Anonymous
Post 09/03/2025 11:40     Subject: Most of us look our age
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I find that it really angers white women that Black and Asian women age so much more gracefully. Being the standard bearer for white European beauty throughout their 20s and into their 30s for some, to then crash out and look haggard in their 40s while the Black and Asian women look so much better kills because everything about white culture revolves around being better than someone else.


Troof!


Not really. My black and Asian friends all have really bad melasma and skin discoloration and can’t use lasers. Their grays show more. They actually look worse. Sorry.


Your stupid anecdote doesn’t count


Moron.
Anonymous
Post 09/03/2025 11:40     Subject: Most of us look our age
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I find that it really angers white women that Black and Asian women age so much more gracefully. Being the standard bearer for white European beauty throughout their 20s and into their 30s for some, to then crash out and look haggard in their 40s while the Black and Asian women look so much better kills because everything about white culture revolves around being better than someone else.


Troof!


Not really. My black and Asian friends all have really bad melasma and skin discoloration and can’t use lasers. Their grays show more. They actually look worse. Sorry.


Your stupid anecdote doesn’t count


I hate to break it to you, but this is all anecdotal. So, it does indeed. Sorry! Also, my south Asian friends look far older than their age. Is this a fun game? Not really, but you wanted to play.


But your mum looks the worst of them all
Anonymous
Post 09/03/2025 11:35     Subject: Most of us look our age
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I find that it really angers white women that Black and Asian women age so much more gracefully. Being the standard bearer for white European beauty throughout their 20s and into their 30s for some, to then crash out and look haggard in their 40s while the Black and Asian women look so much better kills because everything about white culture revolves around being better than someone else.


Troof!


Not really. My black and Asian friends all have really bad melasma and skin discoloration and can’t use lasers. Their grays show more. They actually look worse. Sorry.


Your stupid anecdote doesn’t count


I hate to break it to you, but this is all anecdotal. So, it does indeed. Sorry! Also, my south Asian friends look far older than their age. Is this a fun game? Not really, but you wanted to play.
Anonymous
Post 09/03/2025 11:34     Subject: Most of us look our age
Anonymous wrote:The 50s are really cruel for women.

Men seem to have an easier time of it if they are serious about exercise and diet.

But both men and women need to work at it. No one is accidentally beautiful at 52.


I think men drop off a cliff in their 50s, too. Even the fit ones have grey and receding hair. Men generally don't take as good care of their skin as women, so you start to see a lot of skin damage, especially among those who spend a lot of time outdoors, like golfers. Men who don't lift seem to lose muscle at an accelerated rate, start to look weak and soft, and often have bad posture from too much time at a desk. Noting this because I think from 50 on, men age at least as much as women.
Anonymous
Post 09/03/2025 11:28     Subject: Most of us look our age
I have a neighbor who is 65 and retiring this year. She absolutely could pass for a 55 year old woman. Amazingly smooth skin.

But she is the exception, not the norm. Otherwise agree that most people look their age range. We're all pretty good at knowing if someone is 45 and good looking for their age or 45 and unhealthy looking for their age. Even a 45 year old Asian woman is not going to look like a 25 year old Asian woman. At best she might look 40 instead of 45.
Anonymous
Post 09/03/2025 11:27     Subject: Most of us look our age
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Black and Asian women do look younger than their age generally speaking. White women look their age.


I find this to be quite common from my life experience(s).

Black don’t crack ➕ Asian no raisin…..

All kidding aside, I am surprised how well many Black people age.
Many of them look so good!
And don’t get me started on Asians….they all seem to have a longer shelf life than all of the other ethnicities in my opinion.
All of the Asians I have known seem to age at a much slower rate than the rest of the population!

Though JLo is 56 and looks 36 and she is neither - - she is Puerto Rican and is seemingly aging backward.
Yes, I know I know she probably has had surgical enhancements done.
But if that is the case ->> then why don’t most celebrities look that good at 56??!

I digress.
😝


I don't think JLo looks 36. On stage and in edited photos, she, of course, looks fantastic. Op close, she looks her age, but still gorgeous.
Anonymous
Post 09/03/2025 11:27     Subject: Most of us look our age
Anonymous wrote:Its so cringe when i hear a 35 year old + woman bragging about looking 10 + years younger than your age . Its subconscious in us as humans to pick up on someone age there always giveaways such as mannerisms /hands /neck .

IDC if you have a baby face or are petite you still look your age . Only a very small percentage of us are unicorns that can pass as 10 + years younger .



People especially waiters or cashiers are being nice when they card you or sometimes its required by law to card anyone regardless of their age so this isn't a flex .



I've lived 68 years on this planet and in 8 major cities. I have never heard a single woman bragging like this.
Anonymous
Post 09/03/2025 11:26     Subject: Most of us look our age
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I find that it really angers white women that Black and Asian women age so much more gracefully. Being the standard bearer for white European beauty throughout their 20s and into their 30s for some, to then crash out and look haggard in their 40s while the Black and Asian women look so much better kills because everything about white culture revolves around being better than someone else.


Troof!


Not really. My black and Asian friends all have really bad melasma and skin discoloration and can’t use lasers. Their grays show more. They actually look worse. Sorry.


Your stupid anecdote doesn’t count
Anonymous
Post 09/03/2025 11:19     Subject: Most of us look our age
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I find that it really angers white women that Black and Asian women age so much more gracefully. Being the standard bearer for white European beauty throughout their 20s and into their 30s for some, to then crash out and look haggard in their 40s while the Black and Asian women look so much better kills because everything about white culture revolves around being better than someone else.


Troof!


Not really. My black and Asian friends all have really bad melasma and skin discoloration and can’t use lasers. Their grays show more. They actually look worse. Sorry.
Anonymous
Post 09/03/2025 11:17     Subject: Most of us look our age
But every single woman that posts on here definitely looks way younger thanks to genes! It’s all their amazing genes you jealous old hag! All of you look your age. You are ridiculous to think you don’t. Including my dark skinned friends. All of you. This nonsense is nonsense.
Anonymous
Post 09/03/2025 11:17     Subject: Most of us look our age
I look old for my age. Life’s been hard!
But given the alternative and having seen good friends die well before their time, I’ll take it. Who cares tbh. How you feel for your age is much more important.
Anonymous
Post 09/03/2025 11:16     Subject: Most of us look our age
Anonymous wrote:I find that it really angers white women that Black and Asian women age so much more gracefully. Being the standard bearer for white European beauty throughout their 20s and into their 30s for some, to then crash out and look haggard in their 40s while the Black and Asian women look so much better kills because everything about white culture revolves around being better than someone else.


I don’t think most women think about it much, with the notable exception of the poster who always parks themselves in any thread remotely related to aging in order to post over and over how badly white women age
Anonymous
Post 09/03/2025 11:15     Subject: Most of us look our age
Anonymous wrote:I find that it really angers white women that Black and Asian women age so much more gracefully. Being the standard bearer for white European beauty throughout their 20s and into their 30s for some, to then crash out and look haggard in their 40s while the Black and Asian women look so much better kills because everything about white culture revolves around being better than someone else.


Troof!
Anonymous
Post 09/03/2025 11:12     Subject: Most of us look our age
I find that it really angers white women that Black and Asian women age so much more gracefully. Being the standard bearer for white European beauty throughout their 20s and into their 30s for some, to then crash out and look haggard in their 40s while the Black and Asian women look so much better kills because everything about white culture revolves around being better than someone else.
Anonymous
Post 09/03/2025 11:05     Subject: Most of us look our age
Anonymous wrote:When I was in my 30s, the 20-somethings invited me to their happy hours and young professionals things. They were shocked to learn that I was married, and later, was pregnant/had a child. Now that I'm in my 40s with two children, NOBODY makes that mistake anymore, LOL!


20 somethings are particularly bad at guessing ages. I think they expect someone 35-40 to look “old” in a way that doesn’t happen until later when the hormones change. They don’t pick up on the changes that a person who is also 35 notices.