Anonymous wrote:They really need to start regulating this more. It’s like the Wild West.

“A Southern California couple has been charged with child endangerment and neglect after more than 20 children were removed from their home in Arcadia, most of whom were born to surrogate mothers, according to police.

The children ranged in age from two-months to 13-years-old, but most were between one-year and three-years-old, the Arcadia Police Department said.”

https://www.cbsnews.com/amp/losangeles/news/arcadia-surrogate-children-seized-child-endangerment-neglect/

Anonymous wrote:Creepy story. I haven't heard if this before, the surrogates living in a hotel-like place, but it's pretty common in So Cal to have these same kind of setups where Chinese mothers come to give birth to a child here in order to get citizenship for the child. Once they do, they leave. (I believe it's called birth tourism). They pay a large sum to the organizers who arrange travel, housing, hospital, etc. There have been many reported on Irvine in Orange County which has a large Chinese population. Arcadia and the whole San Gabriel Valley has a large Chinese population. The houses are in suburban neighborhoods.

I'm not against birthright citizenship but the way they do this is obviously gaming the system. I heard they do it because it helps with college admissions later? Not sure this is true.

Anonymous wrote:I think rich Americans are very naive to how poor or middle class Americans live. I know plenty of people who would love to sell a kidney for 15k and would like the side effect of saving someone’s life. It’s a lot to ask someone to do it for free. I knew lots of women in college who sold eggs for 10k. They were fully informed. I think some women have a pregnancy fetish and like pregnancy more than raising children.

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Anonymous wrote:So funny that so many women have bought into the idea that controlling your body means renting it out like a brood mare. This is going to serve the wealthy and harm the poor. Y’all are mental.

So funny that women like you feel the perpetual need to put other women down because we make different choices than you. If you don't want to be a surrogate, don't be one. It's really that simple. Why do you feel the need to degrade women because they chose to help another family and make some money in the process?

It’s exploitive. Just because a woman does it, doesn’t make it right. Quote from an article about a Ukrainian surrogate:

“Maria Telyupa, the surrogate mother, headed for Kyiv one more time in 2019 to donate eggs to BioTexCom. She says she needed the 730 euros.”

This article is just an example of how wrong this can go. These are human beings we are talking about. https://www.spiegel.de/international/world/the-perils-of-wartime-adoption-we-promised-bridget-we-would-come-get-her-a-abf4ad88-9c62-48b6-8b9b-f57bc3afeeba

No, she donated her eggs, not human beings FFS.

Again, we are talking about surrogacy in the US where women are compensated very well for their time and effort. No one is being exploited here.

If you bothered to read the article she had already been a surrogate for an American could who decided they didn’t want the child when it was born disabled. She did it for the money and got 40% of it taken by agency. Americans are for sure buying babies abroad.

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Anonymous wrote:This has nothing to do with surrogacy.

But for the record, I see nothing wrong with surrogacy.

NP. Of course this has to do with surrogacy.

Honestly the willful blindness on issues like this are increasingly ridiculous. Like people have to pretend more and more absurdity in their desperation to avoid facing facts.

What facts? Let's start with you making statements you can actually support.

How about the fact that the US is practically alone in the world in allowing commercial surrogacy? Most of the world correctly views surrogacy with horror.

https://petrieflom.law.harvard.edu/2024/03/18/regulating-international-commercial-surrogacy/

Surrogacy is the business of exploitation.

Disagree. I think it’s okay to pay someone to carry your baby if you can’t. The people I know who have done it would laugh at the idea that they were exploited. They most certainly were not.

In India, poor women are often pimped out for surrogacy by their greedy in laws who see them as property.

Surrogacy is some handmaids tale s***. Wealthy American women are outliers in rationalizing it.

We’re not talking about surrogacy in India.

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Anonymous wrote:So funny that so many women have bought into the idea that controlling your body means renting it out like a brood mare. This is going to serve the wealthy and harm the poor. Y’all are mental.

So funny that women like you feel the perpetual need to put other women down because we make different choices than you. If you don't want to be a surrogate, don't be one. It's really that simple. Why do you feel the need to degrade women because they chose to help another family and make some money in the process?

It’s exploitive. Just because a woman does it, doesn’t make it right. Quote from an article about a Ukrainian surrogate:

“Maria Telyupa, the surrogate mother, headed for Kyiv one more time in 2019 to donate eggs to BioTexCom. She says she needed the 730 euros.”

This article is just an example of how wrong this can go. These are human beings we are talking about. https://www.spiegel.de/international/world/the-perils-of-wartime-adoption-we-promised-bridget-we-would-come-get-her-a-abf4ad88-9c62-48b6-8b9b-f57bc3afeeba

No, she donated her eggs, not human beings FFS.

Again, we are talking about surrogacy in the US where women are compensated very well for their time and effort. No one is being exploited here.

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Anonymous wrote:So funny that so many women have bought into the idea that controlling your body means renting it out like a brood mare. This is going to serve the wealthy and harm the poor. Y’all are mental.

So funny that women like you feel the perpetual need to put other women down because we make different choices than you. If you don't want to be a surrogate, don't be one. It's really that simple. Why do you feel the need to degrade women because they chose to help another family and make some money in the process?

It’s exploitive. Just because a woman does it, doesn’t make it right. Quote from an article about a Ukrainian surrogate:

“Maria Telyupa, the surrogate mother, headed for Kyiv one more time in 2019 to donate eggs to BioTexCom. She says she needed the 730 euros.”

This article is just an example of how wrong this can go. These are human beings we are talking about. https://www.spiegel.de/international/world/the-perils-of-wartime-adoption-we-promised-bridget-we-would-come-get-her-a-abf4ad88-9c62-48b6-8b9b-f57bc3afeeba

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Anonymous wrote:Once the supreme court defines "mother" and "father" - then we can proceed with renting out uteri.

Is there something confusing in those terms?

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Anonymous wrote:So funny that so many women have bought into the idea that controlling your body means renting it out like a brood mare. This is going to serve the wealthy and harm the poor. Y’all are mental.

So funny that women like you feel the perpetual need to put other women down because we make different choices than you. If you don't want to be a surrogate, don't be one. It's really that simple. Why do you feel the need to degrade women because they chose to help another family and make some money in the process?

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Anonymous wrote:This has nothing to do with surrogacy.

But for the record, I see nothing wrong with surrogacy.

NP. Of course this has to do with surrogacy.

Honestly the willful blindness on issues like this are increasingly ridiculous. Like people have to pretend more and more absurdity in their desperation to avoid facing facts.

What facts? Let's start with you making statements you can actually support.

How about the fact that the US is practically alone in the world in allowing commercial surrogacy? Most of the world correctly views surrogacy with horror.

https://petrieflom.law.harvard.edu/2024/03/18/regulating-international-commercial-surrogacy/

Surrogacy is the business of exploitation.

Disagree. I think it’s okay to pay someone to carry your baby if you can’t. The people I know who have done it would laugh at the idea that they were exploited. They most certainly were not.

In India, poor women are often pimped out for surrogacy by their greedy in laws who see them as property.

Surrogacy is some handmaids tale s***. Wealthy American women are outliers in rationalizing it.

We’re not talking about surrogacy in India.

Why on earth do think the same thing doesn’t happen here?

Have you personally known anyone who has done this? IRL. Not a story you read online.

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Anonymous wrote:This has nothing to do with surrogacy.

But for the record, I see nothing wrong with surrogacy.

NP. Of course this has to do with surrogacy.

Honestly the willful blindness on issues like this are increasingly ridiculous. Like people have to pretend more and more absurdity in their desperation to avoid facing facts.

What facts? Let's start with you making statements you can actually support.

How about the fact that the US is practically alone in the world in allowing commercial surrogacy? Most of the world correctly views surrogacy with horror.

https://petrieflom.law.harvard.edu/2024/03/18/regulating-international-commercial-surrogacy/

Surrogacy is the business of exploitation.

Disagree. I think it’s okay to pay someone to carry your baby if you can’t. The people I know who have done it would laugh at the idea that they were exploited. They most certainly were not.

Well, you are increasingly alone among civilized people in the entire world in that view, but wealthy DCUM women need to tell themselves a lot of lies in general, so that is at least consistent.

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Anonymous wrote:This has nothing to do with surrogacy.

But for the record, I see nothing wrong with surrogacy.

NP. Of course this has to do with surrogacy.

Honestly the willful blindness on issues like this are increasingly ridiculous. Like people have to pretend more and more absurdity in their desperation to avoid facing facts.

What facts? Let's start with you making statements you can actually support.

How about the fact that the US is practically alone in the world in allowing commercial surrogacy? Most of the world correctly views surrogacy with horror.

https://petrieflom.law.harvard.edu/2024/03/18/regulating-international-commercial-surrogacy/

Surrogacy is the business of exploitation.

Disagree. I think it’s okay to pay someone to carry your baby if you can’t. The people I know who have done it would laugh at the idea that they were exploited. They most certainly were not.

In India, poor women are often pimped out for surrogacy by their greedy in laws who see them as property.

Surrogacy is some handmaids tale s***. Wealthy American women are outliers in rationalizing it.

We’re not talking about surrogacy in India.

Why on earth do think the same thing doesn’t happen here?

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Anonymous wrote:This has nothing to do with surrogacy.

But for the record, I see nothing wrong with surrogacy.

NP. Of course this has to do with surrogacy.

Honestly the willful blindness on issues like this are increasingly ridiculous. Like people have to pretend more and more absurdity in their desperation to avoid facing facts.

What facts? Let's start with you making statements you can actually support.

How about the fact that the US is practically alone in the world in allowing commercial surrogacy? Most of the world correctly views surrogacy with horror.

https://petrieflom.law.harvard.edu/2024/03/18/regulating-international-commercial-surrogacy/

Surrogacy is the business of exploitation.

Disagree. I think it’s okay to pay someone to carry your baby if you can’t. The people I know who have done it would laugh at the idea that they were exploited. They most certainly were not.

In India, poor women are often pimped out for surrogacy by their greedy in laws who see them as property.

Surrogacy is some handmaids tale s***. Wealthy American women are outliers in rationalizing it.

We’re not talking about surrogacy in India.

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Anonymous wrote:This has nothing to do with surrogacy.

But for the record, I see nothing wrong with surrogacy.

NP. Of course this has to do with surrogacy.

Honestly the willful blindness on issues like this are increasingly ridiculous. Like people have to pretend more and more absurdity in their desperation to avoid facing facts.

What facts? Let's start with you making statements you can actually support.

How about the fact that the US is practically alone in the world in allowing commercial surrogacy? Most of the world correctly views surrogacy with horror.

https://petrieflom.law.harvard.edu/2024/03/18/regulating-international-commercial-surrogacy/

Surrogacy is the business of exploitation.

Disagree. I think it’s okay to pay someone to carry your baby if you can’t. The people I know who have done it would laugh at the idea that they were exploited. They most certainly were not.

In India, poor women are often pimped out for surrogacy by their greedy in laws who see them as property.

Surrogacy is some handmaids tale s***. Wealthy American women are outliers in rationalizing it.