Anonymous wrote:Wow white beauty standards are crazy. I was today years old when I learned I'm not "slim."

5'3. 135 lbs.

I'm slim and toned since I work out a lot but most of my weight is in my thighs/booty.

Anyway, OP ignore the people trying to make you look like a stick. Your weight is fine.

Youre fat.

Anonymous wrote:Wow white beauty standards are crazy. I was today years old when I learned I'm not "slim."

5'3. 135 lbs.

I'm slim and toned since I work out a lot but most of my weight is in my thighs/booty.

Anyway, OP ignore the people trying to make you look like a stick. Your weight is fine.

Be honest with yourself. 135 at 5’3 is large. I’m 135 at 5’8 average to thin, but not skinny.

Wow white beauty standards are crazy. I was today years old when I learned I'm not "slim."

5'3. 135 lbs.

I'm slim and toned since I work out a lot but most of my weight is in my thighs/booty.

Anyway, OP ignore the people trying to make you look like a stick. Your weight is fine.

I am 38 and married. I have 5 friends that I hangout it with often. Only w of us are married. The other 3 are undatable.

I think women need to accept that a lot of men are simply not datable. Don't ask me why because I don't know.

Anonymous wrote:I have been on the apps on and off since I separated from my STBXH. I am looking to gently dip a toe in dating and…it’s not going well!

My stats:

5’0 118lbs
Brunette with nice skin and classic style
UVA grad making 130k
I am told I am quite pretty and sweet. I have no idea why I’m receiving no matches!

It is very demoralizing.

If you can't find any match then I am doomed. I am recently divorced 47 same salary as you and pay child support for 1 kid.

You seem like a catch and if you can't fall in anyone's net, then I am f**d.

I have been single for a year now. I had some hookups, but personally I can't have the kind of freaky nasty sex I crave with a hookup because I am paranoid about catching something and condoms get in the way. So I need to be in a relationship.

Theres a 90% chance any woman starting to have kids at 38 will end up with a deformed one.

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Anonymous wrote:classic style

What the hell is "classic style?"

UVA grad making 130k

Nobody cares

I am told I am quite pretty and sweet. I have no idea why I’m receiving no matches!

It is very demoralizing.

You're not as attractive as you think you are (don't worry, you're not alone), your standards are way too high and you have children in your photos. Can't imagine why guys aren't swiping right on you. Good luck! Try being more open minded as you get older.

translation: "someone needs to date the fat old uggo men, and they will not settle for someone their own league"

Anonymous wrote:classic style

What the hell is "classic style?"

UVA grad making 130k

Nobody cares

I am told I am quite pretty and sweet. I have no idea why I’m receiving no matches!

It is very demoralizing.

You're not as attractive as you think you are (don't worry, you're not alone), your standards are way too high and you have children in your photos. Can't imagine why guys aren't swiping right on you. Good luck! Try being more open minded as you get older.

Yeah as a guy I would say these stats sound great and she should be getting lots of guys swiping right; sounds like some anomaly with the app and nothing wrong with the OP or her settings. Showing a pic w a niece is not a big deal

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Anonymous wrote:But OP is not attracted to short men. OP, keep your standards. I agree with removing the picture with your niece. Do NOT increase the age, you don't want kids with someone who is almost 60.

They're not standards, they're preferences. Calling a height preference a standard makes it seem like people are encouraging her to give a dishonest person a chance.

I get it. However, OP is attracted to taller than average guys. She cannot force herself to be intimate with someone who is not attractive to her.

DP.

That's absolute BS. That's like a 5'8 woman who is only attracted to 6'5" guys and taller. It's immature abd ridiculous

A 5'6" guy is tall enough to get the height difference that gives vain women like her ( and me) butterflies. She is too picky.

Everyone has physical preferences. Would you a man looking for Sydney Sweeney that he should be physically attracted to Lena Dunham instead?

The OPs physical preferences are just as valid as a man looking for Gigi Hadid. He will learn what is realistic and shift his expectations accordingly.

This is not possible. OP's preferences are at least realistic. No one has ever been attracted to Lena Dunham. That would be like OP saying she wanted a 9' tall man. Just not gonna happen.

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Anonymous wrote:But OP is not attracted to short men. OP, keep your standards. I agree with removing the picture with your niece. Do NOT increase the age, you don't want kids with someone who is almost 60.

They're not standards, they're preferences. Calling a height preference a standard makes it seem like people are encouraging her to give a dishonest person a chance.

I get it. However, OP is attracted to taller than average guys. She cannot force herself to be intimate with someone who is not attractive to her.

DP.

That's absolute BS. That's like a 5'8 woman who is only attracted to 6'5" guys and taller. It's immature abd ridiculous

A 5'6" guy is tall enough to get the height difference that gives vain women like her ( and me) butterflies. She is too picky.

Everyone has physical preferences. Would you a man looking for Sydney Sweeney that he should be physically attracted to Lena Dunham instead?

The OPs physical preferences are just as valid as a man looking for Gigi Hadid. He will learn what is realistic and shift his expectations accordingly.

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Anonymous wrote:You're short and fat. And you won't date short men. And the tall men can do waaaaay better. I can't believe you didn't figure this out on your own.

OP is slim. The rest is true.

38F on a 5 feet frame would not look slim usually.

She is a 38-year-old woman. This is not a bra size.

38F is a huge bra size.

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Anonymous wrote:Ditch photo with niece
Set age filter to 55
Reduce height requirement

Uh, no. You are better off single forever than taking on a man 17 years older than you. If you really want to have kids, having them as a true single mom is way better than having little kids plus an elderly husband to care for.

OP, it's natural that you feel your biological clock ticking, but remember that no husband is sooooooo much better than a bad husband.

55 is not elderly FFS he has a good 20-25 years run ahead of him.

Wrong. 55 is way too old for her.

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Anonymous wrote:You're short and fat. And you won't date short men. And the tall men can do waaaaay better. I can't believe you didn't figure this out on your own.

OP is slim. The rest is true.

38F on a 5 feet frame would not look slim usually.

She is a 38-year-old woman. This is not a bra size.

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Anonymous wrote:You're short and fat. And you won't date short men. And the tall men can do waaaaay better. I can't believe you didn't figure this out on your own.

OP is slim. The rest is true.

38F on a 5 feet frame would not look slim usually.

OMG. She's a 38 year old female! She said she weighed 118lbs.

Hang your head in shame and learn to read internet terms.

That’s hilarious that some dude thought this was her bra size.

Too much OnlyFans makes you stupid.