Anonymous
Post 07/10/2025 21:19     Subject: If you had an affair that lasted longer than a year, tell me about it
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My wife had an affair that lasted 20 months. She is in a 1 bedroom apartment now and I have full custody. If someone tells you that it's 50/50 for everything regardless of affairs they are just too broke to afford a great lawyer.

Gee, I wonder why she had an affair.


DP. Probably because she’s a selfish AH.
Anonymous
Post 07/10/2025 20:52     Subject: If you had an affair that lasted longer than a year, tell me about it
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My wife had an affair that lasted 20 months. She is in a 1 bedroom apartment now and I have full custody. If someone tells you that it's 50/50 for everything regardless of affairs they are just too broke to afford a great lawyer.


A lot of this depends on what state you live in. In the "no fault divorce" states, it doesn't matter if your spouse was a cheating pile of shit.


Most states don’t consider fault in allocating assets. I think PP is referring to aggressive litigation.
Anonymous
Post 07/10/2025 20:38     Subject: If you had an affair that lasted longer than a year, tell me about it
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What is the profile of the typical man who has an affair with a married woman? I would be scared to do so because I am a man and I know how we unpredictable we men can be when angry. It takes an extreme amount of courage to f**k another man's wife.


Well- that’s where you mess up. Lol Hobag should have been scared to f**k another woman’s husband. We, women, can be pretty damn unpredictable and angry too.


99.99% of women will not physically harm the other woman. The same cannot be said of men.


That’s a high estimate (I’d say about 60%) and how do you know you aren’t crossing paths with the 1%? Also, there are so many ways she can make your life hell that aren’t physical harm.


Remember the lady here on DCUM who went to the house of her husband's mistress and proceeded to slash all her Christmas inflatables on her lawn with a knife in a rampage?
Anonymous
Post 07/10/2025 19:51     Subject: If you had an affair that lasted longer than a year, tell me about it
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What is the profile of the typical man who has an affair with a married woman? I would be scared to do so because I am a man and I know how we unpredictable we men can be when angry. It takes an extreme amount of courage to f**k another man's wife.


Well- that’s where you mess up. Lol Hobag should have been scared to f**k another woman’s husband. We, women, can be pretty damn unpredictable and angry too.


99.99% of women will not physically harm the other woman. The same cannot be said of men.


That’s a high estimate (I’d say about 60%) and how do you know you aren’t crossing paths with the 1%? Also, there are so many ways she can make your life hell that aren’t physical harm.
Anonymous
Post 07/10/2025 19:45     Subject: If you had an affair that lasted longer than a year, tell me about it
Anonymous wrote:My wife had an affair that lasted 20 months. She is in a 1 bedroom apartment now and I have full custody. If someone tells you that it's 50/50 for everything regardless of affairs they are just too broke to afford a great lawyer.


A lot of this depends on what state you live in. In the "no fault divorce" states, it doesn't matter if your spouse was a cheating pile of shit.
Anonymous
Post 07/10/2025 19:42     Subject: If you had an affair that lasted longer than a year, tell me about it
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What is the profile of the typical man who has an affair with a married woman? I would be scared to do so because I am a man and I know how we unpredictable we men can be when angry. It takes an extreme amount of courage to f**k another man's wife.


Well- that’s where you mess up. Lol Hobag should have been scared to f**k another woman’s husband. We, women, can be pretty damn unpredictable and angry too.


99.99% of women will not physically harm the other woman. The same cannot be said of men.
Anonymous
Post 07/10/2025 19:42     Subject: If you had an affair that lasted longer than a year, tell me about it
Anonymous wrote:My wife had an affair that lasted 20 months. She is in a 1 bedroom apartment now and I have full custody. If someone tells you that it's 50/50 for everything regardless of affairs they are just too broke to afford a great lawyer.


Good for you. Im so glad it worked out I know too many men who lose time with their kids and the house and half retirement when their wife has been a whore the entire marriage.

She FAFO. Glad to see courts are finally starting to treat both sexes equally and aren’t so “pro-mom” no matter what she does or how she acts.
Anonymous
Post 07/10/2025 19:39     Subject: If you had an affair that lasted longer than a year, tell me about it
Anonymous wrote:What is the profile of the typical man who has an affair with a married woman? I would be scared to do so because I am a man and I know how we unpredictable we men can be when angry. It takes an extreme amount of courage to f**k another man's wife.


Well- that’s where you mess up. Lol Hobag should have been scared to f**k another woman’s husband. We, women, can be pretty damn unpredictable and angry too.
Anonymous
Post 07/10/2025 18:27     Subject: If you had an affair that lasted longer than a year, tell me about it
A man getting with another man’s wife is not courageous, it is the actions of an insecure, selfish, cowardly and immature human.
Anonymous
Post 07/10/2025 16:47     Subject: If you had an affair that lasted longer than a year, tell me about it
What is the profile of the typical man who has an affair with a married woman? I would be scared to do so because I am a man and I know how we unpredictable we men can be when angry. It takes an extreme amount of courage to f**k another man's wife.
Anonymous
Post 07/10/2025 16:41     Subject: If you had an affair that lasted longer than a year, tell me about it
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My wife had an affair that lasted 20 months. She is in a 1 bedroom apartment now and I have full custody. If someone tells you that it's 50/50 for everything regardless of affairs they are just too broke to afford a great lawyer.

Gee, I wonder why she had an affair.


She had an affair because of her own poor choices.
Anonymous
Post 07/10/2025 16:14     Subject: If you had an affair that lasted longer than a year, tell me about it
“If women were getting the attention they craved at home, they wouldn’t have stepped out in the first place. That’s easy to understand. But I’m sure men feel the same way. It’s tragic how we let our relationships atrophy.”

This is an opinion with no foundation in accountability or reality, but mostly a justification for destructive behavior. Cheaters cheat because life is hard and they are weak, period.
Anonymous
Post 07/10/2025 15:03     Subject: If you had an affair that lasted longer than a year, tell me about it
Anonymous wrote:My wife had an affair that lasted 20 months. She is in a 1 bedroom apartment now and I have full custody. If someone tells you that it's 50/50 for everything regardless of affairs they are just too broke to afford a great lawyer.

Gee, I wonder why she had an affair.
Anonymous
Post 07/10/2025 15:01     Subject: If you had an affair that lasted longer than a year, tell me about it
Anonymous wrote:I don’t think I would care as long as it’s private, safe and makes spouse happier. Maybe I’ve been married too long but it’s just unrealistic to expect one person to meet your emotional/ physical needs forever. That being said a serial cheater isn’t good but if they had a real connection with someone I would understand that.


OMG you are the dream wife lol.
Anonymous
Post 07/10/2025 14:59     Subject: If you had an affair that lasted longer than a year, tell me about it
My wife had an affair that lasted 20 months. She is in a 1 bedroom apartment now and I have full custody. If someone tells you that it's 50/50 for everything regardless of affairs they are just too broke to afford a great lawyer.