Anonymous
Post 01/09/2026 14:36     Subject: Re:Are divorced men solely looking for sex?
It takes a lot for a woman to evict the father of her children. So, divorced men are generally addicts of some sort, emotionally damaged scum incapable of pair bonding, closet cases, and other lower forms of life. They're generally trash too weak, lacking in morals, and undesirable to keep a family together despite the very low expectations men get to meet.

If you keep in mind that you're dealing with the bottom tier of the lesser half of the human race, then all the problems divorced men cause make sense. I get that many older women are stuck fishing in this polluted end of the pond as a practical matter, but don't blind yourself to what you're getting.

Please don't bother attacking me if you're a divorce man hurt by the truth or a woman dealing with a divorced man who is mad about the truth. You know divorce courts aren't sending their best.


This post is so sad for so many reasons. First, this poster followed her drivel with several "sock-puppet" posts praising herself for her wonderful post. We will now see her defend her sock-puppeting with posts like "if the truth hurts" or "too bad you (incel) cannot see the truth."

Next, she takes no responsibility for marrying a man who was "emotionally damaged scum." Honey, that one is on you.

Finally, we pray that her children can recover from the damage she is doing to them by spewing this garbage. It is likely that this poster's mother told her all about men in the "bottom tier" of the human race, ensuring that she would find and marry one. We can see the wheel turn as her daughters will do the same, and her sons live up to her man-hating assumptions.



Anonymous
Post 01/09/2026 14:27     Subject: Are divorced men solely looking for sex?
The OP of this thread should meet the OP of the thread "Men seem eager to be remarried!", also on the front page of DCUM now, and compare notes on how to meet men!
Anonymous
Post 01/09/2026 13:44     Subject: Are divorced men solely looking for sex?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It doesn’t feel like they actually want to be in a relationship, and that all they want is sex. I’d think they’d want a true companion. What do you think?

They are always looking for a caretaker.

A woman to take care of care of them- their sex, their image, their ego, their home, their meals, their arm candy at events, their kids, their health, their holidays.

Some have money and think throwing money at the above for some named conversations is the way to go. Is that a “relationship”? Yes, a transactional one.


All relationships are transactional.


No.

Good relationships are romantic, caring, and emotionally supportive. Each person wants to give more than they receive.


"A good marriage is one in which each spouse secretly thinks he or she got the better deal" - Anne Lamott
Anonymous
Post 01/09/2026 13:38     Subject: Are divorced men solely looking for sex?
Just above this post is a thread titled "Are divorced men solely looking for sex?"

When will people learn that their limited experiences with a handful of people cannot possible apply to the entirety of humanity? Neither is DCUM in any way a representative sample.
Anonymous
Post 01/09/2026 13:33     Subject: Are divorced men solely looking for sex?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It takes a lot for a woman to evict the father of her children. So, divorced men are generally addicts of some sort, emotionally damaged scum incapable of pair bonding, closet cases, and other lower forms of life. They're generally trash too weak, lacking in morals, and undesirable to keep a family together despite the very low expectations men get to meet.

If you keep in mind that you're dealing with the bottom tier of the lesser half of the human race, then all the problems divorced men cause make sense. I get that many older women are stuck fishing in this polluted end of the pond as a practical matter, but don't blind yourself to what you're getting.

Please don't bother attacking me if you're a divorce man hurt by the truth or a woman dealing with a divorced man who is mad about the truth. You know divorce courts aren't sending their best.


A lot of times women like you are easily detectable and thus you'll only be used for sex. Men may be dumb in regards to some things but usually can spot a horrible narcissist woman like you a mike away. The ones that have had to deal with then learn fast.

Most women that are older are full of negative baggage, that's why successful fit older men are usually with younger women. Less drama, often better looking, usually fit and a much better partner.


I think this is right about that PP. Even more to the point, people like that PP are such ugly people (inside, probably also outside) that they end up with low tier men, and then extrapolate that experience. But the good catches tend to end up with good partners.


I agree other than calling anyone low tier.
Anonymous
Post 01/09/2026 11:59     Subject: Are divorced men solely looking for sex?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It takes a lot for a woman to evict the father of her children. So, divorced men are generally addicts of some sort, emotionally damaged scum incapable of pair bonding, closet cases, and other lower forms of life. They're generally trash too weak, lacking in morals, and undesirable to keep a family together despite the very low expectations men get to meet.

If you keep in mind that you're dealing with the bottom tier of the lesser half of the human race, then all the problems divorced men cause make sense. I get that many older women are stuck fishing in this polluted end of the pond as a practical matter, but don't blind yourself to what you're getting.

Please don't bother attacking me if you're a divorce man hurt by the truth or a woman dealing with a divorced man who is mad about the truth. You know divorce courts aren't sending their best.


A lot of times women like you are easily detectable and thus you'll only be used for sex. Men may be dumb in regards to some things but usually can spot a horrible narcissist woman like you a mike away. The ones that have had to deal with then learn fast.

Most women that are older are full of negative baggage, that's why successful fit older men are usually with younger women. Less drama, often better looking, usually fit and a much better partner.


I think this is right about that PP. Even more to the point, people like that PP are such ugly people (inside, probably also outside) that they end up with low tier men, and then extrapolate that experience. But the good catches tend to end up with good partners.
Anonymous
Post 01/09/2026 11:52     Subject: Are divorced men solely looking for sex?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It takes a lot for a woman to evict the father of her children. So, divorced men are generally addicts of some sort, emotionally damaged scum incapable of pair bonding, closet cases, and other lower forms of life. They're generally trash too weak, lacking in morals, and undesirable to keep a family together despite the very low expectations men get to meet.

If you keep in mind that you're dealing with the bottom tier of the lesser half of the human race, then all the problems divorced men cause make sense. I get that many older women are stuck fishing in this polluted end of the pond as a practical matter, but don't blind yourself to what you're getting.

Please don't bother attacking me if you're a divorce man hurt by the truth or a woman dealing with a divorced man who is mad about the truth. You know divorce courts aren't sending their best.
Wow, I doubt we will get a more man hating post than that on DCUM in all of 2026.


I'm a divorced woman and I agree. The PP you quoted is a horrible person. But the problem is clearly her.

OP, I met an absolutely wonderful man after my divorce. He was also divorced. We both have our baggage but we work every day not to let it affect OUR relationship.



Zero mention of kids in the house or blended family.


Correct....because it's completely irrelevant to the question asked. Anything else?


It is relevant. I'm not the PP who bashed men, but my exH is a great partner (or so he wants to think) to his 20 years younger GF. Because he simply offloaded our SN child on me. I am still supporting our DC in college, do all the planning with disability office in college, host them for college breaks (because they don't even want to stay with their father); take them on travels


It is not relevant. I"m sorry your ex sucks. My ex sucks too, which is why I'm also divorced. There are men who divorce horrible women, too. Shocking I know. And just because one marriage didn't work, it doesn't mean that a person is irredeemable and can't be a good partner to someone else.
Anonymous
Post 01/09/2026 11:50     Subject: Are divorced men solely looking for sex?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It takes a lot for a woman to evict the father of her children. So, divorced men are generally addicts of some sort, emotionally damaged scum incapable of pair bonding, closet cases, and other lower forms of life. They're generally trash too weak, lacking in morals, and undesirable to keep a family together despite the very low expectations men get to meet.

If you keep in mind that you're dealing with the bottom tier of the lesser half of the human race, then all the problems divorced men cause make sense. I get that many older women are stuck fishing in this polluted end of the pond as a practical matter, but don't blind yourself to what you're getting.

Please don't bother attacking me if you're a divorce man hurt by the truth or a woman dealing with a divorced man who is mad about the truth. You know divorce courts aren't sending their best.
Wow, I doubt we will get a more man hating post than that on DCUM in all of 2026.


I'm a divorced woman and I agree. The PP you quoted is a horrible person. But the problem is clearly her.

OP, I met an absolutely wonderful man after my divorce. He was also divorced. We both have our baggage but we work every day not to let it affect OUR relationship.



Zero mention of kids in the house or blended family.


Correct....because it's completely irrelevant to the question asked. Anything else?


Divorced with no kids is VERY different than divorced with kids.

Whether they are fully launched or not.

Lots of implications too.


True, but why do you keep speculating either way? You are so desperate to prove some kind of a point. The question has to do with men's intentions and not how many children he may or may not have. I am not going to encourage your lunacy with telling you whether or not we have children. I found a wonderful man and he definitely has the best intentions. If you are unable to do that, my guess (educated at this point) is that it is because you suck as a person.
Anonymous
Post 01/09/2026 10:55     Subject: Are divorced men solely looking for sex?
Anonymous wrote:It takes a lot for a woman to evict the father of her children. So, divorced men are generally addicts of some sort, emotionally damaged scum incapable of pair bonding, closet cases, and other lower forms of life. They're generally trash too weak, lacking in morals, and undesirable to keep a family together despite the very low expectations men get to meet.

If you keep in mind that you're dealing with the bottom tier of the lesser half of the human race, then all the problems divorced men cause make sense. I get that many older women are stuck fishing in this polluted end of the pond as a practical matter, but don't blind yourself to what you're getting.

Please don't bother attacking me if you're a divorce man hurt by the truth or a woman dealing with a divorced man who is mad about the truth. You know divorce courts aren't sending their best.


A lot of times women like you are easily detectable and thus you'll only be used for sex. Men may be dumb in regards to some things but usually can spot a horrible narcissist woman like you a mike away. The ones that have had to deal with then learn fast.

Most women that are older are full of negative baggage, that's why successful fit older men are usually with younger women. Less drama, often better looking, usually fit and a much better partner.
Anonymous
Post 01/09/2026 00:17     Subject: Are divorced men solely looking for sex?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It takes a lot for a woman to evict the father of her children. So, divorced men are generally addicts of some sort, emotionally damaged scum incapable of pair bonding, closet cases, and other lower forms of life. They're generally trash too weak, lacking in morals, and undesirable to keep a family together despite the very low expectations men get to meet.

If you keep in mind that you're dealing with the bottom tier of the lesser half of the human race, then all the problems divorced men cause make sense. I get that many older women are stuck fishing in this polluted end of the pond as a practical matter, but don't blind yourself to what you're getting.

Please don't bother attacking me if you're a divorce man hurt by the truth or a woman dealing with a divorced man who is mad about the truth. You know divorce courts aren't sending their best.
Wow, I doubt we will get a more man hating post than that on DCUM in all of 2026.


I'm a divorced woman and I agree. The PP you quoted is a horrible person. But the problem is clearly her.

OP, I met an absolutely wonderful man after my divorce. He was also divorced. We both have our baggage but we work every day not to let it affect OUR relationship.



Zero mention of kids in the house or blended family.


Correct....because it's completely irrelevant to the question asked. Anything else?


It is relevant. I'm not the PP who bashed men, but my exH is a great partner (or so he wants to think) to his 20 years younger GF. Because he simply offloaded our SN child on me. I am still supporting our DC in college, do all the planning with disability office in college, host them for college breaks (because they don't even want to stay with their father); take them on travels
Anonymous
Post 01/08/2026 23:41     Subject: Are divorced men solely looking for sex?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It takes a lot for a woman to evict the father of her children. So, divorced men are generally addicts of some sort, emotionally damaged scum incapable of pair bonding, closet cases, and other lower forms of life. They're generally trash too weak, lacking in morals, and undesirable to keep a family together despite the very low expectations men get to meet.

If you keep in mind that you're dealing with the bottom tier of the lesser half of the human race, then all the problems divorced men cause make sense. I get that many older women are stuck fishing in this polluted end of the pond as a practical matter, but don't blind yourself to what you're getting.

Please don't bother attacking me if you're a divorce man hurt by the truth or a woman dealing with a divorced man who is mad about the truth. You know divorce courts aren't sending their best.
Wow, I doubt we will get a more man hating post than that on DCUM in all of 2026.


I'm a divorced woman and I agree. The PP you quoted is a horrible person. But the problem is clearly her.

OP, I met an absolutely wonderful man after my divorce. He was also divorced. We both have our baggage but we work every day not to let it affect OUR relationship.



Zero mention of kids in the house or blended family.


Correct....because it's completely irrelevant to the question asked. Anything else?


Divorced with no kids is VERY different than divorced with kids.

Whether they are fully launched or not.

Lots of implications too.