Anonymous wrote:I get called a liar every time I bring this up, but I can't express how easy it is as a tall, thin man who lifts weights and has all my hair with a nice salary in my 40s, to date and sleep with women in their 20s.

I'm sure OP looks great and when I age out of this in a decade, I'll meet that version of her.

Anonymous wrote:I get called a liar every time I bring this up, but I can't express how easy it is as a tall, thin man who lifts weights and has all my hair with a nice salary in my 40s, to date and sleep with women in their 20s.

I'm sure OP looks great and when I age out of this in a decade, I'll meet that version of her.

Anonymous wrote:I remember some divorced men dating older women in their forties when we were in our thirties. They said when they dated women in their thirties and twenties, they were all looking for marriage and kids so they started dating older. To the late forties women, they look great. To people in their thirties, they look ok.

Maybe find someone younger who doesn’t want more kids.

Anonymous wrote:To all men: for fashion, go to Italy. I just returned from vacationing there, and I had the impression there was at least one men's clothing store on every street. Italian men are famously well-dressed.

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Anonymous wrote:You are almost 50, lmao

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Not the OP but what is funny about turning fifty?

We ALL age, it comes after even the best of us.

Some will even say ->> the luckiest of us too.

Nothing funny about fifty. PP was just reminding OP that an almost 50yo woman mocking older men is laughable. She is mocking herself.

She is not mocking them, stupid. She is mocking the way they look when they let themselves go.

Are you triggered? Get some damn exercise, wear sunscreen and make an effort.

I’m a 51 year old woman and don’t understand some of the complaints like baldness or wrinkles. Be attracted to whoever you want but these are normal things.

Eh. As a woman, I've spent thousands of dollars on skincare, sunscreen, and Botox. Hours upon hours in the gym and I watch what I eat. Not gray or balding yet (which does happen to women), but when it does, I'd take steps to address those problems. People will say that's not necessary and men don't care, but I know 100% if I gained 30 pounds, let my face age, stopped wearing makeup or styling my hair....my dating options would go down drastically.

So after all that, it's disappointing to date men my age who don't care for their skin, don't work out, and eat a diet consisting of Hot Pockets and Taco Bell. I don't need a male model, he doesn't need to get Botox, but just a little bit of effort can drastically amplify a man's attractiveness. Hell, I'd drop my underwear for a guy who could cook me a decent healthy meal, rather than just microwaving something frozen.

A guy friend of mine who is 42 spent the last few years glowing up. He got in shape, got a hair transplant, and gets some cosmetic work done. He looks fantastic, and he has a revolving door of attractive women sleeping with him.

In the beauty threads, when all of these anti-aging procedures are discussed, I always wonder why we encourage women to spend all this money fighting the inevitable. But I am invariably told that women do it for themselves, not men. So that was just cope?

Go lotion your ashy balls and stop worrying about what women are doing.

I’m a woman. Jesus.

The hell you are.

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Anonymous wrote:You are almost 50, lmao

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Not the OP but what is funny about turning fifty?

We ALL age, it comes after even the best of us.

Some will even say ->> the luckiest of us too.

Nothing funny about fifty. PP was just reminding OP that an almost 50yo woman mocking older men is laughable. She is mocking herself.

She is not mocking them, stupid. She is mocking the way they look when they let themselves go.

Are you triggered? Get some damn exercise, wear sunscreen and make an effort.

I’m a 51 year old woman and don’t understand some of the complaints like baldness or wrinkles. Be attracted to whoever you want but these are normal things.

Eh. As a woman, I've spent thousands of dollars on skincare, sunscreen, and Botox. Hours upon hours in the gym and I watch what I eat. Not gray or balding yet (which does happen to women), but when it does, I'd take steps to address those problems. People will say that's not necessary and men don't care, but I know 100% if I gained 30 pounds, let my face age, stopped wearing makeup or styling my hair....my dating options would go down drastically.

So after all that, it's disappointing to date men my age who don't care for their skin, don't work out, and eat a diet consisting of Hot Pockets and Taco Bell. I don't need a male model, he doesn't need to get Botox, but just a little bit of effort can drastically amplify a man's attractiveness. Hell, I'd drop my underwear for a guy who could cook me a decent healthy meal, rather than just microwaving something frozen.

A guy friend of mine who is 42 spent the last few years glowing up. He got in shape, got a hair transplant, and gets some cosmetic work done. He looks fantastic, and he has a revolving door of attractive women sleeping with him.

In the beauty threads, when all of these anti-aging procedures are discussed, I always wonder why we encourage women to spend all this money fighting the inevitable. But I am invariably told that women do it for themselves, not men. So that was just cope?

Go lotion your ashy balls and stop worrying about what women are doing.

I’m a woman. Jesus.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm a late 40s widow dating a 55 year-old fire captain who is fine AF. Handsome, fit, funny and smart. Yes a few wrinkles and a head of silver hair but I'm good with all that.

OP, you must be fishing in some shallow waters.

Lower SEC men do tend to be hotter: policemen, former military, firefighters etc

Are they low SEC?

My military husband makes 180K per year and will have a pension / medical for life. All his police and firefighter friends make about the same too.

I mean yes lower than professional men. My husband is a lawyer. He makes $700,000 a year.

It’s very easy for me to meet fat guys (lawyers finance real estate ) who make 500k+ on OLD.
Meeting a reasonably educated and financially stable man who is fit is MUCH harder

I presume all these single men were left by wives because they let themselves go.

Probably. I mean the attractive fit men in their 40s are all married.

My husband is reasonably fit, still has a full head of hair, no wrinkles and is the lawyer making the salary I mentioned above.

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Are they low SEC?

My military husband makes 180K per year and will have a pension / medical for life. All his police and firefighter friends make about the same too.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm a late 40s widow dating a 55 year-old fire captain who is fine AF. Handsome, fit, funny and smart. Yes a few wrinkles and a head of silver hair but I'm good with all that.

OP, you must be fishing in some shallow waters.

Lower SEC men do tend to be hotter: policemen, former military, firefighters etc

Are they low SEC?

My military husband makes 180K per year and will have a pension / medical for life. All his police and firefighter friends make about the same too.

I mean yes lower than professional men. My husband is a lawyer. He makes $700,000 a year.

It’s very easy for me to meet fat guys (lawyers finance real estate ) who make 500k+ on OLD.
Meeting a reasonably educated and financially stable man who is fit is MUCH harder

I presume all these single men were left by wives because they let themselves go.

Probably. I mean the attractive fit men in their 40s are all married.

My husband is reasonably fit, still has a full head of hair, no wrinkles and is the lawyer making the salary I mentioned above.

Anonymous wrote:Hmm, I'm 46 and I find my male peers to be attractive (as is my husband). But I'm not looking to sleep with any of them (except my husband, who was somehow blessed with almost wrinkle-free skin, which is slight infuriating) so maybe it would be different if I were. Also, if you're dating in DC, that's the smartest but ugliest group of people.