Anonymous
Post 09/14/2025 11:01     Subject: Expressions or words that you find annoying

Yum. (ie - this banana nut cake is YUM)

Yummy. (Ooh this dress is yummy. Or - You are looking yummy!)

Hubs, hubby, kiddo, littles

Obvs

Photog



Anonymous
Post 09/14/2025 10:54     Subject: Expressions or words that you find annoying

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Anonymous wrote:Didn’t read the whole thread.

Calling kids Bud (sometimes Bug for a girl) - you named the kid. Thought about the name.me a lot while pregnant. Use it!

Align.


Do you only refer to your kid by their first name?


Yes, generally. Or if it’s just me and kid and I say something while looking at her, she understands I am talking to her. I cringe so much at the hey bud over and over (while the kid ignores the parent most times). When my kid gets hurt or sick I may also say honey or sweetie.


That’s…interesting.


NP. What’s the problem here? I call my kids honey, sweetie, darlin’, etc. all the time.


Those words are for your AP
Do not give your kids Oedipal complexes.


Do you ever hug your kids, or do they just receive a firm handshake?
Anonymous
Post 09/14/2025 10:52     Subject: Expressions or words that you find annoying

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Didn’t read the whole thread.

Calling kids Bud (sometimes Bug for a girl) - you named the kid. Thought about the name.me a lot while pregnant. Use it!

Align.


Do you only refer to your kid by their first name?


Yes, generally. Or if it’s just me and kid and I say something while looking at her, she understands I am talking to her. I cringe so much at the hey bud over and over (while the kid ignores the parent most times). When my kid gets hurt or sick I may also say honey or sweetie.


That’s…interesting.


NP. What’s the problem here? I call my kids honey, sweetie, darlin’, etc. all the time.


That’s what’s weird…that PP will only call her kids by a term of endearment if they’re injured or sick. So rigid and bizarre.
Anonymous
Post 09/14/2025 10:08     Subject: Expressions or words that you find annoying

BESTIE. Same with hubs, hubby, kiddos, wifey. Makes my skin crawl.

Anyone who asks for recommendations online and ends their request with "...and goooo!..."
Like we all have to rush to answer their stupid question.

Even worse than "and myself" is "and I's", like "Muffy and I's relationship is progressing".
Anonymous
Post 09/14/2025 07:03     Subject: Expressions or words that you find annoying

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Didn’t read the whole thread.

Calling kids Bud (sometimes Bug for a girl) - you named the kid. Thought about the name.me a lot while pregnant. Use it!

Align.


Do you only refer to your kid by their first name?


Yes, generally. Or if it’s just me and kid and I say something while looking at her, she understands I am talking to her. I cringe so much at the hey bud over and over (while the kid ignores the parent most times). When my kid gets hurt or sick I may also say honey or sweetie.


That’s…interesting.


NP. What’s the problem here? I call my kids honey, sweetie, darlin’, etc. all the time.


Those words are for your AP
Do not give your kids Oedipal complexes.


That’s silly. They’re terms of endearment, not sexual terms. And tbh, if I had an AP I wouldn’t use any of these for him. Those would be much dirtier.
Anonymous
Post 09/14/2025 06:43     Subject: Re:Expressions or words that you find annoying

If I’m being honest,
Honestly,
Right?
Expecially
Evalooate
Anonymous
Post 09/14/2025 06:35     Subject: Re:Expressions or words that you find annoying

"for real", "the math ain't mathing", "what I meant to say is" any similar repetitive phrases. It's like the person who says these phrases become an NPC and usually the next few words out of their mouth are predictable.

Quite redonculous 😜🤣
Anonymous
Post 09/14/2025 01:14     Subject: Expressions or words that you find annoying

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Didn’t read the whole thread.

Calling kids Bud (sometimes Bug for a girl) - you named the kid. Thought about the name.me a lot while pregnant. Use it!

Align.


Do you only refer to your kid by their first name?


Yes, generally. Or if it’s just me and kid and I say something while looking at her, she understands I am talking to her. I cringe so much at the hey bud over and over (while the kid ignores the parent most times). When my kid gets hurt or sick I may also say honey or sweetie.


That’s…interesting.


NP. What’s the problem here? I call my kids honey, sweetie, darlin’, etc. all the time.


Those words are for your AP
Do not give your kids Oedipal complexes.
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2025 23:43     Subject: Expressions or words that you find annoying

"Whenever" when they mean "when."
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2025 23:30     Subject: Expressions or words that you find annoying

Anything followed by "ass". Or the work "ass" appearing where it doesn't belong, like old-ass.
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2025 23:15     Subject: Expressions or words that you find annoying

Chippy. I’ve been watching a lot of WNBA games, and the announced LOVE to say, “It’s getting chippy in here” whenever there is any hint of conflict between players.

Also, I don’t like menus that describe food as “stuffed with” or “smothered with.” Just kind of grosses me out (unreasonable, I know).
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2025 21:49     Subject: Expressions or words that you find annoying

This isn't quite the same, but it's one of my major pet peeves: when a parent insists on calling their child by both first and middle names in public. It's so obvious they just want everyone to hear the kid's name and think how wonderful it is.

"Mackenna Brianne! Come back right now!"
"Tanner Ewan! Please put that back."
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2025 18:59     Subject: Expressions or words that you find annoying

Anonymous wrote:Snacky snack


Hot diggity dog! I thought I made up snacky snack to mock people on DCUM. It's a thang?
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2025 16:31     Subject: Re:Expressions or words that you find annoying

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:“To die for” - eg, “OMG the chocolate cake there is TO DIE FOR!!!!” No, it’s not. And it’s probably from Costco.

“Myself” used instead of “me” - eg, “Come talk to Ann or myself.”


Even worse, Myself used as the subject in place of "I".


I think I need this one explained. People are saying, “Jane and myself went the store.”???


Yes. I associate it with chavs but it’s spreading.