Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do country club wives just go along with their husbands behaving like this? Is it just part of the deal? The wives take the kids to the beach for the summer and the husbands stay home “to work” - i.e. reliving their college frat days at the country club, with drugs and women galore?

We're wealthy Educated women. What a dB sexist thing to think that men hold all the power in our relationships. Some if us earn large salaries and have significant independent wealth. Do you think we grow up in these wealthy educated families amd were born yesterday? I'm generational wealth and DH is new money - I hold much more relationship power than he does. Not a chance he'd be acting this dumb without me knowing and doing something about it. Fortunately, he'd never do anything that dumb - he's very smart.

I think this behavior happens more when men marry down creating a power imbalance, so they are free to be a jackals The thing is those women never really fit in to begin with.

You sound like a real gem. "marry down"? Good Lord. GOY.

That is literally what it is called and has been called for centuries. Did you think this was a new term invented for DCUM. Perhaps you should "get over yourself" and realize you don't know as much as you think.

Anonymous wrote:Why is no journalist investigating this story? 23 members involved. Hiring of prostitutes, reports of cocaine and the club is covering it up so they don’t lose bid to host the US Open. No one was kicked out. Two year suspension for the ringleader.

In this day and age of #metoo and human trafficking, why is this bastion of toxic masculinity not being held accountable? I’m sure there are members who would speak off the record.

Anonymous wrote:I can’t believe anyone would swallow a two year suspension from a country club. Just part ways. The end.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why is no journalist investigating this story? 23 members involved. Hiring of prostitutes, reports of cocaine and the club is covering it up so they don’t lose bid to host the US Open. No one was kicked out. Two year suspension for the ringleader.

In this day and age of #metoo and human trafficking, why is this bastion of toxic masculinity not being held accountable? I’m sure there are members who would speak off the record.

Kicked out of a country club for two YEARS? How does that work, do the wife and kids, if he has either, still get to go? Does he still have to pay monthly dues while he can't use the facilities? Where does the guy kicked out golf for two years in the meantime? Seems so awkward.

Anonymous wrote:Why is no journalist investigating this story? 23 members involved. Hiring of prostitutes, reports of cocaine and the club is covering it up so they don’t lose bid to host the US Open. No one was kicked out. Two year suspension for the ringleader.

In this day and age of #metoo and human trafficking, why is this bastion of toxic masculinity not being held accountable? I’m sure there are members who would speak off the record.

Anonymous wrote:Why is no journalist investigating this story? 23 members involved. Hiring of prostitutes, reports of cocaine and the club is covering it up so they don’t lose bid to host the US Open. No one was kicked out. Two year suspension for the ringleader.

In this day and age of #metoo and human trafficking, why is this bastion of toxic masculinity not being held accountable? I’m sure there are members who would speak off the record.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do country club wives just go along with their husbands behaving like this? Is it just part of the deal? The wives take the kids to the beach for the summer and the husbands stay home “to work” - i.e. reliving their college frat days at the country club, with drugs and women galore?

Well, most women lose their sex drive and/or interest in sucking and screwing their balding hubby after kids. It's not that they don't care if he cheats, it's just they don't want to give any mindshare to it. As long as it's out of sight and out of mind i.e. discreet, and not with her friends or anything trashy like that, it's just an unspoken thing.