Anonymous
03/17/2026 13:59
Subject: Dating as short/unattractive man with decent income
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Do you want smart and ambitious kids? If yes, which future mom do you think you should choose for them?
An educated woman who would be willing to go part time so she can actually be there for the kids.
Lol. Meaning you want a woman who not only earns money but you can use her sacrificing her career as ammo for you to demand she does every single bit of housekeeping and caregiving for you because you are an entitled ass who isn’t interested in women as human beings. And you’re ugly. How novel.
Exactly this. OP sounds misogynistic. He views women as a commodity he’s trying to obtain and not people with whom he can connect and build a life together.
If that’s misogynistic then what does that make a woman who demands tall dark handsome and rich? Or 6/6/6 (7/7/7 probably now)?
Both sides do it
Anonymous
03/17/2026 13:17
Subject: Dating as short/unattractive man with decent income
Anonymous wrote:Honestly, if your selling points are reduced to a height and an income, that’s what is going to limit you. I am only slightly taller and make half what you do and am not conventionally attractive, but have no trouble attracting women. Personality, character, respect, and demeanor matter. So who do you “go for”? The one who doesn’t care about your height and income.
This.
A good friend is 5’5”, a Fed lawyer whose income is capped and he’s married to a gorgeous surgeon who is 3 inches taller and makes more than twice what he does.
He’s a good dancer, dresses well, and is funny without being “edgy”.