like because it's better (in your mind) for your dd. Plus the fact that your dd has absolutely no idea if 50yo Suzie next door lost weight because she's running more and eating better or taking a GLP1 or all of the above. And I bet she also does not care!


Good grief. Grown women are willing to lie to their MDs, their spouses, and risk their health just to be smaller. What does it take for you to see the problem? OP has a daughter, does she have a duty to care about the impact on her child?
Anonymous
Post 05/01/2026 16:04     Subject: Vanity weight - glp1

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Anonymous wrote:I doubt you really "look" overweight at 155 and 5'7. You just don't look like a skinny 20-year-old anymore. It's natural to be very skinny in your 20s and on the higher end of normal as you approach middle age. It may even be healthy. At your age, I would focus more on gaining strength and bone health than losing weight.

A lot of the advice on this website is from women who have eating disorders or borderline disordered eating.


You sound like one of those "body positivity" types that equates any diet with anorexia.


She’s a healthy weight, she literally is not overweight, she probably wears a size medium or 8, and she doesn’t need to diet.


That's not your body. You don't get to tell other women what to do with their body.



Umm. More importantly her MD does get to tell her she won’t prescribe the drugs because OP does not meet the criteria. Lying to your MD to get an Rx is wrong.


"wrong"

Celebrities do it


Are you seriously arguing that lying to your MD is okay because celebrities do it? Seriously?

If you lie on telehealth to get the meds, are you planning to lie to your primary care about taking the meds? What if you have serious side effects? What if there’s a bad reaction with other drugs you’re taking? How much lying are you willing to do?

If you have a bad reaction or side effects you can just stop taking it. I did tell my PCP. I don’t take any other meds.
Why are you so concerned about what someone else does with their body?


Because I have a college aged daughter and I see the damage that our society’s obsession with women being as small as possible does to her and her friends.


Damage?? Are her male classmates calling her a cow or something?
Anonymous
Post 05/01/2026 15:55     Subject: Vanity weight - glp1

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Anonymous wrote:I doubt you really "look" overweight at 155 and 5'7. You just don't look like a skinny 20-year-old anymore. It's natural to be very skinny in your 20s and on the higher end of normal as you approach middle age. It may even be healthy. At your age, I would focus more on gaining strength and bone health than losing weight.

A lot of the advice on this website is from women who have eating disorders or borderline disordered eating.


You sound like one of those "body positivity" types that equates any diet with anorexia.


She’s a healthy weight, she literally is not overweight, she probably wears a size medium or 8, and she doesn’t need to diet.


That's not your body. You don't get to tell other women what to do with their body.



Umm. More importantly her MD does get to tell her she won’t prescribe the drugs because OP does not meet the criteria. Lying to your MD to get an Rx is wrong.


"wrong"

Celebrities do it


Are you seriously arguing that lying to your MD is okay because celebrities do it? Seriously?

If you lie on telehealth to get the meds, are you planning to lie to your primary care about taking the meds? What if you have serious side effects? What if there’s a bad reaction with other drugs you’re taking? How much lying are you willing to do?

If you have a bad reaction or side effects you can just stop taking it. I did tell my PCP. I don’t take any other meds.
Why are you so concerned about what someone else does with their body?


Because I have a college aged daughter and I see the damage that our society’s obsession with women being as small as possible does to her and her friends.


Other women do not have a duty to stay heavier than they like because it's better (in your mind) for your dd. Plus the fact that your dd has absolutely no idea if 50yo Suzie next door lost weight because she's running more and eating better or taking a GLP1 or all of the above. And I bet she also does not care!
Anonymous
Post 05/01/2026 15:46     Subject: Vanity weight - glp1

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Anonymous wrote:I doubt you really "look" overweight at 155 and 5'7. You just don't look like a skinny 20-year-old anymore. It's natural to be very skinny in your 20s and on the higher end of normal as you approach middle age. It may even be healthy. At your age, I would focus more on gaining strength and bone health than losing weight.

A lot of the advice on this website is from women who have eating disorders or borderline disordered eating.


You sound like one of those "body positivity" types that equates any diet with anorexia.


She’s a healthy weight, she literally is not overweight, she probably wears a size medium or 8, and she doesn’t need to diet.


That's not your body. You don't get to tell other women what to do with their body.



Umm. More importantly her MD does get to tell her she won’t prescribe the drugs because OP does not meet the criteria. Lying to your MD to get an Rx is wrong.


"wrong"

Celebrities do it


Are you seriously arguing that lying to your MD is okay because celebrities do it? Seriously?

If you lie on telehealth to get the meds, are you planning to lie to your primary care about taking the meds? What if you have serious side effects? What if there’s a bad reaction with other drugs you’re taking? How much lying are you willing to do?

If you have a bad reaction or side effects you can just stop taking it. I did tell my PCP. I don’t take any other meds.
Why are you so concerned about what someone else does with their body?


Because I have a college aged daughter and I see the damage that our society’s obsession with women being as small as possible does to her and her friends.
Anonymous
Post 05/01/2026 15:44     Subject: Re:Vanity weight - glp1

Anonymous wrote:You can get it online but these are not regulated by FDA. Since it isn’t regulated, you have no idea how safe is what you are injecting into your body.


That's not quite true. There's been recent steps to curb it, but some 503b compounding pharmacies, which are FDA inspected, will fill a teleheath script. I just had one delivered the other day and I feel confident the medication is safe.
Anonymous
Post 05/01/2026 15:12     Subject: Vanity weight - glp1

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Anonymous wrote:I doubt you really "look" overweight at 155 and 5'7. You just don't look like a skinny 20-year-old anymore. It's natural to be very skinny in your 20s and on the higher end of normal as you approach middle age. It may even be healthy. At your age, I would focus more on gaining strength and bone health than losing weight.

A lot of the advice on this website is from women who have eating disorders or borderline disordered eating.


You sound like one of those "body positivity" types that equates any diet with anorexia.


She’s a healthy weight, she literally is not overweight, she probably wears a size medium or 8, and she doesn’t need to diet.


That's not your body. You don't get to tell other women what to do with their body.



Umm. More importantly her MD does get to tell her she won’t prescribe the drugs because OP does not meet the criteria. Lying to your MD to get an Rx is wrong.


"wrong"

Celebrities do it


Are you seriously arguing that lying to your MD is okay because celebrities do it? Seriously?

If you lie on telehealth to get the meds, are you planning to lie to your primary care about taking the meds? What if you have serious side effects? What if there’s a bad reaction with other drugs you’re taking? How much lying are you willing to do?


NP- There are plenty of actual doctors who will prescribe it. There is no need to lie.