Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:if you dont want me to come to your wedding, then just say so! lol
my sister is having one. will cost over $20k to fly, get lodging, etc... so, um, no. DH, DS and i will be toasting from afar
just really hurts, i would have loved to have been there
Wow. I'm not saying you are wrong or judging at all, but is your sister ok with this? Everyone always says, "Just don't go," but I have no idea how this plays out in real life.
Anonymous wrote:Selfish and self centered. I felt this way when I was 22 and single and I still feel this way 45 and married (and high income.) Don't tell me where and when to spend my PTO and my travel budget.
I do not count "the bride is from Wisconsin so the wedding is there" as a "destination wedding." Those types are just the way it often is in this world we live in where young adults move away from family for school and jobs.
Anonymous wrote:I think they are great if that is what the folks getting married want to do. But I'm not attending; if I'm going to spend money and time on a vacation destination, I'm going to choose it and I'm going to be doing what I want to do.
Anonymous wrote:Like you, how I feel about them has depended on what stage I am in life. I don’t feel obligated to go ever so I only go if I really want to.
Anonymous wrote:Why are so many of you so angry about destination weddings? If you don’t want to or can’t go, then don’t go. You don’t have to viciously attack the bride and groom, and accuse them of being selfish! It’s their lives, not yours. Jesus.
A good friend of ours just had a destination wedding in Europe, and we went and it was fantastic! You all need to lighten up.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why would you take 3 kids to a destination wedding? Just have the adults go. Jfc you can’t blame everyone else for your lack of brain cells.
Where are you leaving the kids then???
Anonymous wrote:I'm single and childless and I hate them. If I'm using my vacation time and budget, I want to have an actual vacation. Attending someone else's wedding is not a vacation.
Anonymous wrote:Hate them. Entitled couples. Fly off and get married. Leave us out.