Anonymous
Post 06/12/2025 23:13     Subject: Teen girls and casual sex
Anonymous wrote:Wait for college where a ménage a trois is the new trend.


New? Hardly lol
Anonymous
Post 06/12/2025 20:47     Subject: Teen girls and casual sex
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Anonymous wrote:Quick question--do you mean that they are having literal sexual intercourse casually? I recall there being a lot of "hooking up" in high school (and at beach week) that did not involve literal sex. Are you just assuming it's actual sex? I am wondering if times have changed that much...


+1

I "hooked up" a bunch in college, but did not have sex, including oral sex until I was 20/21 in a serious relationship. I was the last of my college friends to have sex, most had by the time they started Freshman year or else shortly thereafter. This was 25 years ago.

Not sure guys would consider this "hooking up".


Yes that is not really “hooking up” by definition for either boys or girls.


In college, hooking up meant a wide range of things from making out to hands down pants to full on sex.


Not at my college back in 2002 to 2006 hooking up meant sex.
Anonymous
Post 06/12/2025 20:45     Subject: Re:Teen girls and casual sex
Anonymous wrote:I can’t believe any reasonable adult would chaperone and condone underaged drinking. I’m not a pearl clutcher either. I know what happens at beach week. I went to beach week myself, which is why there is no chance on Earth that I would call myself a chaperone in that setting. I can also say with 100% certainty that even years ago when we went to beach week if anyone’s parent was “chaperoning” us they wouldn’t have tolerated or condoned the behaviors.

If you’re supposed to be the adult in the situation then be the adult. Don’t gossip about it like you’re one of the girls. You’re not supposed to be their friend down there. You’re supposed to actually chaperone.


But I thought Beach Week was to figure out if they could handle college. You don't have chaperones in college.
Anonymous
Post 06/12/2025 20:42     Subject: Teen girls and casual sex
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Anonymous wrote:Quick question--do you mean that they are having literal sexual intercourse casually? I recall there being a lot of "hooking up" in high school (and at beach week) that did not involve literal sex. Are you just assuming it's actual sex? I am wondering if times have changed that much...


+1

I "hooked up" a bunch in college, but did not have sex, including oral sex until I was 20/21 in a serious relationship. I was the last of my college friends to have sex, most had by the time they started Freshman year or else shortly thereafter. This was 25 years ago.

Not sure guys would consider this "hooking up".


Yes that is not really “hooking up” by definition for either boys or girls.


In college, hooking up meant a wide range of things from making out to hands down pants to full on sex.
Anonymous
Post 06/12/2025 17:10     Subject: Re:Teen girls and casual sex
Only really messed up girls are hooking up casually.
Anonymous
Post 06/12/2025 17:10     Subject: Re:Teen girls and casual sex
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I can’t believe any reasonable adult would chaperone and condone underaged drinking. I’m not a pearl clutcher either. I know what happens at beach week. I went to beach week myself, which is why there is no chance on Earth that I would call myself a chaperone in that setting. I can also say with 100% certainty that even years ago when we went to beach week if anyone’s parent was “chaperoning” us they wouldn’t have tolerated or condoned the behaviors.

If you’re supposed to be the adult in the situation then be the adult. Don’t gossip about it like you’re one of the girls. You’re not supposed to be their friend down there. You’re supposed to actually chaperone.


Ever thought about what "underage" really means?

The drinking age was any age for thousands of years. Then the Temperance Movement started in the early 1900s, and raised it to 12 in many countries. Then it was raised again to 18 where it stayed until recent times, then in the 1980s powerful lobbyist groups led by Reagan and that MADD bunch got it raised to 21 nationwide eventually.

It's all so arbitrary and nonsensical.


All laws are arbitrary. What’s your point?
Anonymous
Post 06/12/2025 16:26     Subject: Re:Teen girls and casual sex
Anonymous wrote:I can’t believe any reasonable adult would chaperone and condone underaged drinking. I’m not a pearl clutcher either. I know what happens at beach week. I went to beach week myself, which is why there is no chance on Earth that I would call myself a chaperone in that setting. I can also say with 100% certainty that even years ago when we went to beach week if anyone’s parent was “chaperoning” us they wouldn’t have tolerated or condoned the behaviors.

If you’re supposed to be the adult in the situation then be the adult. Don’t gossip about it like you’re one of the girls. You’re not supposed to be their friend down there. You’re supposed to actually chaperone.


Ever thought about what "underage" really means?

The drinking age was any age for thousands of years. Then the Temperance Movement started in the early 1900s, and raised it to 12 in many countries. Then it was raised again to 18 where it stayed until recent times, then in the 1980s powerful lobbyist groups led by Reagan and that MADD bunch got it raised to 21 nationwide eventually.

It's all so arbitrary and nonsensical.
Anonymous
Post 06/12/2025 16:23     Subject: Teen girls and casual sex
Anonymous wrote:Why is this directed to the girls, OP? The boys at our HS are the biggest trash dix, not the girls.


How does that work though? Or are you saying the boys are mostly having sex with each other?
Anonymous
Post 06/12/2025 16:18     Subject: Teen girls and casual sex
Anonymous wrote:We’ve removed all boundaries around sexual behavior for these kids. They think of sex as nothing deeper than a conversation with someone. I don’t think it’s good for their mental health, but I’m not in charge of the world.


Very true.

All the in your face stuff, parades, events, etc. about all kinds of sexual stuff has made it where kids will seek more extreme forms of sex and porn to satisfy their curiosities. Soon violent rape and beastiality will be the norm again.

It's somewhat fascinating to watch the whole thing unfold and implode.
Anonymous
Post 06/12/2025 16:15     Subject: Teen girls and casual sex
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Anonymous wrote:Its beach week and they are adults.

“The science” says maybe by age 26 they’ll act like adults.

Most "adults" with "fully developed brains" still act like teenagers and worse. Get real.

The human brain NEVER stops developing. That's trite propaganda disguised as "science" when they quote that garbage.
Anonymous
Post 06/12/2025 16:15     Subject: Teen girls and casual sex
What did you and the other parents agree the rules were re chaperoning, OP?
Anonymous
Post 06/12/2025 16:13     Subject: Re:Teen girls and casual sex
Anonymous wrote:I can’t believe any reasonable adult would chaperone and condone underaged drinking. I’m not a pearl clutcher either. I know what happens at beach week. I went to beach week myself, which is why there is no chance on Earth that I would call myself a chaperone in that setting. I can also say with 100% certainty that even years ago when we went to beach week if anyone’s parent was “chaperoning” us they wouldn’t have tolerated or condoned the behaviors.

If you’re supposed to be the adult in the situation then be the adult. Don’t gossip about it like you’re one of the girls. You’re not supposed to be their friend down there. You’re supposed to actually chaperone.


What’s unbelievable to me is that any reasonable adult would chaperone and condone this just, meaningless, often-underaged, frequent s*x by these mere teens! (especially the girls!)
Anonymous
Post 06/12/2025 16:13     Subject: Teen girls and casual sex
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Anonymous wrote:There’s nothing empowering about abortion. I’ll never forget one young woman (speaking from experience) saying:
“Your life will never be the same.”

Heartbreaking.


I had one. Zero regrets and zero impact on my life. Not everyone is that dramatic

Many factors go in to how one feels about their abortion(s) as time goes on. Consider yourself lucky.


You never know how you will feel down the road. Not to mention, you sound like you are in denial to feel nothing.


Life goes on for these girls.



Exactly.

Is there anyone here (born and raised in the USA only), who never had any casual s*x in college?? (which normally begins at age 18, btw).



I didn’t, and lots of my friends didn’t - plenty did - but there is a big group who didn’t.

I am not judgemental about my friends who had casual sex - the majority of the time I think they felt like it was their choice and that felt empowering, but few thought the sex was good (usually bad) so ultimately not that satisfying.

I don’t think having casual sex should be normalized- it’s actually not the “typical” experience or even the experience of the majority of teenagers or college age kids.


I never did, literally - not religious or anything else, just not my scene. But more power if people want to
Anonymous
Post 06/12/2025 16:13     Subject: Teen girls and casual sex
Zoomers and younger millennials are "hookup" culture and have tons of casual sex.

People think that kids these days are less discreet about sex because of all that is exposed or shared via phones/online, but they probably more discreet about it since social media gossip could wreck their reputation and make it harder to hook up or their parents could find out, so it's just a small % that are found out online. Imagine all the ones that don't and keep their hookups on the downlow.

Double edge sword that technology, but the upshot is yeah, kids are having tons of casual sex now.
Anonymous
Post 06/12/2025 16:12     Subject: Teen girls and casual sex
Anonymous wrote:Where is this happening OP, and what is your role and purpose as chaperone? It all seems very bizarre.


I don't think there is necessarily anytthing wrong with what they are doing, but if you are going as a chaperone, is the point to just be present in case of medical emergencies?