Anonymous
Post 02/17/2026 06:58     Subject: Daughter has slight (unintentional!) mustache; what to do?
My incredibly thick for a woman mustache was blonde so I did electrolysis. Painful but worth it. Laser can grow back in some cases FYI.
Anonymous
Post 02/17/2026 06:54     Subject: Re:Daughter has slight (unintentional!) mustache; what to do?
Get it lasered! Don't shave or wax. It will only get thicker. It is worth the investment.
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2026 16:36     Subject: Daughter has slight (unintentional!) mustache; what to do?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Nair makes a gentle depilatory cream for your face. Try that and then pluck any strays.

Waxing creates wrinkles around the mouth (particularly above the lip).


No it doesn't.


I’m in my 50s, and everyone I know who waxed for decades has weird wrinkles around their mouths.

I never waxed, and I don’t have these wrinkles.

If you are young and haven’t noticed this, give it some time.


Agree. I’d use a dermaplane or the flawless finishing tool for now. When she is up to it- get laser hair removal.
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2026 10:00     Subject: Daughter has slight (unintentional!) mustache; what to do?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Nair makes a gentle depilatory cream for your face. Try that and then pluck any strays.

Waxing creates wrinkles around the mouth (particularly above the lip).


No it doesn't.


I’m in my 50s, and everyone I know who waxed for decades has weird wrinkles around their mouths.

I never waxed, and I don’t have these wrinkles.

If you are young and haven’t noticed this, give it some time.
Anonymous
Post 02/14/2026 20:21     Subject: Daughter has slight (unintentional!) mustache; what to do?
Do not bleach it. She will just have a different colored mustache. Kids will tease her.
Get the dermaplaning razors. Waxing might be irritating.
Anonymous
Post 02/14/2026 19:07     Subject: Daughter has slight (unintentional!) mustache; what to do?
I just tried the Athena Club wax strips that this Allure article recommends. So quick and easy.

https://www.allure.com/gallery/best-wax-strips-hair-removal
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2026 13:27     Subject: Daughter has slight (unintentional!) mustache; what to do?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My 14 year old, who has pale skin and dark hair,
has a very fine layer of hair on her upper lip. She is about to turn 15. I would like to help her but I’ve never had this issue myself and I’m not that good at beauty stuff. Can somebody tell me what to do as specifically as possible? Bleach? Wax? At home? Where?


At 14 she needs to be taken to a dr to get her hormones checked. This is not normal.


Are you insane? This is perfectly normal.


very normal and as her mom, please help her with it. i have always just used tweezers


You must not have much hair if you use tweezers.
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2026 13:26     Subject: Daughter has slight (unintentional!) mustache; what to do?
Anonymous wrote:Nair makes a gentle depilatory cream for your face. Try that and then pluck any strays.

Waxing creates wrinkles around the mouth (particularly above the lip).


No it doesn't.
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2026 12:05     Subject: Daughter has slight (unintentional!) mustache; what to do?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My 14 year old, who has pale skin and dark hair,
has a very fine layer of hair on her upper lip. She is about to turn 15. I would like to help her but I’ve never had this issue myself and I’m not that good at beauty stuff. Can somebody tell me what to do as specifically as possible? Bleach? Wax? At home? Where?


At 14 she needs to be taken to a dr to get her hormones checked. This is not normal.


Are you insane? This is perfectly normal.


very normal and as her mom, please help her with it. i have always just used tweezers
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2026 12:04     Subject: Daughter has slight (unintentional!) mustache; what to do?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Does she WANT to do anything about it? If not, don't say a word to her.


Of course she wznts to fix it.

Only a hairless woman would need to ask this question.


yes, say something to her and help her with the options
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2026 12:00     Subject: Daughter has slight (unintentional!) mustache; what to do?
Anonymous wrote:Does she WANT to do anything about it? If not, don't say a word to her.



This.
Anonymous
Post 02/05/2026 23:54     Subject: Daughter has slight (unintentional!) mustache; what to do?
My 14-year old just got it waxed. Esthetician recommended that. Happy.
Anonymous
Post 02/05/2026 22:34     Subject: Re:Daughter has slight (unintentional!) mustache; what to do?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Why not try a Bellabe spring tool? You can buy it on amazon. It’s a spring that you roll over the hair and it removes it- kind of like self-threading.

Is this like a manual epilator? Those things hurt so much...I remember my mom had one.


+1
I have one of those things the PP is talking about and I occasionally use it - but it hurts SO MUCH on the upper lip area. Doesn't hurt nearly as much on the cheeks, chin, etc.
Anonymous
Post 02/05/2026 22:23     Subject: Daughter has slight (unintentional!) mustache; what to do?
Anonymous wrote:Nair makes a gentle depilatory cream for your face. Try that and then pluck any strays.

Waxing creates wrinkles around the mouth (particularly above the lip).


I used to wax my lip but it always made me break out a few days after from the “trauma.” I used the Nair made for facial hair recently and it was amazing. Painless and doesn’t leave any irritation. Tempted to get the normal version and try it for my legs now too!
Anonymous
Post 02/05/2026 22:01     Subject: Re:Daughter has slight (unintentional!) mustache; what to do?
Anonymous wrote:Why not try a Bellabe spring tool? You can buy it on amazon. It’s a spring that you roll over the hair and it removes it- kind of like self-threading.

Is this like a manual epilator? Those things hurt so much...I remember my mom had one.